03/11/2023
November 2nd STRESS AWARENESS DAY
Stress is the reaction a body has when changes occur, resulting in physical, emotional and intellectual responses. We are designed to experience and react to stress. This is how we adapt to new situations. Stress can be positive, keeping us alert, motivated and ready to avoid danger. Stress becomes problematic when stressors continue without relief or periods of relaxation.
WHAT HAPPENS
The autonomic nervous system regulates involuntary physiologic processes including heart rate, blood pressure, respiration, digestion, visual changes, and arousal. It is made up of the sympathetic system (the built-in stress response, known commonly as the “fight-or-flight response,”) and the parasympathetic system (which promotes regulation and recovery and is sometimes called the “rest and digest” system). When a person has long-term (chronic) stress, continued activation of the stress response causes wear and tear on the body. Physical, emotional and behavioural symptoms develop.
PHYSICAL SIGNS
Physically tense
Shortness of breath, or breathing from the upper lungs, or rapid breaths.
Blurred eyesight or sore eyes
Poor sleep
Fatigue
Muscle aches and headaches
Chest pains and high blood pressure
Indigestion or heartburn
Constipation or diarrhoea
Feeling sick, dizzy or fainting
Sudden weight change
Skin rashes or itches
Sweating
Changes to the menstrual cycle
Existing physical health problems getting worse
Panic attacks
EMOTIONAL SYMPTOMS
Irritable, impatient, easily wound up or angry
Over-burdened or overwhelmed
Anxious or nervous
Racing thoughts, unable to switch off
Lack of joy
Depressed
Disinterest
Loss of humour
Worried or tense
Neglected or lonely
Worsening mental health
BEHAVIOURS
Indecision
Poor concentration
Worsening memory
Overreact or snap at people
Grind your teeth or clench your jaw
Losing libido, interest in s*x, or being unable to enjoy s*x
Over or under eating
Restless, like you can't sit still
Spend or shop too much
Under or over exercise
Withdraw from people around you
Avoidance of feelings (with behaviours such as gambling, alcohol / drugs, shopping / spending)
Avoidance of people / places (that have stress triggers)
MANAGING STRESS / BUILDING RESILIENCE
Stressors vary greatly from person to person but common causes include:
Feeling under lots of pressure
Major life changes
Are worried about something over which you have no control
Overwhelming responsibilities (with insufficient resources)
Don't have enough work, activities or change in your life
Receiving abuse
Ongoing major uncertainty
Moving flat-out through life leaves no “space” or spare personal resources to deal with new stressors. Managing our wellbeing helps us overcome and recover from stress.
RELAX; meditate, yoga, mindfulness, walking, music, nature, whatever works for you.
LOOK AFTER YOUR BODY. Eat healthily, exercise (appropriately) and get enough sleep.
REFLECT on any positive actions you have achieved.
Practice GRATITUDE, acknowledging the good parts of your day or life.
FOCUS on processes (you can influence) not outcomes (that have factors outside your control)
SAY “NO” to additional responsibilities when you are too busy.
CONNECT with people who keep you calm, make you happy, provide emotional support and help you with practical things.
Seek SUPPORT if your behaviours have changed and are impacting your life.
ONE STEP FURTHER
Research shows there are barriers to resilience that are outside of peoples’ control, such as long-term health issues, poor housing, poor services, poverty, being a carer, etc. If you face these barriers it is not your fault, or your responsibility to remove them directly, but do look for additional support.
A survey by mental health foundation pre-covid and cost of living crisis (29th March - 20th April 2018) found 74% of UK adults have felt so stressed at some point over the last year they felt overwhelmed or unable to cope. The chances are you know somebody who is stressed. After self -care, look for others. No need to carry the world but if you observe the signs and symptoms in a friend or colleague grab a coffee and a 10 minute chat. To quote F. Scott Fitzgerald:
“It was only a sunny smile, and little it cost in the giving, but like morning light it scattered the night and made the day worth living.”