02/04/2026
We had a lovely surprise visit from the relatives of Fay, one of our much-loved residents who passed away two years ago.
Fay was a remarkable lady, awarded an OBE for her services to teaching. She always wore this on her birthday and any royal occasions. This was as a result of the help with overseas teachers and helping them to settle in a new country. This help was continued in Elderthorpe when she always welcomed new residents and spent time reassuring them that they would be ok. She left a lasting impression on everyone who knew her.
One of her final wishes was to donate her body to the university for research, something she had thoughtfully included in her end-of-life care plan. We worked closely with the university ahead of time to ensure everything was in place and that her wishes could be carried out smoothly.
Her cousin Harry shared with us that he had recently collected her ashes, and while there, a lecturer told him, “The students have learnt a great deal from studying Fay, and asked for more time.”
It was incredibly moving to hear that Fay’s passion for teaching has continued to make a difference, even after her passing. We know she would have been so proud to play a part in educating future generations.
Rest in peace, Fay❤️