
25/09/2025
It’s really, really normal for newborn babies not to settle anywhere but in your arms.
Even though we know that they’re safe in their lovingly prepared crib or cot, when you put your baby down, their fight or flight instincts are triggered and they wake.
You represent safety and protection, so any separation from you, to your baby, threatens their survival.
This is normal, instinctual behaviour that occurs as your baby transitions to life outside the womb. Imagine what a change that must be. It defiantly can help us understand why physical contact is reassuring and helpful.
This often comes as a total surprise to new families and really challenge their expectations around parenting.
For more information on this look up the fourth trimester.
In the meantime cuddle your baby, and keep them close. Looking up safe sleep guidelines can also be a game changer to maximise test and sleep as you too adjust to your new world.
How did you hear about the 4th trimester?