17/01/2025
I wish I had this group when I was pregnant with my first child 6 years ago. I thought I was pretty strong mentally going into it, but during the final weeks and months of pregnancy anxiety crept in, not just about the labour but about life...how it will change.
Then our baby was here, five weeks early which brought unexpected pressure and stress around work, his health, breastfeeding and being unprepared which brought lots of tears and feeling like I didn't quite know what was happening. I just wanted to be at home with my baby in our little bubble.
The start of motherhood wasn't what I expected, is it ever??
Then came the expectations between me and my husband, feeling like I just didn't have a clue what I was doing, feeling like I wasn't myself, friendship shifts, learning who I now was and letting go of some parts of me for a while, and the sleepless nights, oh wow...who did I become during those years? I acted in ways I never thought I would.
It got easier over time but it was a slow, slow journey and I learnt a hell of a lot about me, my husband, my son and life as a parent.
Had I had a group like ours where honesty, sharing experiences, opening up the world of being a new parent, whether its the first baby or third, would have made my experiences easier. I would have been more aware of what could happen, I'd have had other mums going through the same thing as me at my finger tips so we could be there for each other, I'd have had things up my sleeve that would have made it more manageable.
I know our group really helps because I used some of the practices we share when I had my daughter.
So if you're pregnant, take advantage of the knowledge, research and practices that we have. Make your life easier and really enjoy the early stages of being a mum even more.
Our group isn't just for first time mums, it could be your second or fourth pregnancy. Even better as you can share your golden nuggets of experience.
When: Saturday 1st March for 5 weeks
Where: Barham Village Hall, Canterbury
Investment: £125
Remember our intro session on Thursday 30th to find out more.