05/05/2026
In those moments, it’s easy to see behaviour as a problem.
But the way you see the behaviour shapes everything that happens next.
When the thought is
“they’re being disrespectful”
it’s much harder to stay calm, think clearly, and respond in the way you actually want to.
But when you shift it towards
“they’re having a hard time and don’t know what to do right now”
your whole response changes.
You feel more regulated.
You can think more clearly.
You’re able to hold the boundary and support your child through the feeling.
And that’s where real learning happens.
Not just behaviour change…
but your child learning how to handle what they’re feeling.
I’m Amy, a coaching psychologist and mum, and I support parents to feel more clear and confident, so family life feels that bit easier.
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