11/02/2026
Reader, I love a man who loves to ski, those are the breaks (luckily none of them have been actual breaks, so far).
If you’re not falling, you’re not learning; as a late to life learner of the ski, I have heard this a lot.
It’s a privilege, don’t get me wrong, this trying to learn to ski and learning to love skiing - I am aware, but it’s also learning to love failure and that’s a hard pill to swallow.
I have fallen down and gotten up a lot, I have dug myself out of snow banks, I have been rolled on by a snowboarder and been crashed in to so hard my left arm has been numb for almost a week, I’m more bruise than human at this point. I have, in a move I would not be able to replicate, not even if you offered me a million pounds, fallen on my butt, bounced back to a crouch on my skis, stood up and gone straight into a turn - it would be such a flex if I had any idea how I did it. Every time something happens you have to make a choice to get back up. You battle your brain, you’ll need to make peace with your uglier sides (nothing puts a strain on your loves and friendships than skiing in a blizzard, or confront your completely alien feelings on competitiveness).
At this point I really want to finish this post by saying for all your post ski aches and bumps, there’s Loop. For everything else there’s a great therapist. Loop is there for you and talking therapy is GREAT, But my more serious point is; getting comfortable with failure isn’t a bad thing. I’d go further, it’s what makes us better humans.
As we leave January in the rear view, the month which inevitability ends for many of us ,with feelings of failure, trying to stem the unwin-able flow of new year hype- learning to be comfortable with what progress looks like for you, as an individual, is the only lesson worth learning - the only resolution you really need to keep.
So your ski might not be ski - the falls might be metaphorical, the bruises might be more mental than physical but as I sit here covered in arnica and an ice pack, I truly believe you can do it.