01/11/2025
Well… I’ve hit the big 6-0 today.
And honestly, sometimes I wonder how I really got here.
Along the way, I’ve lost people I love (some “before their time” — I really hate that phrase), and gained a loving family and amazing lifelong friends.
I’ve made wise decisions, done brave things, and — on more than one occasion — been an idiot.
Just ask my wife! 😅
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But now that I’m here, the question is:
👉 What do I do with the next bit?
If average life expectancy is around 80, that means I’ve still got a quarter of my life left — and I fully intend to make it spectacular.
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I often say:
💬 We should stay around as long as possible — to support our partners, children, grandchildren, parents, and friends.
But let’s not forget about ourselves.
Growing older should mean growing bolder.
It’s about seizing opportunities that make us smile, spending time with people who lift us up, and never being too old to play, laugh and have fun.
That’s why prioritising our wellbeing isn’t selfish — it’s selfless.
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If the word exercise feels intimidating, we must think movement.
Because movement does so much for us:
💪 Increases lifespan – regular physical activity is linked to longer life by reducing risk of chronic disease
❤️ Improves heart health – strengthening the heart, improving circulation and lowering blood pressure
🧠 Boosts brain function and mental wellbeing – increasing blood flow to the brain, reducing risk of cognitive decline whilst improving mood, reducing stress, anxiety and depression
🏋️♂️ Maintains muscle and bone strength – preventing age-related muscle loss and osteoporosis, reducing the risk of fractures and falls
⚖️ Supports metabolism and weight management – helping regulate blood sugar, preventing insulin resistance, burning calories and supporting healthy weight
🦠 Improves immune function – strengthening the immune system, making the body more resilient to illness
😴 Improves sleep – helping regulate sleep patterns, leading to deeper, more restful sleep whilst reducing symptoms of insomnia and improving overall sleep quality
🧘 Enhances mobility and flexibility – keeping joints healthy, reducing stiffness and pain whilst supporting overall movement efficiency, making daily activities easier
🤝 Builds social connection – group exercises, sports, and fitness classes foster a sense of community, connection and social engagement
💥 Reduces the risk of age-related disease – keeping the body functioning optimally for longer, lowers the chances of developing conditions like Alzheimer’s, Parkinson’s, and arthritis
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As a heart attack survivor and the son of three parents lost to cancer, I know there are no guarantees.
But if we can tilt the odds in our favour — why wouldn’t we?
Growing old isn’t about fading away.
It’s about living fully — with grace, purpose and joy.
It’s about passing on wisdom, sharing laughter, and smiling until we’re no more.
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I believe health is not just “not being ill.”
It’s the balance of mental, social and physical wellbeing — and that’s what I teach and live by every day