19/05/2026
We all plan for what to expect during birth, but what about those early days and weeks with your new baby?
Here are some things I have found are less talked about in postpartum.
•You can expect a rollercoaster of emotions- for both parents! Tears of exhaustion, tears of joy, highs, lows and everything in-between, in just a few hours.
•You'll grow in ways you never knew, new confidence and strength is born in you, with your baby.
•You can adore your baby and new parenting role, and miss your old life and routine. This is common, and doesn't mean you aren't grateful or happy.
•You need to heal from a vaginal birth too. It's not just CS mums who need to take the first few weeks slow. We are all healing from pregnancy, and birth, bleeding, healing- and all on fragmented sleep.
•It's ok if you don't want to pass your baby around, this doesn't make you overprotective or selfish. The maternal bond is designed to make us want to keep our babies close at all times. It's also ok to enjoy some solo time- there's no right or wrong, you lead.
•The clichés are true- time is a thief, it all does go too fast, the days are long but the weeks are short, blink and you'll miss it, this too shall pass. This is a comfort when you hit a tricky chapter, hold on, better is coming.
•You might not be the mum you expected to be- perhaps you thought you'd want to be back at work soon and don't, perhaps you thought you'd never use X,Y,Z for baby, perhaps you expected to love a certain part of motherhood. You never know how you'll feel and who you'll be until you meet your baby. It's an ever evolving adventure, be kind to yourself, things change, you grow and adapt. You know best for you and your family ❤️
What else would you add?