12/04/2026
Love this…
A doula isn’t there to lead your birth.
They’re not there to:
✖ tell you what to do
✖ make decisions for you
✖ steer you towards a “right” birth
They’re there to:
✨ hold steady
✨ create a non-judgemental space
✨ support you to make your own choices
That distinction matters more than most people realise.
Because the goal isn’t a “perfect” birth.
It’s your birth - on your terms.
👉 Ask this when choosing a doula:
“How would you describe your role?”