
12/07/2025
And just like that… I have two children in double digits!
Thinking back to the day when Ray was born in the birthing pool at home, I can’t believe we’re now here 10 years later.
Going from one to two children was easier than the first time in some ways as we were more confident in what to do with a newborn and much more prepared for the first year of babyhood. It was also more difficult as there was the guilt of splitting your time between two children, not wanting Matilda to feel pushed aside and the logistics of making sure two little ones were fed, sleeping, clean and happy.
And now with each birthday they have it’s becoming more emotional. There’s the pride and excitement, but also the heartache of watching them grow up.
This gorgeous boy has taught us the importance of slowing down, of appreciating the detail in things and that cuddles and your safe space are key to happiness.
Being a parent is wonderfully heartbreaking. Look after yourself as much as you look after them. And learn to ask for help and support x