27/08/2025
🖤Eb and Flow🤍
When embarking on a healing journey, or setting an intention for change, most people are searching to ‘fix themselves’ and their life, in the hope that things will get ‘better’
And yes, by healing, becoming more aware, more conscious, does result in the ability to see and navigate life more clearly
However, sometimes we do so much inner work we then expect things to start to go right in life all the time. So when a problem arises, we then drop into victim hood and start to play a story in our mind which looks like ‘why is this happening to me, I’ve done so much work on myself, I don’t deserve this’
We can sometimes develop a belief that because we are changing, healing, making better choices, we should no longer encounter such problems. Almost to the point where we start to believe that things should start to go right now, all the time.
What we sometimes forget is, we live in a world of duality. You can’t have light without dark. There will always be problems and there will always be solutions
Part of expansion is the innerstanding of this concept
By not allowing ourselves to drop into victimhood when something doesn’t go our way, allows us to think clearly, and navigate through problems quickly
When we accept that there will always be positive and negative things that happen in life, we free our self from the power they have over us.
Everyday we get to choose whether we fall victim to circumstance, or whether we accept duality and choose to navigate through challenges with ease and grace
💫GRATITUDE💫
This is why gratitude is so important. It’s not a feeling or an emotion to be felt when something goes right, it’s a frequency. It’s a frequency that takes dedication to attune yourself to. And the more you align with this frequency, the more you will attract things to be grateful for.
So instead of trying to manifest things into your life to feel grateful for, maybe try sitting and really feeling grateful for what you already have, problems and all.
If any of this resonates, you never know, you may just feel a shift 🖤🤍