21/05/2020
Love is always there. So how can you celebrate love when someone has died? Particularly now, when attendance at funerals is very restricted. One way is with a memorial. ❤️
How does a memorial differ from funeral?
The body is not present at a memorial(although the ashes may be).
So why have a memorial?
(1)So that when things ease up, you can have it where (in your home, a hotel, a barn, a favourite place, your choice!) and when and for how long you choose. Later on you should be able to include more people. It gives everyone a chance to say goodbye, express their love and share their memories.🥰
(2) It gives you time. You’ll have time to plan how to celebrate and to talk to others about memories of your loved one ... it can be a helpful part of the grieving process.🥰
(3)A memorial often has a more relaxed and informal feel than a funeral. Grief can be lonely. A memorial is a great way to bring people together, and whilst it’s a time of sadness, it’s sometimes easier to find and feel the joy and laughter too.🤗
Does a memorial need someone official to organise it?
No it can be as informal and DIY as you like - for instance just a picnic on the beach or a few words with a toast. You can organise it yourselves.
Or you can ask a celebrant to help plan and deliver a ceremony.🥰
If you want to read about a memorial I recently delivered it’s on my website, so go to my profile for my website address. If you want any help with a memorial or just to ask me any questions, feel free to get in touch ( with absolutely no obligation). I’d be only to happy to talk. 🤗