12/10/2021
As doulas we are present through all phases of life and sometimes that includes the end as well as the beginning. It's always ok to find someone to talk to, however long it has been. There are some links in the post below.
Written by : 'When I was pregnant with my daughter her cells migrated into my bloodstream and then circled back into hers. For 41 weeks our cells merged and crossed and after she was born these cells stayed in my body, leaving a permanent imprint in my tissues, bones, brain, and skin, and will stay there for decades. And every child I have after will leave a similar imprint on my body. Even if a pregnancy doesn't go to full term or you have an abortion, these cells still migrate into your bloodstream. Research has shown that if a mother's heart is injured, fetal cells will rush to the site of the injury and change into different types of cells that specialize in mending the heart! Studies have also shown cells from a fetus in a mothers brain 18 years after she gave birth!⠀
Mothers have always intuitively felt their child even when they are not there, now there is scientific proof that we carry them for years and years even after we have birthed them. I know my body held and made my daughter, but she too made me. Leaving pieces of herself to forever flow through my body and heal me in ways I am only still trying to understand. Forever grateful for her not only being my teacher but also my healer.
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If you're curious to learn more google "Fetal-maternal microchimerism".'
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Today marks the start of Baby Loss Awareness Week 2021.
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💗 To everyone with a baby in their hearts but not in their arms; we see you.
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💙 In the UK, it is estimated that 1 in 4 pregnancies end in loss during pregnancy or birth.
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💗 This is a staggering statistic yet it’s still not something that is widely talked about and acknowledged.
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💙 To everyone who has experienced these losses and those we haven’t mentioned we are sending you love. You are not alone.
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💗 If you have experienced a loss there is support available:
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🔹Tommy’s Pregnancy Loss Support 0800 014 7800
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🔹Sands - stillbirth and neonatal death support - 0808 164 3332
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🔹The Lullaby Trust – bereavement support helpline - 0808 802 6868
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🔹Bliss Charity – support for parents of babies born sick or premature - 020 7378 1122
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🔹Rainbow Trust – supporting families with a seriously sick child – 01372 363438
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