23/03/2021
This resonated with me about all sorts of aspects of life. I suspect it will resonate with many others.
Dr. Schubiner's "5 F's" to avoid: FOCUSING on the pain, FIGHTING against the pain, FEARING the pain, trying to FIX the pain, and getting FRUSTRATED.
These are all natural responses to the presence of ongoing pain. Even so, NOT EVERY RESPONSE THAT IS NATURAL IS HELPFUL.
When you notice that you're focusing, shift.
When you notice that you're fighting, surrender.
When you notice that you're fixing, let it be.
When you notice that you're fearing, cultivate safety.
When you notice that you're frustrated, let go of your expectations.
Pain is natural and normal. It will crop up throughout your life, even after you recover from chronic symptoms. The goal of recovery is not to live a life without pain, but to live a life with more power. Recovery should not be measured by how much pain is present, but by how you choose to greet it when it shows up.
What are your favorite ways to shift out of the 5 F's? Share your tricks below!