12/08/2025
Estrangement
Dictionary meaning: ‘The fact of no longer being on friendly terms or part of a social group’.
Recently, I have been considering the topic of estrangement, as some clients have experienced it in relation to their families of origin. There are various forms of estrangement and ways it can present itself. In certain situations, it involves complete separation from someone, while in others, it may mean reducing or limiting contact.
Humans are naturally social beings who feel significant pain from estrangement. Some people choose to sever ties with family, while others face forced separation. This disconnectedness often leads individuals to question their actions and wonder if things could have been different.
Individuals may frequently experience a profound sense of powerlessness, with emotional pain persisting over time. While there is often an expectation that every issue can be resolved, I have observed numerous instances—both among adults and children—where circumstances could not be fully remedied, requiring individuals to manage ongoing challenges.
I welcome insights or perspectives from others regarding this experience.