Dragonfly therapist

26/09/2025

🔥 Friday Flame – September 26, 2025
Ace of Wands | Seven of Pentacles | Sire of Wands

This week, the dragons speak of sparks, patience, and sovereign fire.

🪄Ace of Wands – the spark of new fire.
Something has stirred in you this week - a fresh idea, an inspiration, or a desire to begin anew. The dragons remind us: it doesn’t need to be fully formed. Honour the spark. Even the smallest flame can light the path ahead.

🪙Seven of Pentacles – the pause of patience.
Not every seed sprouts overnight. This card asks: where are you being invited to pause, to trust the slow unfolding? The dragons whisper: tending is as sacred as igniting. Your devotion, even in waiting, shapes what is to come.

🪄Sire of Wands – the sovereign of fire.
This is the dragon of mature flame - fire that is directed, not scattered. He asks: how can you hold your passion with steadiness? Where can you lead with clarity, so that your spark becomes not a fleeting blaze, but a guiding torch?

The story of this week:
🔥 A spark was lit.
🌱 Patience was called for.
🔥 And now you are asked to rise, holding your fire with steady vision.

✏️ Looking back on your week, where did you feel the spark? Where were you asked to wait? And where might you be ready to step forward with grounded passion?

✨ For me, this reading echoed the rhythm of my past two weeks - the pause while I was away, the spark of renewal on my return, and the reminder to hold that fire with steady vision. It felt like a personal mirror as much as a collective one.

With love & flame,
Vanessa

22/09/2025

✨I’ve just returned from an incredibly powerful weekend in Wales, with the Circle of Light, and my heart is still glowing. ✨

Together, we held sacred space to transmute heavy collective energy, anchor light codes, and support each other in the work that only we can bring. Each of us carried a unique element of this work, like threads weaving into a greater tapestry, and together we formed a circle that amplified our intention, our love, and our remembrance.

We were held and protected by guardian spirits, including plenty of dragons 🐉, their presence anchoring strength and courage. We also received a beautiful, unexpected message from a bat in the middle of the day reminding us that guidance often comes in mysterious and magical forms.

All of this was preparation for the equinox and the second part of the Year 9 collective journey - a time of balancing, release, and planting seeds of transformation for what is coming next.

I'm grateful beyond words for the circle, for the land, for the unseen currents, and for the dragons who remind us that magic is real, and that we are never alone in this work. 💫

18/09/2025

Back in Wales with the Circle of Light, to weave sacred work with the turning of the seasons. This land is so magical ❤️

16/09/2025

Something very special came home with me from the Spirit Fayre....this beautiful Mother of Dragon bowl 🐉💜

The story behind it feels like pure synchronicity. As many of you know, I walk the path as the Mother of Dragons. So when this majestic bowl appeared, I knew she was meant to journey with me.

I'll be incorporating this bowl into my 1:1 Dragon Mother's Embrace programme, using its sound and energy to support transformation and sacred connection with my clients.

If this video resonates with you, I'd love for you to share your thoughts and experiences below.

If you feel called to be guided by dragon energy to reclaim your truth, your power, your light - reach out or visit my website.

https://www.dragonflytherapist.uk

13/09/2025

I'm here at The Royal British Legion, Leighton Buzzard, all set up and ready to welcome visitors when doors open at 11am.

There's so much on offer here...readings, jewellery, crystals, therapies, and so much more!

Pop in and say hello! It'll be so nice to see you 💜

12/09/2025

🔥 Friday Flame – September 12, 2025
The Chariot | Judgement | The Universe

This week, the dragons weave a story of movement, awakening, and completion.

The Chariot – moving forward, willpower
Energy has been stirring, pushing you to move forward. Maybe you’ve been gathering your focus, or finally choosing a direction after hesitation. The Chariot reminds us: progress isn’t about rushing - it’s about aligning your energy and moving with intention.

Judgement – awakening
When we move, life reflects back to us what’s ready to shift. This week may have brought moments of clarity, or even reckoning. Old stories, habits, or roles could have asked to be released. Judgment calls us to listen - what in you is ready to rise into something truer?

The Universe – completion, integration, closure
Something this week may have clicked into place, even if quietly. An old cycle may be drawing to a close, creating space for a new one to begin. The Universe reminds us that every ending carries a seed of beginning.

Honour the step you’ve taken, however small.
Honour the truth you’ve seen, however subtle.
And honour the ending, however quiet.
Each is part of the larger weave - guiding you toward what’s next.

💭 Looking back on your week - where did you feel movement? What truth rose to the surface? And what feels complete, ready to be let go?

With love & flame,
Vanessa

10/09/2025

✨🐉 Join Me at the Spirit Fayre! 🐉✨

I’m so excited to share that I’ll be at the Deer Spirit Psychic & Wellbeing Fayre in Leighton Buzzard on Saturday, bringing a little slice of dragon magic to your day!

Come and explore:
✨ Dragonfire Bracelets — handcrafted & infused with intention
✨ Sacred Journals — for your soul writing & reflection
✨ Dragonheads & mystical treasures
✨ Guidance on my Sacred Services & Programmes

💫 Come say hello, connect, and discover the magic!

📍 Location: Royal Bristish Legion, Leighton Buzzard
🕒 Time: 11-5pm

05/09/2025

🔥 Friday Flame – September 5, 2025
3 of Swords | 2 of Wands | Sire of Pentacles

This week, the dragons tell a story of heartbreak, vision, and steady building.

3 of Swords - a dragon of sorrow and storm.
For some, this may have been personal - a disappointment, a fracture, or an old wound resurfacing. For others, it may have been the heaviness of the collective field - grief, injustice, or uncertainty rippling through the world around us.
Heartbreak is not only an ending, it is a clearing. It carves the heart wide enough to hold truth.

2 of Wands - the dragon of vision at the threshold.
Out of sorrow, a choice always emerges: do we stay fixed in the pain, or do we lift our gaze to the horizon?
Every ending contains the spark of a new direction. What vision is stirring in you now, personally and collectively? What future are you being asked to turn toward?

Sire of Pentacles - the patient earth dragon.
He carries the wisdom of slow, steady creation. The new world is not built overnight, nor is your vision.
What matters most is not how quickly you move, but how deeply you root. Step by step, breath by breath, your devotion becomes the soil for lasting growth.

So the story of this week is this:
💔 Pain revealed truth - in your heart, and in the world.
🔥 A spark of vision asked to be seen.
🌱 Now comes the grounding - the steady tending of what truly matters.

Even in heartbreak, your fire endures. And from that fire, a new path can be born. One step, one seed, one act of devotion at a time.

💭 Looking back on your week, where did you feel the heartbreak? What vision rose beyond it? And how might you begin to root that vision, personally and collectively?

With love & flame,
Vanessa

29/08/2025

🔥 Friday Flame – August 29, 2025
The Shaman (I) | Justice (XI) | Queen of Swords

This week, the dragons weave a story of awakening, truth, and clarity.

The Shaman - a reminder that you are a co-creator with spirit, holding the tools of transformation in your hands. Perhaps this week you felt the spark of possibility, the sense that something wanted to be birthed through you.

Justice (XI) – the scales of truth and consequence. Creation is never separate from alignment. The dragons ask: what is the deeper truth beneath your intentions? Are you weaving from integrity, or from illusion? This is the pause where we’re asked to weigh what matters, to cut away what does not belong.

Queen of Swords – clear, perceptive, uncompromising wisdom.
She arrives as the clarity that follows discernment. The vision is clear, the path free of what is unnecessary, and you are invited to step forward with both wisdom and precision. Her gift is liberation - the freedom that comes when the fog is gone and you can finally see.

So the story of this week is this:
✨ You were given the tools.
⚖️ You were asked to weigh the truth.
🗡 And now, you are called to walk forward with clarity.

The dragons whisper: your flame is strongest when it burns clean - no distortion, no compromise, only the steady light of your truth.

Looking back on your week, where have you been walking this journey? What have you been asked to create, to weigh, and to see clearly? I'd love to hear what this week revealed for you.

With love & flame,
Vanessa

28/08/2025

❤ When Rituals Speak: Reflections on Loss and Kinship

Attending a Chinese funeral reminded me how rituals help us say goodbye, process grief, and honour those we've lost. It also reminded me how rare it is for family to gather - and how important it is not to wait for life's big events to reconnect.

Family, connection, and remembrance matter more than we often realise. Let's make time for each other while we can 💛

Read more here:
https://dragonflytherapist.uk/blog/when-rituals-speak

Reflections on Loss and Kinship