05/03/2026
My birth was the most beautiful experience of my entire life, and not beautiful as in it was pain free or i sailed through it, of course it was painful, but pain is temporary.
I say this because the second you hold your baby in your arms, the pain disappears and a love you cant even imagine fills your existence.
I started my hypnobirthing course with Aimee in the Jan as i was due at the end of March, my pregnancy had physically been great with no issues, the man I had got pregnant to, however was a whole other story, having completely removed myself and my unborn daughter away from him, this is and was the safest thing i could have ever done and he still has and never will have any involvement in our lives.
Turning up to Aimees beautiful cosy cabin with my own mum as my partner, i cant lie, i was nervous, nervous of being judged, nervous of feeling sadness that my daughter didnt have a dad and that i was embarking on this journey completely alone.
I didnt have anything to be nervous about, Aimee not for a second judged me, made my mum feel welcome and involved and instantly gave me that warm fuzzy feeling i look back and now see was safety.
Completing the course i felt ready to give birth, not just physically (id been doing the birth ball exercises she recommended) my hips were wide and i was told baby was head down and engaged. The days running upto my birth i sat on my birthing ball, visualising my birth, because of Aimees training Id learnt the journey from babies point of view which changes how you see the whole thing. I knew not to be scared and not to force anything, baby will come when shes ready.
The doctors wanted to induce me before my due date, i declined this and a sweep as i knew there were risks (they dont automatically tell you this) again because of Aimees training i knew to ASK and I knew I had choices. It gave me the confidence to listen to my body but respect midwives and their medical opinion also.
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