Rainbow Bumps and Birth

Rainbow Bumps and Birth Hypnobirthing classes designed especially to support parents through pregnancy after loss 🌈

Hello! I have a whole bunch of new followers (hello! welcome!) and whole lot of people wondering where I am (apologies!)...
11/04/2023

Hello! I have a whole bunch of new followers (hello! welcome!) and whole lot of people wondering where I am (apologies!), so hi, I am still here!

It's been a hectic couple of months with a lot of life stuff going on, so I've done what every good ADHDer does and hidden myself away for a bit 😆 but I'm pleased to say things have calmed down (mostly) and I'm excited to be back to all things birth.

I'll be posting more about things to come in the next few days, so keep an eye on my stories, and if you're waiting on a reply to anything then expect to hear back from me this week 🩵

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We talk a lot about affirmations in Hypnobirthing and how important they are, but what we don't talk about enough is how...
01/03/2023

We talk a lot about affirmations in Hypnobirthing and how important they are, but what we don't talk about enough is how the RIGHT affirmations are. Like everything, what works for one person might not work for another, and when you've previously experienced loss (or indeed any kind of trauma), it's especially important to get it right.

"I trust my body knows how to birth my baby"

Do I though?! Do I trust my body?! This is one of those affirmations that really didn't work for me when I was pregnant with my Rainbow. Not because it's not a good affirmation - it absolutely is, our bodies are bloody amazing - but because after so many losses, I really couldn't take anything seriously that started with "I trust my body" because I absolutely didn't!

So if you're pregnant and feeling like the affirmations you keep seeing don't work for you, that's okay! Affirmations, like birth, isn't a one size fits all kinda thing, so find what works for you and your baby, and you do you!

March Taster Session!This is your opportunity to come learn what Hypnobirthing is and how it can help you navigate pregn...
24/02/2023

March Taster Session!

This is your opportunity to come learn what Hypnobirthing is and how it can help you navigate pregnancy and birth after loss 💙

Completely free and online from the comfort of your own sofa. Plus a cheeky discount if you go ahead and book a course or workshop with me 💙

Head to the link in my bio to sign up now!

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"I am pregnant today"This is the mantra that got me through 9 months of anxiety when I was pregnant after 5 losses. It w...
23/02/2023

"I am pregnant today"

This is the mantra that got me through 9 months of anxiety when I was pregnant after 5 losses. It wasn't a cure-all, it didn't magically take the anxiety away, but it did help me focus on the here and now, and allowed me to enjoy my rainbow pregnancy as much as possible.

As birthers experiencing pregnancy after loss, pregnancy can be a strange and unsettling time, and we can often feel like we're not able to enjoy it like everyone else seems to be (spoiler alert, not everyone is enjoying it, I promise). Everyone is different, but I've written about my experiences on my blog in the hope that you might just find it reassuring to know you're not alone!

Link in bio - go check it out 💙

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Fed up of overpriced chocolate and flowers? Want to gift something slightly different this year? Did you forget to buy s...
14/02/2023

Fed up of overpriced chocolate and flowers? Want to gift something slightly different this year? Did you forget to buy something and need a last minute present?

For today only I'm offering 20% off ALL my courses and workshops (that makes some of them an absolute bargain!)

Head over to my linktree in my bio to book your place now and enter RAINBOWVALENTINE at checkout.

Share the love! 💗

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You may feel that when you've previously had a loss or losses that this time all that matters is a healthy baby. And obv...
08/02/2023

You may feel that when you've previously had a loss or losses that this time all that matters is a healthy baby. And obviously that's what we all wish for, but that doesn't mean you and your birth experience aren't important too.

So how can Hypnobirthing help?

🌟 Become informed. Learn all about how birth works, what your body does in labour, what you can expect from each stage, how you can work with your body during birth and what to do if fear kicks in.

🌟 Planning without pressure. It can sometimes be hard to plan when you've experienced a loss - we don't want to tempt fate or we simply can't imagine that this baby will ever be here - but we can do some all important planning to help us feel prepared but not pressured. Deciding where you'd like to birth your baby, who you'd like with you, what sort of environment you'd like can all help you connect with birth and feel more positive.

🌟 Know your rights. This one is important, especially if you're under consultant led care or considered high risk. Learning what you do and don't have to agree to (spoiler alert, you don't have to do anything you don't want to) can really help you get the birth you want. There will undoubtedly be talks of doctors, of induction, of monitoring but ultimately you are the one who gets to decide how you birth this baby, and Hypnobirthing gives you all the tools you need to do this.

🌟 Feel in control. All these things (and more) add up to one thing - you get to feel in control. Pregnancy after loss can feel so very out of our control but it doesn't have to be. We can plan in small steps, we can focus on one day at a time, and we can also learn to advocate for ourselves and make our own decisions throughout pregnancy and birth. This is your pregnancy, your birth, and your baby - you get to own it!

Want to find out more? Come along to a FREE taster session, book in for a Power Hour with me, or jump right in and sign up to the course and workshops! Just head to the link in my bio or to my website to get started!

***Rainbow Stories Wanted***One of things we talk about in Hypnobirthing is positive birth stories - it's how we change ...
02/02/2023

***Rainbow Stories Wanted***

One of things we talk about in Hypnobirthing is positive birth stories - it's how we change the narrative in our brain so we see birth as a positive, not something to be afraid of. But as parents who've experienced loss, we often need to seek out stories that reflect our own experiences, and so I need your help!

If you've been through pregnancy after loss, be it recently or many moons ago, and you'd like to help others by sharing your story, then please get in touch! You can share as much or as little as you'd like, and all stories can be shared anonymously if you'd prefer.

Click the contact button on my page to get started, and let's help support other Rainbow Parents on their journey 🌈

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This deserves a post of its own - the website is now live! There's lots still to come, which I'm so excited about, but a...
31/01/2023

This deserves a post of its own - the website is now live! There's lots still to come, which I'm so excited about, but all of my classes and workshops are listed and you can find out more about me and my own rainbow journey.

More updates to come - keep your eyes peeled 👀

🔗 Link in bio

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"I'll just buy another test...."I cannot tell you how many pregnancy tests I went through when I was pregnant with Ember...
26/01/2023

"I'll just buy another test...."

I cannot tell you how many pregnancy tests I went through when I was pregnant with Ember. And I definitely don't want to think about how much money I must have spent, but I couldn't help it, I *needed* to see that line or the word "pregnant" every single day just to make sure it was still real. Logically, after four losses, I knew that it was never going to be the pregnancy test that told me I was or wasn't miscarrying, but logic somehow isn't really applicable when it comes to pregnancy after loss, and while it might seem a ridiculous thing to do, it kept me going for those first few weeks and that's what mattered.

I talked about this with the a few months back, and was relieved to find I definitely wasn't alone in my pregnancy test obsession. Sometimes pregnancy after loss can feel like a strange and lonely place, but I can assure you there are a whole lot of us out there who've been there and who understand.

If you want to listen to the recording or if you want to come along to one of my sessions, then head to the link in my bio 💙 And if you'd like further support, head over to The Miscarriage Association - they have some amazing resources.

Interested in joining my taster session this week, but feeling a bit unsure? Take a look at just some the things a taste...
24/01/2023

Interested in joining my taster session this week, but feeling a bit unsure? Take a look at just some the things a taster session includes, all absolutely free, and a cheeky discount code at the end of if you want to go ahead and book any of my workshops and classes.

So come along, bring your birth partners, and learn how to feel confident throughout your pregnancy and birth 🌟

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It can be so hard not to worry about what's to come when you've had a previous loss. Sometimes it's getting to a certain...
23/01/2023

It can be so hard not to worry about what's to come when you've had a previous loss. Sometimes it's getting to a certain milestone, for others it's wondering if they'll ever reach that moment where babe is in their arms, but whatever it is for you, sometimes you just need to take a breath and remind yourself no matter what's happened before and what might happen in the future, "I'm pregnant today".

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2023 Courses and Workshops are now live! Are you expecting your Rainbow Baby this year? Feeling a bit unsure about the w...
19/01/2023

2023 Courses and Workshops are now live!

Are you expecting your Rainbow Baby this year? Feeling a bit unsure about the whole thing? Looking for some support from someone who just gets it?

Then sign up to any of my classes and workshops to learn how Hypnobirthing can help you right from learning you're pregnant through to birthing your baby.

All classes and workshops provide a safe space for you to navigate your pregnancy, acknowledge previous loss, and feel hopeful and confident as you get closer to birth.

Head to the link in my bio to book, and get in touch if you've got any questions 📩

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