05/02/2026
Today is Time to Talk Day. It is a reminder that conversations can change lives.
Paul Misso is 81. He's a clergy abuse survivor, a photographer, and now co-facilitates creative workshops at our Recovery College in Brighton and Hove. For him, talking has been life-changing.
"Sharing my story has been incredibly therapeutic. It's calmed me down. It's allowed me to feel good about myself," shares Paul.
"I can now look at myself with compassion. I’m human. I can stop punishing myself, beating myself up. I’ve got a story to tell that could be inspirational."
Paul was a student at the Recovery College before stepping into a co-facilitator role, helping others use photography and creativity to tell their stories.
"Talking helps!," Paul asserts. "I’m having significant conversations on a regular basis because I go to therapy and Co-Dependents Anonymous (CoDA). Connection is important to me and community is important to me. Building community starts through talking and having the courage to say, “Do you want to have coffee?”
At Southdown, we create space for conversations. Whether that's through our mental health services, peer support, or simply making time to listen at our workplaces.
Talking helps, and everyone's story matters.
Read Paul's full story on our website: https://www.southdown.org/stories/sharing-my-story-has-been-incredibly-therapeutic/
Find tips and resources for starting a conversation about mental health: https://www.mind.org.uk/get-involved/time-to-talk-day/