09/04/2025
I think this is so true and something that I never appreciated when I first started teaching. So many people in my classes meet for coffee, catch up about their lives (often during the warm up š¤£), check in with each other when life is hard, give each other lifts to class when their cars have broken down. Classes are as a much about making a social connection as they are actually doing Pilates āŗļø.
Group fitness classes arenāt just about exercise, Mikala Jamison wrote in 2024. https://theatln.tc/z5fhRvrd
When Jamison was teaching indoor cycling, she was the nicest version of herself: āwarm, welcoming, and encouraging to the point of profound corniness, despite my usual caustic tendencies,ā she writes. People that met in her class started dating; strangers went out for coffee. āThese experiences have convinced me that group fitness classes are the best place to make friends as an adult,ā she continues, āan idea supported by research that suggests that the glow of exerciseās feel-good chemicals has interpersonal benefits.ā
Once, friendships were born in what the sociologist Ray Oldenburg called āthird placesā: physical spaces that arenāt a home or a workplace, donāt charge (much) for entry, and exist in large part to foster conversation. Group classes donāt quite fit in that definitionāthey can cost money, and their primary activities are āsweating, grunting, and skipping a few reps when the instructor isnāt looking,ā Jamison writes. āBut they fulfill many conditions that social-psychology research has repeatedly shown to help forge meaningful connections between strangers: proximity (being in the same place), ritual (at the same time, over and over), accumulation (for many hours), and shared experiences or interests (because you do and like the same things)āāa less awkward way to find people with similar interests than at work or at a party.
Even if you donāt find your next best friend at Zumba class, getting into a fitness habit might help you step out of your comfort zone and make more friends in other spaces.
āA room full of grown adults flailing, shouting, and running miles without ever going anywhere is a fundamentally ridiculous prospect,ā Jamison continues. āRidiculous things, however, play a crucial role in connecting with others: They make us laugh.ā
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šØ: Debora Szpilman