Alyssum Counselling Therapies

15/06/2025

Thinking of you all today💛

05/05/2025

The Judge.

We all have that inner judge — the voice that’s quick to criticize, compare, and sometimes hold us back. But that voice didn’t just appear randomly. It’s often shaped by experiences from our childhood — times when we felt criticized or when we learned to protect ourselves in certain ways.
Although the judge can feel critical there is a reason for this part of us.
Maybe to help us feel safe and avoid past pain?

We may also notice judgments from the people around us — family, friends, or society — and those can influence how we see ourselves, too.

Not all judgment is harmful. Some of it can push us to grow and make better choices. The real work comes when we recognise when judgment is helping us, and when it’s just holding us back.

When does the judge part show up? Could it be trying to protect you from old wounds?
How do others’ judgments affect how you feel about yourself, and is it time to let go of the ones that no longer serve you?

We are more than the judgments we hold on to or hear from others. Let’s be a little kinder to ourselves today. ❤️

22/04/2025

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20/04/2025

Easter eggs symbolise rebirth and new starts a reminder that life is full of opportunities to begin again. Sometimes, life gives us a gentle nudge or a not-so-gentle push toward something new. It can be scary, exciting, uncertain, or all of the above. But there’s something powerful about starting fresh. It’s a chance to reset, refocus, and remind ourselves of what really matters.

Have you been thinking about making a change? Whether it’s starting therapy, setting boundaries, or just choosing yourself more often...

Here’s to growth, to healing, and to the beauty of new beginnings. May this next chapter bring you peace, clarity, and all the good things you deserve.

If this resonates with you and you’re ready to take that first step, please get in touch. You don’t have to go through it alone.

(PS This is part of my new beginning, becoming a nanny to Bruce!)

30/03/2025

08/11/2024

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01/08/2024

Has anyone listened to this? Hi Ren? This artist has creatively articulated his mental health conflicts through this powerful song! I absolutely love it.
Tell me what you think?
Inner critic comes to my mind...

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08/03/2024

Happy international women's day

24/12/2023

Wishing everyone a very Merry Christmas 🎄