09/05/2025
Do Thoughts Really Shape Your Reality? 💬
Next week marks the start of Mental Health Awareness Week, and there’s no better place to begin than with our thoughts the usual suspects behind many mental health struggles. 🍀
In my clinical health psychology practice, I’ve seen firsthand how our thoughts shape our actions and outlooks, particularly in areas like sleep, diabetes, anxiety, obesity, and weight loss. That’s why I always start by exploring what my patients or clients are thinking, and how those thoughts impact their emotions and behaviours.
You don’t need to be overly “positive” to change your life. But your thoughts do shape your reality. 🧠
Here’s how it works: Unhelpful Thought
🟡 Thought → “I can’t handle this”
🔻 Emotion → Anxiety, hopelessness
🔻 Action → Avoid, freeze, numb out
🔻 Outcome → Nothing changes
Now flip it: Helpful Thought
🟢 Thought → “This is hard, but I can take one small step”
🔺 Emotion → Calmer, more in control
🔺 Action → Ask for help, move your body, set a boundary
🔺 Outcome → Momentum, confidence, healing
You don’t have to control every thought.
But you can get better at choosing which ones to follow.
That’s where change begins. 💭✨