Infinite Energy Healing

02/08/2025

For ladies only! 90min SPECIAL includes, energy clearing and healing, aromatherapy body massage and reflexology all combined for only £63!!! Let me help you to relax - reconnect -heal. I can come to you or you can come to me. I am in Bournemouth. Please send a message to book a session.

22/06/2025

In a toxic relationship, it’s easy for outsiders to look at a woman and think she’s blind, naive, or stupid for staying… but what they don’t realize is, she knows. She knows exactly what’s going on. She sees the lies, feels the disrespect, and recognizes the patterns. She’s not clueless... she’s calculating. She’s preparing.
Because for a woman, leaving isn’t just about packing a bag or changing a number. It’s about mentally detaching from someone she once envisioned forever with. It’s about grieving a future that will never happen, untangling herself from emotional manipulation, and re-learning how to choose peace over chaos. That kind of exit takes strength most people will never understand.
She might still cook for him, sleep next to him, smile on the outside while dying inside... but she's already detaching. She’s not staying because she doesn’t know her worth. She’s staying because walking away while you're still emotionally tied is a trap. You’ll keep going back. And she refuses to do that.
So she waits… she heals in silence… and when that mental switch flips and her spirit is numb to his excuses, his charm, and his fake apologies… it’s done. She’s already gone long before she physically walks out. And when she does leave, don’t expect a warning. Don’t expect a tearful goodbye. Don’t expect closure.
Because when a woman finally leaves a toxic relationship from a place of clarity and peace... there’s no turning back. She doesn’t run, she walks. And she doesn’t just leave the man... she leaves the version of herself that ever tolerated less than she deserved.

16/06/2025

Detachment is the doorway to true freedom a gentle surrender of our need to control outcomes, possessions, or relationships that no longer serve our highest good.

In releasing our tight grip on the material world, we discover that lasting peace and joy spring from within untouched by life’s shifting circumstances.

This doesn’t mean we stop caring it means we care for ourselves first.

Letting go of what weighs us down old habits, expectations, or toxic connections becomes an act of deep self-love.

With open hands and an open heart, we make space for new possibilities and strengthen our resilience against whatever comes our way.

When we detach from specific outcomes, we find a calm adaptability that allows life’s surprises to become gifts instead of threats.

We learn to face challenges with grace, knowing our worth isn’t tied to success or approval.

As we soften around ourselves, we naturally extend compassion to others honoring their journeys without the need to fix or control.

Embrace detachment as a path to your truest self.

Release the past, let go of the future, and fully inhabit this present moment.

In surrendering what no longer serves, you uncover a radiant peace and the freedom to become exactly who you’re meant to be.❤️❤️

26/05/2025

Some people can't support you publicly because of how they talk about you privately. They’ve spent so much time downplaying your name behind closed doors that to stand beside you now would expose their own hypocrisy. They can’t cheer for you in the open without contradicting the false version of you they've painted in whispered conversations. To show up for you publicly would be to admit that they were wrong or worse, dishonest.

So instead, they remain quiet. They watch from the sidelines, pretending indifference while quietly keeping tabs. They may admire your resilience, your progress, even your light but they'll never say it out loud, because doing so would unravel the narrative they’ve created to feel more comfortable in their own insecurities.

Understand this - it’s not about your worth, your success, or your character. It’s about the stories people tell themselves to justify their lack of growth, their envy, or their guilt. When someone can’t support you in the open, it often has more to do with their internal conflict than anything you’ve done.

Let them talk in private. Let them stay in the shadows. You weren’t made to shrink for the comfort of the dishonest. Keep walking in your truth. The people who are meant for you will never be afraid to stand beside you—publicly, proudly, and without shame.

26/05/2025

You can't mistreat people and then act like they betrayed you, that's delusional. You can’t disregard someone’s feelings, take their kindness for weakness, or constantly put them last — and then be surprised when they finally choose to walk away.

People may stay silent for a while, they may endure more than they should, but everyone has a breaking point.

Loyalty doesn’t mean accepting abuse and love doesn’t mean tolerating disrespect.

You don’t get to lie, manipulate, ignore, or belittle someone, and then play the victim when they no longer trust you. You don’t get to treat people as if they’re disposable and then be confused when they no longer make you a priority.
Relationships — whether friendships, family bonds, or romantic connections are built on mutual respect, effort, and understanding. Without those, they crumble, not because someone gave up, but because someone got tired of being hurt.

What’s truly delusional is believing that people owe you endless forgiveness while you offer them nothing but pain in return.

What’s unfair is rewriting the story to make yourself look innocent when you know full well the part you played in their decision to walk away.

People don’t just switch up out of nowhere — they shift when they realize they’re no longer valued.

So if you find yourself constantly pointing fingers, take a moment to reflect - Were you honest? Were you fair? Did you show up for them the way they showed up for you? Or did you push them to a point where they had no choice but to protect their peace — even if that meant leaving you behind

Don’t confuse consequences with betrayal. Sometimes, the most loyal thing a person can do for themselves is to stop allowing themselves to be mistreated by someone they once cared about.

23/05/2025

I have to apologize to myself-for putting up with something I never deserved. I’ve spent so much of my life trying to be kind even when most people didn’t deserve it. I forgave too easily. I understood too deeply. I gave second chances (and third, and fourth) because I believed in the goodness within others. But lately I’ve come to realize how exhausting-and heartbreaking-it is to always prioritize someone else’s feelings while neglecting my own.

I’ve been so busy being nice that I let people cross boundaries they shouldn’t have. I smiled through disrespect nodded through dismissal and stayed silent as pieces of me were chipped away. Slowly but surely I lost myself in the process of protecting everyone else from pain.

And now... Now I see it clearly
I deserve an apology-to myself.

I’ve carried so much pain while shielding others from feeling any at all. I gave pieces of my heart to people who didn’t value them leaving me fragmented and hollow. I endured mistreatment pretending it was okay just to keep the peace. But here’s the truth - it wasn’t okay... Not for me.

It’s sad isn’t it...
I practiced kindness until it became a weapon used against me. Until people started taking advantage of the love I freely gave and somewhere along the way I forgot to extend that same compassion to myself.

Maybe being kind isn’t the problem-it’s giving endlessly without setting boundaries that drains you. It’s loving others so fiercely while letting yourself fade into the background.

So today I’m apologizing to myself for every tear I ignored every boundary I let slide every moment I chose someone else over me. I’m saying sorry for tolerating behavior no one should ever accept. For believing I had to shrink myself to make room for others.

From now on I’ll protect myself the way I’ve protected everyone else. I’ll reclaim the parts of me I gave away too carelessly. And I’ll remind myself daily that kindness starts at home-with me.

Because if I don’t stand up for myself nobody else will...

16/05/2025

15/05/2025

At 40 years old, the eagle faces a life or death choice -
Its talons have grown too long and curved they can no longer grasp prey,
Its beak becomes too bent it can’t tear food,
Its chest and wing feathers are too heavy they make flight nearly impossible.

Now the eagle has only two options -
die… or endure a long painful transformation...

It retreats to its mountaintop nest.
There it begins the brutal process of rebirth.

It smashes its beak against a rock until it breaks off.
Then it waits... Slowly and painfully a new beak grows.
With that beak it pulls out its old talons one by one.
And once those regrow the eagle uses them to rip out the heavy feathers from its chest and wings.

150 days of struggle, Pain, Isolation, and Silence.

But when the process is over it soars again.
Reborn
stronger and
free it lives on… for another 30 years.

Sometimes to truly live we must change.
Change often comes with fear, discomfort, even heartbreak
but clinging to what no longer serves us old habits, toxic patterns, and outdated beliefs weighs us down.
Only when we release the burden of the past can we rise into the future.

The pain of transformation is real but so is the power of rebirth.💗

14/05/2025

I healed myself when the world went quiet and no one showed up

I sat with the pain, felt every wound, and still chose to rise

I didn’t wait for someone to rescue me I became my own savior

Every tear, every setback, every lonely night became fuel

I rebuilt piece by piece, not for applause, not for recognition, but because I refused to stay broken

I’ve walked through storms with no umbrella, just grit, heart, and sheer willpower and I made it

So when I say I don’t need anyone, it’s not pride it’s power It’s the unshakable truth that I’ve stood alone and still stood tall

I’ve learned to be my own peace, my own strength, my own home

That doesn’t mean I don’t value connection it just means I no longer depend on it to survive

I know who I am
I know what I’ve overcome and I trust myself more than anyone ever could💗

12/05/2025

It's never too late to be what you might have been even if the road has been long and you feel like you've taken the wrong turns you still have time to
change. Every single day is a new chance to begin again. It doesn’t matter how many times you’ve failed or how many years have gone by but what matters is what you do now.
Your past does not define your future.
You can learn, grow, and become stronger with every step you take.
You can choose a new direction at any moment.
You can return to the dreams you once had or create brand new ones that inspire you today.
There is no limit to how many times you can begin again.
There is no rule that says you have to stay where you are if it no longer feels right.
You have the power to change your life little by little one day at a time. Some of the most beautiful stories begin after long struggles. Some of the strongest people are those who kept going even when it was hard. Don't be afraid of starting late but be proud that you are starting at all.
Your journey is yours alone and it doesn’t have to look like anyone else's.
You are allowed to dream big even now. You are allowed to want more from life and to work toward it with hope in your heart.
No matter your age your past or your fears, you still have time.
Believe in yourself keep going and remember that your story isn’t over yet.
Also always remember it's never too late to be what you might have been💗

06/05/2025

Dating a woman who has found her peace isn’t for everyone.
She’s not the kind of woman who will argue for hours, beg for attention, or tolerate chaos. She’s fought long and hard to create the calm she lives in now. She’s healed wounds you’ll never see. She’s let go of people she once thought she couldn’t live without. And because of that, she guards her peace like a treasure.
She’s clear about her boundaries. She won’t entertain confusion, mixed signals, or half-hearted effort. She doesn’t have the patience for games, and she’s not interested in fixing a man who doesn’t want to be whole on his own. If you’re not coming with clarity, consistency, and care, don’t expect to get close to her.
With her, you don’t get unlimited chances. You get one. Maybe two if she sees something worth saving. But she’s not the woman who sticks around to teach you how to love her. She expects a man to already know the value of respect, loyalty, and intentional effort.
Say the wrong thing, move selfishly, or take her for granted.....and she won’t yell, cry, or beg. She’ll simply remove herself. Silently, gracefully, and without a second thought. And once she’s gone, she’s gone for good. Not out of pride, but out of deep self-respect.
Because when a woman finds peace within herself, she refuses to let anyone disrupt it. She knows that protecting her peace is an act of love… and she loves herself too much to stay anywhere that feels chaotic, draining, or uncertain.
Dating a woman who’s found her peace is a privilege....not a right. And if you can’t match her peace, don’t expect to keep her.