01/05/2026
For so many years, I didn’t speak up. For so many years, I kept silent, quiet. I played the good girl.
I did what I needed to do to get by, to get through, and sometimes to survive. The fear of speaking out - the fear of the consequences of speaking out - was greater than tolerating the behaviour at that time.
Whatever that behaviour was, whatever situation I was in, it didn’t matter how trapped and scared I felt, it felt even scarier to ask for help.
And I can see how I became part of that pattern of silence. The problem that so many women experience - being on the receiving end of unacceptable words and behaviour that keeps them stuck, that keeps them silenced, that keeps them living in fear.
Fear that stops them coming into their own true power. Fear that stops them living a life of authenticity. Fear that stops them fully utilising their skills and their strength. And I find that incredibly sad.
I know I’m not alone in this. I may be one of the few speaking out right now… but I am not alone. I have reached a point where something in me said, quite simply, no more.
Ladies, it is time to rise. It is time to come into your power and it is time for you to own your power. Even if your voice shakes, and even if you’re not quite there yet.
And I am not talking about power as control, manipulation, or corruption - the kind we see playing out in the world right now. I’m talking about your own personal power. Your sovereignty, in your voice, your choices, your life.
A simple place to start is this. Notice where you can say no in your life. Something small. Something that feels safe. Taking on less than you normally would. Spending more time for yourself, with yourself, allowing you to find what works for you. What you enjoy, what makes you feel good, that isn’t dependent on anyone else.
If this resonates then please accept my virtual 🤗