Borderline Personality Disorder - BPD Edgbaston Birmingham

Borderline Personality Disorder - BPD Edgbaston Birmingham BPD is a disorder marked by a pattern of ongoing instability in moods, behaviour, self-image, and functioning. Call Stuart: 07825 599340 Genetics. Brain Factors.

Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a disorder marked by a pattern of ongoing instability in moods, behavior, self-image, and functioning. These experiences often result in impulsive actions and unstable relationships. A person with BPD may experience intense episodes of anger, depression, and anxiety that may last from only a few hours to days. Some people with BPD also have high rates of co

-occurring mental disorders, such as mood disorders, anxiety disorders, and eating disorders, along with substance abuse, self-harm, suicidal thinking and behaviors, and su***de. While mental health experts now generally agree that the label "borderline personality disorder" is very misleading, a more accurate term does not exist yet. The 9 symptoms of BPD
Fear of abandonment. People with BPD are often terrified of being abandoned or left alone. ...
Unstable relationships. ...
Unclear or unstable self-image. ...
Impulsive, self-destructive behaviors. ...
Self-harm. ...
Extreme emotional swings. ...
Chronic feelings of emptiness. ...
Explosive anger. Seemingly ordinary events may trigger symptoms. For example, people with BPD may feel angry and distressed over minor separations—such as vacations, business trips, or sudden changes of plans—from people to whom they feel close. Studies show that people with this disorder may see anger in an emotionally neutral face and have a stronger reaction to words with negative meanings than people who do not have the disorder. The causes of BPD are not yet clear, but research suggests that genetic, brain, environmental and social factors are likely to be involved. BPD is about five times more likely to occur if a person has a close family member (first-degree biological relatives) with the disorder. Environmental and Social Factors. Many people with BPD report experiencing traumatic life events, such as abuse or abandonment during childhood. Others may have been exposed to unstable relationships and hostile conflicts. However, some people with BPD do not have a history of trauma. And, many people with a history of traumatic life events do not have BPD. Studies show that people with BPD have structural and functional changes in the brain, especially in the areas that control impulses and emotional regulation. However, some people with similar changes in the brain do not have BPD. More research is needed to understand the relationship between brain structure and function and BPD. Call Stuart - 07825 599340

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12/02/2025
The Final Separation between partners after a long relationship is difficult, not just emotionally but also physiologica...
12/02/2025

The Final Separation between partners after a long relationship is difficult, not just emotionally but also physiologically.

Throughout the relationship, even one with problems, both individuals activate neural networks that produce chemical neurotransmitters and peptides, giving their experiences a certain emotional tone and reinforcing their personalities.

The two become so accustomed to the relationship that, even when they decide to end it, they cannot immediately destroy the neural connections and chemical attachments between them.

After the breakup, memories of their experiences remind the body that it is now deprived of its usual chemical stimulation.

The pain of ending a relationship can be caused by the interruption of a neurological habit.

Considering the chemistry of emotional dependence, it’s no surprise that so many couples break up, reunite, and then repeat the cycle.

We may separate from others, but we remain chemically dependent on the emotional states generated by the relationship, at least for a period of time.

When we feel a certain attraction toward a partner, we are convinced that they are the right one for us.

However, most of the time, the person we are drawn to reflects the unresolved emotional wounds we carry.

Often, when we feel a strong attraction to someone, it’s not just hormones at play- we are intuitively drawn to partners because we subconsciously believe they will help us resolve our emotional issues, even ones we are unaware of.

The more abandoned we feel, the more we are attracted to people who tend to abandon those who care about them.

Insomnia Lying awake at night, staring at the ceiling, feeling wired but exhausted? If that sounds familiar , there’s a ...
10/02/2025

Insomnia
Lying awake at night, staring at the ceiling, feeling wired but exhausted?
If that sounds familiar , there’s a good chance your cortisol levels are out of control.
And here’s the deal: high cortisol is more than just a bad night’s sleep—it’s a serious roadblock to your health, energy, and your ability to hit the flow state.
Cortisol is your body’s built-in alarm system.
It’s meant to help you handle stress, but when it sticks around too long—especially at night—it can wreak havoc on your sleep.
Studies show that elevated evening cortisol is one of the biggest culprits behind tossing and turning, disrupted sleep cycles, and that feeling of being “tired but wired”.
When your cortisol levels are too high in the evening, your body stays in a state of alertness, making it nearly impossible to relax and fall asleep.
And poor sleep doesn’t just affect your mood—it drags down your entire health, energy, and performance.
The Cost of High Cortisol:
1. Disrupted Sleep
High cortisol messes with your body’s natural circadian rhythm, making it harder to fall asleep and stay asleep. You wake up feeling drained, no matter how long you’ve been in bed.
2. Increased Stress and Anxiety
Cortisol is linked to heightened stress responses. If your cortisol stays high, your body is constantly in “fight-or-flight” mode, which leads to more stress, anxiety, and mental fog during the day.
3. Blocked Flow State
Cortisol doesn’t just affect your sleep—it blocks your ability to enter the flow state. The flow state is where you’re fully focused and performing at your best, but high cortisol keeps your brain stuck in overdrive, making it impossible to focus deeply or think creatively.
Now, imagine what happens when you cut evening cortisol by 25%.
You’re not just lowering your stress—you’re giving your body the green light to relax, sleep deeply, and wake up energized.
Lowering cortisol improves your sleep quality, reduces anxiety, and opens the door for you to finally access the flow state.
When cortisol comes down:
1. Deep, Restorative Sleep
Lower cortisol allows your body to enter its natural rest-and-recover mode, improving sleep quality and helping you wake up refreshed and ready to take on the day.
2. Reduced Anxiety, More Clarity
When your cortisol levels are balanced, you’ll notice less anxiety, better mental clarity, and an increased sense of calm. This sets you up for a more productive, focused day.
3. More Consistent Flow State
With cortisol in check, your mind and body can work together, making it easier to slip into the flow state—where creativity, focus, and high performance come effortlessly.
You don’t have to spend another night staring at the ceiling, trapped in a cycle of poor sleep and high stress.
Lowering your evening cortisol naturally is possible, and it’s the key to better sleep, more energy, and consistent access to the flow state.
Call Stuart - 07825 599340 to discuss your insomnia issue in more detail
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25/01/2025

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Borderline Personality Disorder Birmingham
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51-52 Calthorpe Road
Edgbaston
Birmingham
B15 1TH
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02/12/2023

02/12/2023

I had chased people for so long trying to convince them to love me to no avail.
I wanted to be loved so much that it clouded my judgement and made me want the right thing with the wrong person too often.
I never realized that you can’t make someone love you, no matter how hard you try and how much you want them to..
I fought to win the heart of potential partners and I tried to befriend people that weren’t meant to be in my life.
It’s a very upsetting feeling to get rejected by people that you want in your life..
Until you realize that they aren’t your people.
It’s hard lesson to learn, but the moment I met someone that I just clicked with from the first hello..
That’s when I realized the truth of love.
You can’t make anyone love you that doesn’t want to ..and the ones who are your people will love you, regardless of time, distance or behavior.
Those are my people..the ones that have my back, love me unconditionally and accept me, flaws and all.
I don’t have to talk them into my being my friend and loving me..they just do.
Love will come when it is time..and nothing I can do will change that.
I stopped trying to force people into what I thought my love story should be and started just loving myself more.
I’d let my friends find me however they were supposed to and I’d love them unconditionally when they finally showed up..
I worked on me and let true love find me when it was time.
I knew that it would happen when I least expect it in the most unexpected way..
And one fine afternoon, a simple hello from a beautiful soul reminded me why all the others never worked out.
When I stopped trying to love the wrong people and started going where the love is..
Everything changed.
I was so thankful that I stopped trying to force love and let it be..
Let it happen naturally, as love has rules all its own..and what we want doesn’t always work out.
And it made all the difference, after all.
I went where the love was, and I couldn’t have imagined a happier place to be..
Now or ever.|ravenwolf

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25/11/2023

When we met, you knew what kind of person I was..I was clear about my intentions.
I don’t play games nor tolerate players..I leave that amusement for those chasing shallow feelings and lackluster dreams.
No, I told you that I needed more, I craved the truth and I deserved the best.
If you’re not willing to step up and have a mature relationship, then now is the time to set the record straight.
I’m not settling for being an option, and I’m never going to be your “maybe.”
If you don’t know what you want or if you have to stop and think, then I’m not the one for you.
I play for keeps and I wear my heart on my sleeve- anything less than soul stirring, heart sparking passion doesn’t interest me..
I’ve kissed enough frogs to know that I’m holding out for the one who can make me feel like nothing I’ve ever known.
Maybe I’m a dreamer, but I want the kisses that bring forth butterflies, the touch that gives me chills, the look that singes my soul.
I don’t know if you’re up to the task and can handle my heat, but if you’re not willing to face the fire of my passion, then let’s just part ways now.
I’m never going to chase you, beg for your attention or be anything less than a priority.
I realize that you may think I’m a handful, too much or demanding, but I know my worth..that’s never changing.
I’m showing you who I am and you’ll always know where you stand with me..
So, I’m fiery, I’m strong willed and I’m one of a kind, and if you didn’t know that by now, start paying attention.
I’m not waiting around for you to figure it out, think about things or play the field, love isn’t a competition and I’m not a prize for your possession.
I’m real, I’m authentic and you’ll never meet another person like me.
Maybe you’re not ready, maybe you’re working things out or just don’t know what you want..and I’m good with that, everyone has their own path..
Just don’t expect me to be waiting for you at the end of the road, hoping you’ll let me love you.
I know I built high walls around my heart and I don’t just let anyone in..
But this is who I am and how I feel, take it or leave it.
Are you stepping up to try to win my heart or walking away?
I don’t need to be fixed or saved, I just want to be loved..just as I am.
I deserve that,
Now and always.
|ravenwolf

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19/01/2023

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)
Often a pattern of ongoing instability in moods, behaviour, self-image, ,anger (splitting) and abandonment can all be prevalent in BPD.
Specialised therapy for BPD - Call Stuart -07825 599340 for a free telephone conversation to discuss how BPD therapy will help you take back control .
Zoom online appointments available
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01/05/2022

Alcohol abuse and dependency can creep up on you - one more drink , one more bottle !
In Alcohol therapy we treat both the symptom - the alcohol and the root cause as to why it has taken hold .
Utilising many therapeutic techniques we can make fast progress to reclaim control .
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Online Zoom appointments available
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01/05/2022

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)
Often a pattern of ongoing instability in moods, behaviour, self-image, ,anger (splitting) and abandonment can all be prevalent in BPD.
Specialised therapy for BPD - Call Stuart -07825 599340 for a free telephone conversation to discuss how BPD therapy will help you take back control .
Zoom online appointments available
stuart@stuartdowning.co.uk

https://hypnotherapy4freedom.com/hypnotherapy-services/borderline-personality-disorder
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Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) Therapy - Edgbaston, Birmingham

Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a disorder marked by a pattern of ongoing instability in moods, behaviour, self-image, and functioning. These experiences often result in impulsive actions and unstable relationships. A person with BPD may experience intense episodes of anger, depression, and anxiety that may last from only a few hours to days. Some people with BPD also have high rates of co-occurring mental disorders, such as mood disorders, anxiety disorders, and eating disorders, along with substance abuse, self-harm, suicidal thinking and behaviours, and su***de. While mental health experts now generally agree that the label "borderline personality disorder" is very misleading, a more accurate term does not exist yet. The 9 symptoms of BPD Fear of abandonment. People with BPD are often terrified of being abandoned or left alone. ... Unstable relationships. ... Unclear or unstable self-image. ... Impulsive, self-destructive behaviours. ... Self-harm. ... Extreme emotional swings. ... Chronic feelings of emptiness. ... Explosive anger. Seemingly ordinary events may trigger symptoms. For example, people with BPD may feel angry and distressed over minor separations—such as vacations, business trips, or sudden changes of plans—from people to whom they feel close. Studies show that people with this disorder may see anger in an emotionally neutral face and have a stronger reaction to words with negative meanings than people who do not have the disorder. The causes of BPD are not yet clear, but research suggests that genetic, brain, environmental and social factors are likely to be involved. Genetics. BPD is about five times more likely to occur if a person has a close family member (first-degree biological relatives) with the disorder. Environmental and Social Factors. Many people with BPD report experiencing traumatic life events, such as abuse or abandonment during childhood. Others may have been exposed to unstable relationships and hostile conflicts. However, some people with BPD do not have a history of trauma. And, many people with a history of traumatic life events do not have BPD. Brain Factors. Studies show that people with BPD have structural and functional changes in the brain, especially in the areas that control impulses and emotional regulation. However, some people with similar changes in the brain do not have BPD. More research is needed to understand the relationship between brain structure and function and BPD.

Not all people with BPD are exactly alike and having BPD does not mean you are sick, unlikable, flawed or have some kind of illness or a bad personality.

Call Stuart – 0121 403 3163 / 07825 599340 for a free 30 minute confidential consultation.

Borderline Personality Disorder Birmingham Quadrant Court 51-52 Calthorpe Road Edgbaston Birmingham B15 1TH