14/04/2026
Short version:
I donāt know who needs to see this image today, but if itās you, Iām glad youāve seen it ā¤ļø
Long version, with backstory:
The night someone first showed me this, it blew my tiny mind.
I mean, first off, who doesnāt love a Venn diagram?
But also, just LOOK at it!
I imagine youāve seen it before, but itās so worth a revisit, no?
āIkigaiā is a Japanese concept translating to āa reason for beingā.
There is so much in this that makes sense to me.
To set the scene (at the risk of sounding like a total w*nker), the first time I saw this image:
I was in my early 30s (way back when), transitioning from youth work to be a counsellor & su***de prevention trainer
And I was heartbroken
I was broken all over, actually
I was a mess
Iād fled to a yoga retreat on a tiny Thai island for 2 or 3 weeks to āsort my life outā (see, told you: w*nker)
And then over dinner, one of the folks on the retreat, an old Dutch guy whose name I have shamefully forgotten, nonchalantly scribbled this Venn diagram of āikigaiā on a napkin for me, mid conversation.
I lost myself in it for what felt like hours.
And I return to it regularly, to check that teaching people to talk about su***de (aka āsu***de prevention trainingā) is still the right path for me.
I ask myself, is thisā¦
ā¤ļø What I LOVE?
Absolutely. It is challenging and emotional and it drains me, but I love educating + empowering people with (literally) life-saving skills (and Iām better at loving myself now and taking proper breaks.)
šš¼ What I am GOOD at?
I couldnāt say this back then but I can say it now with my hand on my heart and (almost) without cringing: Yes. I am damn good at what I do.
š What the world NEEDS?
100%. Too many people continue to die by su***de, needlessly, and too many people donāt know how they can be a part of changing that, by learning to increase their skills and confidence.
š° What I can get PAID for?
Well, yes, just about, although letās face it, there are far easier ways to make money š I make enough to live, and that is enough.
What do you think of this image?
What is your reason to get up in the morning?
***deprevention