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It's fascinating to me how efficient and powerful our brains are. Just from looking at this photo I experience an array ...
12/09/2025

It's fascinating to me how efficient and powerful our brains are.

Just from looking at this photo I experience an array of sensory information that has been stored away from the past yet can be recalled and brought forward at any time without any conscious awareness.

This proves that our brains are truly pattern matching meaning making machines.

One song can transport us back to a memory of old or a smell can conjure a feeling or touching something can create a physical reaction.

It's wild to think of all this happening without our conscious awareness.

This pattern matching functionality is predominantly for our safety for example if you touch a hot flame it will encode it as dangerous so you don't do it again...

But its not always to our advantage because our subconscious will refer to patterns of behaviour that is deemed familiar but might not necessarily be helpful.

For example : I could never get on a bus without a panic attack because everytime I got on my brain would remember what happened the time before and create the same physical reactions until even thinking about getting on a bus would create those feelings...

This is why suffering from anxiety can in effect shrink our world smaller because of the associations of the patterns that our brain is matching.

It's important to remember however that our brains are not fixed and are in fact malleable.

If our brain has learnt something it can also unlearn it !!!
We can change the templates that hold us back so we are creating positive neural pathways that benefit us.

We just have to learn how to work with our brain so it doesn't work against us.

Don't ever feel that something is impossible - you are strong, powerful and capable to do anything you set your mind to.

One last thing... what comes up for you when you look at that photo?? 🤪

Much love
Vix

Life is all about making it work for you!!! Life doesn’t have to be hard when you look for small additions to your life ...
09/09/2025

Life is all about making it work for you!!!

Life doesn’t have to be hard when you look for small additions to your life to make it a little simpler.

There’s no denying that much of my day and mental energy is taken up with the thought of meal times... what to cook for a start, then getting the shopping in and then my least favorite activity - cooking it...

I have moaned for years about it, wishing I could win the lottery and hire someone to do all the above for me... and no this isn’t just a throw away comment... I would actually do it if I were to win. ( although I don’t actually play the lottery 🤪)

So I’ve often fantasised about this scenario, wishing and praying to obvious no avail.... until

Now...
I have literally found the next best thing and it’s not even been a week yet of having it.. But I have turned into an apron donned Delia Smith and am loving cooking and life.

So this ingenious kitchen appliance Thermomix TM7 (which yes is very expensive - but so worth it - especially with a 0% interest payment plan)

Has over 3000 receipes to plan your week - which then adds the ingredients to a shopping list that transfers to say Tesco online shopping basket.
It provides a step by step guide to cook in super speedy time and even washes itself!!!!!
It is also a closed unit that turns itself off so I can cook rice, chicken and veg in one go without having to watch over a boiling pan, oven or steamer etc.

It is literally helping me reclaim so much of my mental energy and that alone is worth it’s weight in gold as well as nourishing our bodies with wholesome food.

I wanted to share this because my far fetched desires of having the weight of mealtimes lifted off my shoulders just seemed like a laughable joke but I now have a solution right here in my kitchen... So... If you are finding something feels too hard in life... Keep searching because the solution is out there.

If anyone wants to know more about this amazing appliance - please ask and .

Let's create more joy and ease - seek the solutions that you deserve x

Much love
Vix,

3 different types of HRT and  I can’t seem to tolerate any…. but that’s ok… Im slowly succumbing to the fact now that my...
04/09/2025

3 different types of HRT and I can’t seem to tolerate any…. but that’s ok… Im slowly succumbing to the fact now that my body needs to do this in its own way and in its own time.

…. But HURRY UP ALREADY is also what I want to scream !!!!!

… you see I have always been pretty impulsive - taking actions with an immediate sense of urgency is my norm …. and my husband frequently says to me “Sleep on it and then see what you think” - because he obviously recognises that I don’t need yet another organisational aid to accompany the mountain of unused ones that aren’t quite right - way before I do !!!

He doesn’t even really need to say the words now though - just a hand on the shoulder and a certain look in his eye makes me take a breath and pause … is this something I need to rush …. And of course usually I insist YES IT IS !!!!!
It is so important that I get this new organisation planner because I know this is the ONE that will change my life !!!!
(Obviously he has heard it all before and knows I will continue to buy said planner)

But menopause is different- my body needs time… to adjust … it can’t be rushed … it’s not something to be fixed … it’s the first time that I just have to simply BE … there is no point in rushing, resisting, forcing or struggle … it’s happening, it’s happened and from this point on I will always be post menopausal and it doesn’t stop … of course symptoms improve but I will never not be post menopausal- so acceptance is key.

Of course I was praying that I was one of the women that feel back to their old selves - to feel alive and energised whether it be from a seemingly magic pill, gel or patch but it wasn’t to be for me.

Since discontinuing the last attempt of HRT …. I could in a way feel my body sigh with relief … finally she is listening… let’s just let nature literally do what it does best … stop looking for that magic fix because it wasn’t meant for you !!!

It didn’t “feel” right and if it didn’t feel right I must know what does feel right … right ? That’s what I’m going along with now anyway ..

To go with the flow and instinctively be guided by my body whatever it needs I have to trust I can hear it.

So just to let you know if you see me in the street laughing uncontrollably and then suddenly breaking down ugly snot sobbing - please feel free to cross over to the other side but also to know … I’m just doing unapologetically what my body needs.

Let’s empower each other on our individualistic unique journeys and know that we are all flipping awesome x

Much love ❤️
Vix

I really noticed this morning a change in tempo, mindset and purpose for me - a change from the slower pace of Summer. I...
03/09/2025

I really noticed this morning a change in tempo, mindset and purpose for me - a change from the slower pace of Summer.

I love being able to spend more quality time with the family over the summer when the usual rushing from club to club ceases for 6 weeks and we are fortunate to take holidays away but I also love getting back into a more structured routine when schools return.

This got me thinking about how “Variety really is the spice of life”.

Life would be mundane if every day was the same,every season brought the same flowers or the weather remained constant.

We need the changes, alternatives and differences to bring that zest to life... to spark our interest.

And with this change today I feel like I have a blank page...I feel like I have more power in my stride .. like I have been fuelled with motivation and determination and it feels good !!!!

After all don’t they say “Change is as good as a rest”!

We don’t constantly have to have the same passions or purpose throughout our life... we can have many at different times - restructuring priorities on a day to day basis if we choose... It’s the beauty of life.. we can voice many intentions and aim for whatever goals we want... when we want !!

We are the authors of our own book... and we don’t have to settle for just one long term goal or have an incessant purpose.. we can switch it up... constantly keeping that spark alive.

My intention this morning as I opened my eyes was “Slay Queen” (which in my eyes has this representation - a confident, successful woman who excelled at something)

And so far... I already have...
It doesn’t have to be world peace or such like but accomplishment and success however you see it...

For me
Recycling out âś…
Washing on âś…
Exercise âś…
Shower âś…
Clothes put away âś…
Food shop âś…

And tonight my intention will be to snuggle up with my daughter and watch The Summer I turned pretty- which will be more comfort and ease and love and contentment rather than focus and concentration of my day.

Live the life you want - each and everyday because you actually can…###

You are unstoppable

Have a great day
Much love ❤️
Vix

As the dawn breaks today and the new day awakens... I would love to  encourage all of those receiving their GCSE results...
21/08/2025

As the dawn breaks today and the new day awakens... I would love to encourage all of those receiving their GCSE results today to remember this.....

You have already shown such determination and resilience... the weeks of endless study and attendance at each exam.

You have already shown the warmth in your heart - each time you smiled at someone as you entered the exam room - a friendly symbol of support “ we’ve got this”, a pulling together of the troops.

You have already shown your emotional intelligence - each time you chose to take a break from study and give yourself time to rest or relax... being aware when too much was infact too much.

I could continue but what I’m trying to say here is... today may feel like a pivotal moment for you - like a lot rides on today. There may be celebrations and maybe disappointments but there is one thing I am certain of....

You are the same wonderful human being as you always have been regardless of what’s written in that envelope.

These results do not define you and the world will always have limitless opportunities for you, the directions that you want to take may change or not be as easy to get there as you first hoped but remember all the resources you have within, your determination and resilience,kindness and compassion, self care and emotion awareness... that’s who you are!!!
You will always be enough as the beautiful person you are,
You are already whole, valuable, important and just what this world needs - just as you are!!

I’m wishing you all get what you desire and deserve but for me... You are all bloody awesome regardless!

Much love
Vix

Another shout out to the young ones !! Whilst being on holiday for the last week … I’ve been mesmerised and in awe of th...
28/07/2025

Another shout out to the young ones !!

Whilst being on holiday for the last week … I’ve been mesmerised and in awe of the young children that I’ve watched by the pool.

During my stay I have witnessed a small group of children expand into an ever increasing band of brothers and sisters joining the diverse group.

Some are adventurous, some more timid, some in arm bands, some great splash makers,some with water guns, some with dive toys… some are English, some are Dutch, some are Spanish and some are French.

The diversity of this group is large yet there is no acknowledgment of this to those children- they are all just brought together through their love for play…

They don’t care if someone isn’t speaking their language, they aren’t judging what each other are wearing or what toys they have, there aren’t hesitant to approach one another in fear of rejection… it’s like they all know their own worth and the worth of each other too… they are all bringing something to that play time together and the fun element overrides everything else..

So why does this change as we get older… why do we allow self doubt or fear to hold us back from meeting and engaging with new people after all we still all have that same common interest - to make the most of our lives to enjoy and have fun.

The answer is obviously multifaceted and societal norms play a huge role… but as I said in my previous post about wanting to see the world through a toddlers eyes…. I also want to embody one’s behaviours now too!!!

Wouldn’t the world be awesome if we could all instantaneously see our own worth like a bold toddler expressing and simply being their best beautiful unapologetically self and to see the true innate worth of others … not what toys they bring to the pool but who they are … their energy, their kindness, their vibe - just them being them… a valuable and important person in this world.

Everyone is worthy of taking up space in this world - we are all here for a reason… and maybe we can make a difference … to shine the light on not only our own worth but the worth of others too - let’s ensure no one feels left out on this wild crazy journey

Much love
Vix

There is so much beauty in the world.. and so many tiny moments of awesomeness that we so often bypass in the hustle of ...
24/07/2025

There is so much beauty in the world.. and so many tiny moments of awesomeness that we so often bypass in the hustle of life…

And I have definitely been guilty of this for many years …I’ve been .. head down focusing on the task … pretty much ignoring the world around me …. But life has changed and my mindset and focus is all about the simple things… the little pleasures that actually make life so much more special than I ever imagined.

Now I take time to really savour those moments;
🩵a smile from a stranger …
🩵the last spoonful of desert my daughter couldn’t finish that comes my way.
🩵a little breeze on a stifling day, 🩵a token of knowledge that you didn’t know previously
🩵flowers in bloom
🩵bubbly water when you take a shower
🩵heart warming cuddles from my family.

My intention now is to see the world through a toddlers eyes… to marvel at how things work, to get curious and to breathe and take my time…
And by doing so .. life feels better ….. not perfect by any means and that’s not my goal but I feel a sense of gratitude, joy and acceptance and it’s really something special.

Maybe you too could give the toddler perspective a go…
You may also want to refuse to wear a coat in the rain or tantrum over the wrong colour plate and squidge mash potato through your fingers…

Life is about feeling and experiencing it all, the good, the bad and the ugly…. we really don’t want to miss a thing do we because even the smallest of moments can take up so much space in our hearts.

Much love
Vix

Keep those beautiful people close ### Unconditional love and acceptance.. Always x
18/07/2025

Keep those beautiful people close ###
Unconditional love and acceptance.. Always x

Recently the phrase “Practice makes perfect” has been rolling around in my mind. Now I don’t believe we should strive fo...
05/07/2025

Recently the phrase “Practice makes perfect” has been rolling around in my mind.

Now I don’t believe we should strive for perfection but I do rate practicing something repetitively- if you know it will be of benefit to you.

Over the past few weeks … I have made a real commitment to practicing doing pretty much nothing !!!

This sounds ridiculous… but I find it so difficult to just sit and do nothing … a constant stream of discomfort arises when I do and it’s so much easier to turn my back on the nothingness and DO!

Life is busy isn’t it… there is always something to do- not enough time in the day kinda ethos - can’t waste time doing nothing… but …

I had made this commitment to get better at simply “being” and do you know what?? ..it’s paying off…

The discomfort is slowly fading… the guilt dispersing and the constant chatter in my brain that tries to convince me it’s ok… I can allow myself to do this is not so strong..

Of course I always tell myself I deserve to have a rest, take a break but it seems to summon so much effort and energy to believe it … but now it isn’t so much of a battle .. in fact it’s not really taking up much head space… im just simply more comfortable at doing nothing.

Obviously I am still working, looking after the house and kids, being a wife and a friend but in the small pockets that I could easily fill with yet another task … I don’t !!!

The difference in me is huge… it’s funny because even if it’s been a tough day at the end of the night .. I have finding myself gleaming thinking..”I love my life”

It’s given me time to reflect, rest, recharge and it is getting easier everytime because I see and feel the benefits.

I think the purpose of writing this is to firstly give hope that you too can give yourself time to just BE and to know that yes discomfort arises when you try to do something different because your subconscious loves familiar so will want you to stay doing what you’ve always done… but if what you’ve always done isn’t serving you anymore… the discomfort that arises through change may just be so worth it !!!

Give yourself space to see the beauty in the world and youself

Much love
Vix

An evening of pure bliss last night !!!  and  I feel so thankful for this experience. To be surrounded by nature and fee...
19/06/2025

An evening of pure bliss last night !!!

and

I feel so thankful for this experience. To be surrounded by nature and feel its healing effects… and then to finish with such a wonderful sound bath by Chessy.

Thankyou for a beautiful evening all.

It was a beautiful evening of connection, embracing rest and recovery and soul nourishment

Highly recommend ❤️❤️❤️
Much love
Vix
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I can’t believe that I will never have to wash this school uniform again!!! I feel a mixture of emotions today as the fi...
16/06/2025

I can’t believe that I will never have to wash this school uniform again!!!

I feel a mixture of emotions today as the final exam is done !!! ..
I feel sadness that he will never get that exact same time again with such an amazing group of friends and yet also a pure fizzing bubbly excitement for him .. to spread his wings further and fly.

I love as a parent how you try to guide your children and give them roots but also teach them and encourage their independence and ability to make their own mistakes and grow as a person.

What I never realised when I became a parent was how much they would teach me.

I love growing and learning stuff about myself through guidance from them.

I am having to create new boundaries and learn to move out of my comfort zone… to loosen the ties but not enough that they feel unsupported… to be fair but not a push over… it’s a gentle symphony of give and take… let go yet stay close…

I hope through all the mistakes I make they know I was learning too … and sometimes I will get it wrong and sometimes I will be the most epic mum in the world but through the good, bad and the ugly … we are in it together!!! and I am always there for them.

A team that will conquer the next chapter with love, sensitivity, truth, compassion and courage.

None of us need to have everything sorted out… or feel bad when we don’t… we are all just doing our best with the resources we have in that moment.

We can celebrate our messy existence and ensure that our kids don’t need to strive for exhausting perfection because to us - perfect they already are … whether they make mistakes, make us cry, roll their eyes at us, ask us to leave or want a shoulder to cry on.

We are there for them and I know they are there for you too

Teamwork makes the dream work !!
Here’s to the next chapters where the pages are blank and the story is yet to be written
Much love
Vix

How can my baby boy be 16 years old !!! I am in awe of the person you are. My calm in the storm..Just your presence crea...
15/06/2025

How can my baby boy be 16 years old !!!

I am in awe of the person you are.
My calm in the storm..
Just your presence creates that knowing that everything will be okay.
You are so kind, compassion - with the biggest of hearts.

We are so so proud of you.
Dream big mate
Reach for the stars
You deserve all the happiness life can bring.

Love you so much and Thankyou for being you. Happy birthday
Love love love ❤️

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