The Love Temple

20/11/2025

1 year and 7 months ago I Freebirthed my child at home, in a room that was deeply held in sacred sisterhood

Freebirth is a practice where women intentionally choose to give birth without a healthcare professional present, as an act of reclaiming autonomy and personal power - living in a system that tells us we don’t have it. We reclaim birth as a natural, physiological process directed from inner wisdom rather than a medical event to be controlled from the outside

Naked, I paced the room like an animal twisting, spiralling into the pain, to some degree it was or****ic - as it could be . .

I felt an unravelling of all the ideas of myself as not capable, as weak, and instead I got to know my most powerful self in those moments

I asked spirit for a 5hr birthing, and that was what I got - it was primal, raw, terrifying and yet totally natural all at the same time

I meet mums all the time, that often tell me they would not trust this choice. Maybe they do not trust their connection with their body - I don’t judge them for this, as the medical environment we live in does not support the attitude of seeing our body as a powerhouse!

Decades of this more patriarchal and mechanical approach to brith has meant that the western mind has become so suspicious of anything not proven by science. Many people might (and did) look at me to say that I was irresponsible in my choice as I was making it (with little support other that that of my best friend and my doulers as went through pregnancy alone . . )

I wouldn’t change my story for the world, as for me this experience was a reclamation of my power, in trust and celebration of my body, soul and being . . A deep turning point of spiritual self knowledge in my life . .

My approach in life, is to be mystical in our science and scientific in our mysticism. I was aware of the important sciece and yet much more importantly, 100% clear in my intuitive body connection

This was not only a personal reclamation but a prayer for the collective - that we might know again the power of the feminine ways

16/11/2025

What time and space do we make for our true soul emergance❓

How deep can we fall into trust if the soul journey & re remembering our true soul shine

After sometime of being a full time Mum I’m now gratefully stepping into space holding once more and have felt a calling from our beloved river dart for a temple 🛕 to rise in Devon in dedication to our soul emergence

So that an unlocking and coaxing out of a true expression of soul for the individual & collective, we all have a calling on this earth 🌍 our temples allow us to re-align with that authentic truth of expression

We will sit in circle ⭕️ embody soul archetypes in ceremony ✨we will create 3 x prints on this journey that will be a gift 🎁 of your true soul shine to be captured in colour to take away with you

This is a primer event for future offerings and so is being offered at our lowest price before it goes up from next temple in January

Click link 🔗 in bio for more details

So much love beloved sisters ✨🌸💓

19/06/2025

Gosh it’s been a while I posted here peps! - Been very offline as practicing strong boundaries as a lone parent is key for a) survival & b) having enough time & space to deeply nurture the valuable mother daughter bond between Neri & I

She is now 1 year and it’s a little while away from her coming of age, however it is a topic that has been on my heart & mind as I lacked the full support I would have loved at this time of my life. My mum was away taking care of her mum who was dying at the time, so this left me feeling a little groundless at this important stage of life; to be clear this is no criticism of Mum who was only doing her best by her mum at the time! - Along with the appalling support given by the schooling system on an emotional level for this delicate period of growth - it was a hard time, as it is for many young women

So, with all the knowledge and experience gained on, communication, personal power, embodiment & ritual magic, I wanted to put together something that would be supportive for those women coming up to this time, as well as create a space of reflection for those who have already gone through this initiation

I believe it is part of our re-remembering of ourselves and our soul path that we learn how to celebrate these important initiations better as a community with our growing women . .

Not just for the women of course, this is necessary work for men too, I just havn’t got to that yet!

Initiations like the blood, sexuality, parenthood, menopause, death are the lesser celebrated ones. Our modern culture seems to only recognise birth as a significant one, I’m here to change that!

So will you come join me at my workshop in the Women’s tent of Sacred Earth Gathering at Crops not Shops site near Glastonbury (female bodies only) - so we can discover together how to re-remember these important initiations together❓🌹

Play shop 16.30 - 18.00pm - at the Women’s Tent ⛺️ bring a sacred onbject that connects you to your mother line for the alter ❤️

Love & Blessings ✨
Kat

07/01/2025

Day 6, what is the best nourishment you can gift your body temple with this year?

I’m toning down some crappy eating habits now after the temptation filled festive season and preparing slowly towards a cleanse of juices and soups

I’m breastfeeding and yet can feel my body calling for this, of course I am allowed to eat as much smoothie and soups as I need and it will be for 3 days only, but I know it will make a big difference to my body, energy & mental health

I am not a doctor, I’m just speaking from my own experience but seriously these cleanses are worth it, the trick is to keep some of the better habits you created on the other side of it too . .

For me the most nourishing part of eating well is also to eat with a connected community around you, these pics are from a community in Portugal that my beloved child & I will go be part of for some months in spring . . .

We will be sharing nourishing plates of home cooked food at our live Sisterhood Nurturing Circle Journey coming up in Glastonbury this 25th January - CLICK LINK IN BIO for details ✨

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06/01/2025

Day 5, the first quarter moon is happening now as the moon waxes into its fullness, it is a great time to connect with the energy of gratitude in our bodies so we can create more of what we do want in our lives . . .

Attuning ourselves to the energies of the moon supports our feminine cycles - when we attune ourselves to nature - with both the sun and moon energies, we sit in our feminine power in a more rooted and effortless way

My friend and I offered roses to the goddess of the land to show our gratitude for this year past and said a prayer for the upcoming gifts of 2025 at Avebury stones last weekend, a centre for such wonderful regenerating energy

The upcoming new moon in Aquarius supports us to innovate with a fresh perspective, as this sign is all about community it is important to connect with your community to let these new perspectives in . .

We will be co-creating ceremony in attunement with the upcoming new moon 🌑 in Aquarius and acknowledging also the Sun celebration of Imbolc at our live Sisterhood Nurturing Circle Journey coming up in Glastonbury this 25th January - CLICK LINK IN BIO for details ✨

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05/01/2025

Day 4 of our self care inspiration is about ritual, what loving rituals can you bring in on a regular basis to warm & nourish your heart . . .

Cacao ceremonies are a deeply nourishing way to bring health to the individual and collective heart. Even a ceremony with 1 counts. This is one of the ways I tend to myself and my heart over the cold months.

I meet the people who created this particular brand and I can highly recommend the quality and the taste is out of this world divine. It is my love letter to myself everyday when I prepare this for myself, reminding me of my worth.

This particular Ritual cacao is mixed with blue lotus which has had a profound effect on my dreaming space and allowed me to have insights into my healing journey simply by connecting with and moving through my dream space.

Healing doesn’t have to be like trudging uphill on a muddy day, sometimes it can be a subtle and gentle shift that makes all the difference, and for sure, personal cacao rituals help 💞

We will be serving this cacao with extra elements of mugwort at our live Sisterhood Nurturing Circle Journey coming up in Glastonbury this 25th January - CLICK LINK IN BIO for details ✨

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04/01/2025

Beloved sisters, we are on day 3 of our self care January challange & my prayer is that the love is spreading and warming your souls as we learn how to take better care of ourselves like we are our own best friend . . .

I used to resent having to buy myself flowers as a single woman, I noticed this developing negativity in my head saying; ‘oh well, no one else is going to do it for you’ - and a sadness and hopelessness that came with this - it’s so important to stay intimate with the rackets we create in our head, because once we unravel them we can create more intimacy and love in our lives, both with self and others, and of course, we must always start with the self if we wish to vibrate and attract the love outside

So now what is my new mantra when I buy flowers for myself I hear you ask❓- well after I buy them and arrange them I then walk up to the mirror 🪞

I tune in with my heart and I ask the person in the mirror what they most want to be acknowledged for today, the answers come and I start to look in my own eyes shining out the love I would love to see outside me, and I acknowledge myself, for all the things I feel unseen for, for all the reasons why I am worthy of these beautiful flowers 🌹

So now when I buy flowers, I am looking forward to come home & give them to my most greatest lover . . . myself

Mirror 🪞 work can be hard at first & believe me the more you practice it the easier it gets to love this sacred being in front of you, sometimes at first you got to fake it a bit until you really believe the words, but you’ll get there beloveds, just stay rooted in the radiance of your true being and keep practicing the tools, I believe in you 💓

We also hope to see your faces soon at our live Sisterhood Nurturing Circle Journey coming up in Glastonbury this 25th January - CLICK LINK IN BIO for details

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03/01/2025

Welcome to day 2 of your January Self Care challange beloved sisters 👯‍♀️

Who did the day 1 bath challange❓- I want all your bubbly news ✨

OK so on the subject of grounding, for me there needs to be just a little 🤏 of it everyday and it must be skin on skin contact, with some element of nature, whether it be stone, earth or tree 🌳

We need to ground to balance all the contact with screens - I love to breathe with, be still in or sing to nature when I am out on my daily walks. When it’s warmer I’m barefoot as much as possible, in the winter my hands brush by leaves on a branch as I feel into the depths of the land and it’s ancestry. Or my feet 🦶 connecting with ground just for a short time during cold winter still does the trick

You don’t have to believe me, and there are medicine journals that say . . . Grounding improves sleep, balances the day–night cortisol rhythm, reduces pain & stress, shifts the autonomic nervous system from sympathetic toward parasympathetic activation, increases heart rate variability, speeds wound healing, and reduces blood viscosity

Today we were by our much beloved wishing trees in Avebury and we prayed our personal prayers for the coming year, we would love to co-create prayer with all you sisters out there in our upcoming Sisterhood Circling day

CLICK LINK IN BIO for details of our live Sisterhood Nurturing Circle Experience coming up in Glastonbury this 25th January

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02/01/2025

Welcome to day 1 of your January Self Care challange beloved sisters 👯‍♀️

I am super grateful for anytime to myself as a single mama, and yet creating those short windows for self care in this demanding world no matter what your situation, can make all the difference

So I would love for you to join me for as many days as you can for this 30 day challange and I would love to hear about how it is going for you, for me I am most productive at end of the day after my wee one is in bed, when is your special time you can make for yourself❓

In the bath I love Epsom salts and rose petals, to feel myself nourished and fully surrendered into my feminine, a candle 🕯️ and a good guided meditation on insight timer finish it off for me, what are your finishing touches that make this time yours sister❓🌹

We hope to see you soon at our magical sisterhood nurturing event in Glastonbury soon which will be in the 25th Jan and tickets will be on sale in the next few days 💞✨

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31/12/2024

Happy New Year Beloveds ✨

So here we are, Neri & I, after 8 months and no posts. My priority being staying connected as best I can to our bubble of nurture and nourishment that has been our lives since she came

Birth work is soul work, and the journey continues to deepen for us, to enter the initiation of mother is a portal unlike any I’ve known and it reaches into the depths of me and us, we become intimate with both our shadows and our strengths on a daily basis

I have learned a new level of discipline in-terms of my boundaries and self care, because quite frankly, I’ve had to! I have also learned that as well as the daily rigour and routine for her care, and for my self improvement, along with this a huge dose of compassion and self acceptance is also needed

One thing I’m clear on as a mama, (or as any sister who feels herself as mama even having not birthed through her body), we need our community to be connected for us and our children to truly thrive

That’s why I’m opening up a new ta***ic shamanic space for all mamas & sisters who feel the deep need to connect in sisterhood and be witnessed, nourished and held on the 25th of January at Gables Glastonbury - after a long pause of my events there, we are shifting gear to a softer tone of replenishment

Please continue to follow me here as I am posting a January 31 day nourishing self love practices daily invitation / challange in the lead up to our event 🌹✨

Tickets 🎫 will be on sale here over the next few days so watch this space & save the date sweet sisters 👯‍♀️

20/04/2024

Dear Beloveds ✨

I am back! I have been away deepening & birthing into a new series of Eros temples (and a baby)!

As we journey through this important eclipse portal where we usher in new beginnings, I am excited to share an invitation to a series of four Wheel of the Year ☸️

Temples that mark and are supported by the turning of the sun 🌞

Join our tribe membership to step deeper into a sense of connected community and wholeness, and co-create a new paradigm of sovereignty and freedom. We support the landing of the world soul with our Eros energy and sacred prayer. This series is medicine for the individual and the collective; and I assert that our work in temple supports the energy of shifting of social structures at a systematic level.

🔥Our Temple series starts at Beltane, in Glastonbury on Saturday 11th May, You can buy a single event ticket here;
https://bit.ly/BeltaneTemple11May

I am excited to be co-facilitating above temple with Drew, founder of Vermillion and Aloola

🚀Are you interested to up-level and deepen into your connection with temple culture this year❓ With our VIP membership on all 4 seasonal temples Beltane, Llamas, Sawhain and Imbolc. By committing more deeply to this work, you support yourself to go deeper in healing both individual and collective patterns that no longer serve us, whilst simultaneously deepening into a sense of tribe. Read more about the benefits of VIP membership here:
https://bit.ly/LoveTempleWheelMembership

Please do not hesitate to PM me to learn more in a private consultation call. I am honoured to serve you.

With loving devotion
Kat 🌹

22/11/2023

Dear sisters 👯‍♀️

What magic can the miracle of the rose really bring us in life? 🌹

This Saturday and I will be cooking up some deeply healing magic, with a profoundly nurturing ta***ic rose ritual and photographic shoot that will birth your soul fully out of its shell 🐚

This is for those of you dear sisters who know the journey to self love, knowing and loving yourself is the key to your success in life, love and abundance ✨

In my journeying shamaniciy with our native sacred lands of our precious island, the rose has been one of the most potent and powerful shamanic tools, not just in terms of symbology but in terms of REAL magic 🪄

When we meditate with intention on the blessings of this flower, we come to deeply realise and remember our own soul beauty and power, we dive into the deep power of the surrendered feminine and the innocence of love when we let go of all the strategies and mind tricks, a place where there is true freedom!!! 🌹

After our sacred transformative ritual you will be trained in camera confidence and leave with 10 incredible professional pictures of yourself in your pure soul essence, perfect as a keepsake, gift for a partner or for rebranding of your business 📸

We are offering a discount for those familiar with my temple work with discount code TEMPLE ⛪️

Will you make the space and created sacred time for yourself with us this Saturday dear one?

If you are called by this event and financially struggling pls do PM me to discuss, as we do not wish for there to be any pay wall for this deeply medicinal work

Last couple of spots available so grab them fast, this is an intimate event with only 6 participants 🌹🙏🏻🌹

https://thedzedzes.thrivecart.com/behold-her-ashburton-yana-kat/

Infinite ♾️ love ❤️

Checkout page for Behold Her : Sacred Rose - Ashburton - Yana & Kat.