30/11/2025
As the Gregorian, year draws to a close and the Autumn marches relentlessly on towards Winter, the time is coming for sitting around the fire to tell stories of ages past, reflect on the year gone by and perhaps make plans for the year to come.
At least that is how it should be and once was, but in this world of consumerism and Black Friday deals we are more likely to be drawn into the world of filling every second with 'doing something', and 'not wasting time'.
How can coming together as friends or family to watch the flames of Grandfather Fire instead of the light of Best Friend Smartphone be a waste of time? I was absolutely thrilled to be able to join my brothers around the Sacred Fire at Fickle Field on Friday for 2 reasons: firstly, very positive circumstances had meant I had missed the previous 3. The second, and most important one, was that this was my last chance this year to gather together under the stars and Mother Moon to watch the flames dance, listen to the owls calling and do just what I said in the opening paragraph of this post. For 3 hours we sat, talked, listened, laughed and raised our spirits; sometimes this was punctuated with silence, when no words or thoughts were needed. Silence is something that not everyone is comfortable with, but it is healthy and sometimes necessary. When it finally came to the time for heading home again, our hearts were full of hope, energy, love and positivity and all felt right with the world.
Perhaps if there were more of these gatherings and coming togethers, there would be more joy, more peace and more understanding in a world intent on judgement, greed over need, obscene wealth, distrust, and hate.
So why not take a step back now that the darker, colder months are upon us and slow down, make time to catch up with others, and perhaps, most importantly, yourself? Wintering is a word that tells us to be more like our other-than-human relations that welcome this time of year in order to renew, regain, and replenish so they can be ready to step into the lighter, warmer days of Spring with new energy, new hope and new beginnings.
I welcome Winter with the same gratitude and appreciation to Spirit as any other time of year, as it allows me to make time to count all the blessings that I have been given over the previous months by acquaintances old and new.
Aho Mitakuye Oyasin (All my Relations)