28/07/2025
Helping Siblings Adjust To A New Baby In The Family .
Over the last month or so I have seen several cases of children experiencing difficulties and challenges in accepting a newborn into their lives . Of course there is nothing unusual about this as it represents a profound ' life - change ' for children but when natural adaptation doesn't occur and symptoms develop , rest assured that homeopathic remedies can be of real help .
The most common situation is that of jealousy . When an older sibling becomes overly possessive of mummy , pushing in between her and the new baby , particularly at feed times and reverts to earlier developmental patterns such as crawling when already walking or wanting to be on the breast when fully weaned or any other pattern that is a retrograde step for the child , Pulsatilla will restore confidence in the child as to their place in the family . Pulsatilla also helps the child to feel real pride in their developmental stage and abilities . It turns a negative into a positive and is the most commonly prescribed remedy for jealousy and sibling rivalry .
When Pulsatilla is the indicated remedy there will be many emotional outbursts , tears will well up at the slightest change in their previous routine and cuddles and one on one attention will be desperately craved . Parents are often tearful themselves at the deep sadness and need of a child so overwhelmed by the change that a new baby brings to the family . This reaction in the parents is itself an indication that the child needs Pulsatilla to set things right in his or her world . Tomorrow I will look at Lachesis for this same problem of jealousy but with this remedy a very different feeling arises in the parents towards the older child .
The essence of Pulsatilla is sweetness , kindness and passivity . When a child is in need of Pulsatilla we want to reach out with cuddles and reassurance , enveloping the child in a loving protectiveness . With Lachesis we can actually feel quite afraid of the intensity of a child's emotional storm .