21/01/2026
Today was a big day, I took a step forwards on the path of working as a doula, supporting and accompanying women on the path of motherhood.
The thing I find interesting is how many people presume that doula work is only for late stages of pregnancy and birth. What I am experiencing and learning is that there is a whole stage of motherhood which is taboo and often ignored. It is the stage of motherhood where women are often the most alone and in the dark about what is coming next.
The phase of motherhood is conception and fertility. Is this yet motherhood?! YES ! Motherhood begins the moment we decide we want to be a mother. The moment our consciousness begins to call in the soul of the being we are longing to mother. Motherhood does not just begin a moment in time when a baby is born, it is not defined by simply ‘being’ a mother. It is a unique, magical, sometimes painful and heart breaking journey.
This is where I am currently feeling called to support women, accompanying through these initial steps, when we don’t know what the future holds, when we are waiting those excruciating two weeks to do a test and find out more, when our heart aches from only one line, when we don’t know where to turn because it’s not the easiest conversation.
I want to celebrate together if pregnancy arrives, and also hold space for the paradox of joy and overwhelm. These previous first weeks where everything internally is different but externally you seem the same. Who do we speak to then? Who answers the questions and holds space for the in between, before the first doctors appointments, before the world knows, instead of just turning to chatGPT, in these tender first moments I want to be there to honour the wild ride of motherhood and to hold space for all that comes.
My heart longs that every woman feels this held, this support, this loved through each and every single moment of motherhood.