13/04/2026
Rebuilding the Village 🌳
Putting Relationships Back at the Heart of Adoption Support.
After 10 years supporting adopted children and families, and over 18 years working alongside children, young people and families with care experience, this is what I know:
At our core, people want to be loved, cared for, and held. That is what we are here for, to connect, to belong, to grow, and to thrive.
And yet, life happens. Trauma happens. Systems struggle. Generations carry pain. Babies do not always get the best start. Parents do not always receive the support they need.
When relationships rupture early, the impact is far reaching, shaping how a person relates to themselves, to others, and to the world.
Adoption begins with loss. It is relational trauma. And healing must also happen in relationship.
As I write this, walking in nature, I am reminded that nature holds what we sometimes cannot. It shows us seasons, repair, restoration, and growth. It reminds us what nurture truly looks like, steady, patient, connected.
This is what our children and families need:
Not just services, but spaces.
Not just interventions, but relationships.
Not just plans, but people.
For too long, we have sat behind desks, within systems, and surrounded by paperwork, often disconnected from the very essence of what heals.
It is time to return to something more human: community, shared spaces, storytelling, and connection.
The environments where healing can happen naturally.
We speak often about helping children to “thrive.” But thriving does not happen in isolation. It happens in safe relationships, in community, and in connection with the world around us.
This is a call to action 📣
As we move forward with reform, let us not only fund support, but let us rethink it. Let us create opportunities for families to come together, to build and sustain relationships that are consistent, nurturing, and real and held by realtionships and nature. 🌳
Because when we restore relationships, we restore possibility.
“It takes a village to raise a child, and a community to help them heal.”
With hope and commitment,
Ciara McClelland
Creative Arts Psychotherapist, Independent Social Worker, and Trauma-Informed Consultant BA (Hons) Theatre and Performance | MA Dramatherapy | MA Social Work | BADth | HCPC | BASW | SWE
🧩 This letter contributes to the Adoption Support Fund consultation, calling for consistent, tailored support. It reflects years of practice, not one story, but many. The experiences, patterns, and gaps are real.
These voices deserve to be heard.
Adoption UK
Josh MacAlister MP