DNA Uncovers The Truth About Who My Dad Is & The 39/40 Years Shock

03/10/2023

19/09/2023

39 days until we get married,always dreamed of having my supposed dead dad walking me down the aisle used to be dead gutted it couldn't happen cuz he was dead however he isn't dead. However it's not going to happen,things didn't work out how I would of liked but hey s**t happens so instead I will have my oldest an youngest boys walking me down the aisle with my girly & family friends. Maybe one day things will be different however i won't allow just anyone to come in our life, create a relationship with my kids & then they drop them like a sack of hot potatoes. And whether we like it or not myself they will always have a part of some of you in them but they ain't rubbish an i won't allow them to be treated that way. The kids have been through enough trauma as it is. I'm gutted I never got to have a normal life growing up with grandparents, aunts,uncles,cousins etc but I'm guessing either my mom didn't know who my dad was or she did an she didn't tell me for whatever reasons. Maybe the truth was best left hidden who knows. The past year has been really tough an has had us rocked an shocked to the core with my mom passing the breast cancer,the mastectomy,the chemo & my hospital admissions due to my body's reactions to the chemo,to falls,to from being able bodied to using crutches (hopefully temporary). It's been not just a massive thing for all the family but it's been a massive thing for me too, all my emotions have been somewhat overloaded and overlooked because of the past year,thr meds and the tiredness. It's been overwhelming but I'm on the beginning of my journey to self healing an in 39 days I will be Mrs Brighton 😳😍 an leaving many doors closed behind me & starting a new beginning with everyone who matters. I didn't ask to be born but here I am.

16/09/2023

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12/09/2023

This is about me starting my healing process.

12/09/2023

Please Note I'm forever grateful to all those who took a dna test & to those who are accepting of a stranger they don't an haven't ever known as their family.❤️💞 I will update the page as much as I can, this is about me & my feelings,thoughts & wonders an if I could of done anything differently would I of done etc I am still very much in emotional shock that all these years that my dad was alive and that I had/have a huge family out there an that I never got to experience meeting grandparents,aunt,great aunt's and great uncle's, never got to experience having cousins. I had an sort of Unofficial adopted nan,Unofficial adopted uncle's & Unofficial adopted auntie & cousins but there was always those pieces missing & the longing of wanting to know & belong somewhere. I understand it's been a huge shock for everyone and sometimes we do things out of anger,hurt and resentment. And if I've ever offended any of my paternal bio family I apologise but I hope I've not. Blessings to you all

12/09/2023

Just a little or rather a lot of information lol. When I was very young I was led to believe that my bio father died in a motorbike accident. I've always been interested amd fascinated with family history,genealogy and dna from as long as I can remember. My mom raised us me an my 2 half brothers on her own. Rest her soul.
Last year my whole world came crashing down,My mom passed away, I was diagnosed with breast cancer.

One day I checked my dna test for new matches but thought nah like ain't going to get anything but to my surprise there was a high match,I spoke to the person managing(very thankful to them they know who they are❤️) the kit,it was their partners kit, so they then spoke to one of their uncle's who I then spoke with and they took a kit too (forever grateful,they know who they are) ❤️,during some point of the year although originally I thought I wasn't interested I got curious and tracked my bio father.

It's amazing what information people close to them had put public on social media so me being the person I am found an address on 192.com off who I thought was their kids(my suspected bio father & his wife)but turned out they were actually my bio father's wife's kids) so I wrote a letter expecting no response whatsoever as it had been many years off the electoral roll but thought I would take a chance an see what flowed or what didn't flow. I received a call in fairness a few calls, my suspected bio father was great at first,accepting,told me about his kids(my half siblings),stepkids and grandkids & step grandkids,did a dna test (forever grateful ❤️) I sent which came back matching us as father & child and everything,willing to meet up but due to sadly hospital admissions due to my reaction to chemo we didn't get a chance.

I thought everything was fine and being who i am i brought some Christmas presents and sent them down. Sadly I couldn't get there to deliver them myself as was still quite ill an royal mail were on strike an my maternal half brother was a courier so I asked him to drop them off for me as he owed me plenty of favours an would save on the postage. I assume this offended them as I then found myself blocked by my father but not his wife, then I was unblocked(I am constantly either blocked or not blocked).

Sometime in Feb 2023 his wife called, my bio dad was in background said sorry etc an we was going to meet up that weekend unfortunately my daughter fell ill an was admitted to hospital. His wife whatsapped me or texted said leave this wknd cuz of little lady,unfortunately not long after my daughter's discharge I fell ill an was admitted to hospital and didn't have the minutes or texts to text or call an was using hospital WiFi however I didn't have the energy to reply back to them as I was still trying to make sense in my head of it which to this day I'm still doing so heard nothing since. I wished my bio father a happy birthday via his wife's WhatsApp on his birthday which he happens to share with one of my son's.

I have thanked him & wished him an my 2 previous stepfather's a Happy father's day on my old Facebook as without them,We would not be here today. I know during some of our conversations they wanted to tell the kids themselves however I can not control what others may or may not of said.

I will protect everyone's ID. ❤️

This page is not for a slanging match an for anyone to take their crap out on me. I have emotions too although I may not always show it but I am still deeply hurt about it all and I do hope that one day we can all move on and maybe forgive amd reconcile before it's too late. I only sadly know that too well.

This page is for my side of the story, for all the years of believing my father was dead to find he wasn't and is alive,happy and well with his wife,kids & stepkids & grandchildren and about how my children have grown up with no grandfather's in their lives an how they were excites about having possibly new grandparents as both their grandmother's passed last year 2022 an their paternal grandfather died many years ago before I met their father.
If you got this far thank you. Love & blessings to all ❤️💜💙💞💞

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