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Deb | Anxiety → Alignment ✧ Holistic Life Coach ✧ Trauma-Informed Manifestation

Helping anxious women break survival patterns, rewire self-doubt & manifest their happiest future✨
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⚡️Unhinged Signs Your Manifestations Are Already Here (Even If You Haven’t Seen Them Yet!)When anxiety loosens its grip ...
19/12/2025

⚡️Unhinged Signs Your Manifestations Are Already Here (Even If You Haven’t Seen Them Yet!)

When anxiety loosens its grip and your identity starts to shift, the Universe often responds before your life does.

Your manifestations aren’t always huge quantum leaps. Sometimes, the Universe works quietly, sneakily, unhinged.

Here’s how you’ll know they’re actually moving:

1️⃣ The “Coincidence” Overload:
You bump into the exact person you needed. You hear a song with your exact thought in the lyrics. Numbers repeat everywhere.

2️⃣ Random Energy Surges:
Sudden goosebumps, a thrill in your chest, a hit of joy, a glimmer or nudge. Your higher self is calling.

3️⃣ Old Blocks Become Clues:
Obstacles that used to paralyse you now feel like exciting challenges pointing exactly where to go.

4️⃣ Ideas Flow Effortlessly:
Solutions, creative sparks, or “aha” moments pop into your mind without overthinking.

5️⃣ Opportunities Appear Just in Time:
That person, event, or offer you’ve been hoping for shows up seemingly out of nowhere.

6️⃣ You’re Acting “Off Script”:
Suddenly, you speak up, make bold choices, or say yes to things that used to feel impossible.

7️⃣ Your “Future Self” Shows Up in Small Ways:
You catch yourself acting confidently, making decisions, or speaking your truth before your life reflects it externally.

Your manifestations are never late. They start in the invisible first - in your energy, nervous system, identity and subtle cues everywhere around you.
The outer world is just the last chapter.

✨Try this: keep a small notebook of little “proofs” every day - weird coincidences, flashes of clarity, gut nudges. 📝

Watch how your reality starts screaming back at you when you actually start to notice - and pay attention to the subtle ways your future self is showing up. 👀

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💫If you’re an anxious mum, most of your days are probably stuck in survival mode - Getting through the school run, keepi...
15/12/2025

💫If you’re an anxious mum, most of your days are probably stuck in survival mode -

Getting through the school run, keeping everyone fed and functioning, holding it together while your mind quietly worries what others think or how you’re being judged.

And even when you want more - more fun, freedom, financial abundance - your body is still braced for failure.

Every tight shoulder. Every “I’ll do it later.” Every time you downplay a desire or talk yourself out of something - your energy is saying: stay small, stay safe.

But manifestation doesn’t start with magic, perfection or a giant leap. It starts with your mindset, your energy, and your identity on the same page.

When you consciously imagine living your dream life

Stepping into confidence, ease, and joy

Your nervous system begins to catch up, your subconscious rewires, and suddenly small signs appear everywhere.

Doors open. Opportunities that once felt impossible start showing up. Coincidences feel like magic.

✨Science calls it your reticular activation system - your brain noticing what matches your focus.
✨Spirit calls it Universal Law
✨Quantum physics calls it resonance - energy responding to your vibration and influencing the field.

And what’s fascinating is 🤯 Your mind and body can’t tell the difference between what you vividly imagine and what’s actually happening - they respond as if it’s actually real.

And here’s the part most don’t realise: insight alone won’t create real change.

You can understand what you want, dream about it, even believe in it - and still stay stuck.

⚡️Because survival mode shifts through nervous system safety, emotional processing, and rewiring old subconscious patterns - not by not by thinking, wishing, or pushing harder.

💫 When you do this work, you move out of fight and flight - your body, mind, and energy finally stop holding you back.

💫You start showing up for opportunities you’ve been avoiding - and you take inspired steps toward your goals.

💫 And you finally start that business, ask for that promotion, make time for yourself, or take that new step.

💌If you’re wondering where anxiety is truly holding you back - grab the free workbook in bio.

💫Your Inner Child Still Holds The KeyThe parts of you that feel anxious, unsure, or like you’re “too much” didn’t come f...
14/12/2025

💫Your Inner Child Still Holds The Key

The parts of you that feel anxious, unsure, or like you’re “too much” didn’t come from nowhere.
They learned how to keep you safe a long time ago.

Your inner child is the one who learned:

✨ To stay quiet to avoid conflict
✨ To be good so you wouldn’t be rejected
✨ To overthink so nothing could go wrong
✨ To please others so you’d feel secure

Those patterns didn’t disappear just because you grew up.

They show up now as anxiety, self-doubt, perfectionism, and hesitation around the life you actually want.

That’s why mindset alone doesn’t always work.

You can tell yourself “I’m capable” or “I’m worthy” -
but if a younger part of you still feels unsafe, your nervous system stays in protection mode and your energy stays tied to old timelines.

Manifestation follows safety. Your inner child sets the frequency.

If your nervous system learned early that desire equals danger, it will sabotage growth every time.

When you reconnect with her, you don’t just heal - you change your energetic signal.

Your younger self is still listening.

The way you treat her now - with the same compassion and encouragement you’d give your own child - changes the signal she sends.

When that happens:

✨ Your reactions soften
✨ Your inner critic quietens
✨ Decisions feel clearer
✨ Opportunities stop feeling threatening

The version of you who feels calm, confident, and aligned in creating the life you want - doesn’t come from suppressing her - it comes from bringing her into the light and integrating the part of you that learned to stay safe.

Your inner child isn’t holding you back.

She’s been holding the key to your next chapter, the version of you who finally takes the steps, makes the moves, and achieves the goals you’ve been dreaming of all along.

💌 Ready to stop overthinking, calm your nervous system, and step into the version of you who’s finally living her full potential?

💫 DM me the word ‘SOUL’ and I’ll send my free inner child journal prompts to reconnect with the part of you that already knows how to feel safe, take aligned action, and have unshakeable trust in herself and her own decisions.

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🌷Your future self isn’t some confident, fearless version of you.She’s the one who doesn’t:• Talk herself out of things b...
13/12/2025

🌷Your future self isn’t some confident, fearless version of you.

She’s the one who doesn’t:

• Talk herself out of things before she’s even tried
• Replay conversations worrying she said the wrong thing
• Say yes out of guilt, then feel resentful later
• Freeze when an opportunity comes up because she might “get it wrong”

She’s calmer - not because she’s braver, but because she’s not living from fear anymore.

And yes, this might show up after the school run or in the car park…
but it doesn’t stop there.

Because underneath the anxiety are patterns like:

• Fear of failure - so you hesitate and stay small
• Fear of rejection - so you people-please and stay quiet
• Self-doubt - so you second-guess decisions you actually know the answer to
• Perfectionism - so nothing ever feels ready enough
• Guilt - for wanting more when you “should be grateful”

These patterns don’t just affect how you feel - they quietly hold you back from your goals and dreams.

You want to start that business, ask for that promotion, take time for yourself, or try the ‘new thing’ - but the fear loops, self-doubt, and “I can’t” thoughts stop you before you even begin.

That isn’t your personality.
It’s emotional blocks and subconscious survival patterns running your life. But that’s not you.

Your future self is simply the hidden version of you who:

• Trusts her own decisions
• Doesn’t brace for the worst before it’s even happened
• Stops shrinking to keep others comfortable
• Allows herself to want more - without shame

And she’s already here - in the small choices you make, in the moments you notice your fear but act anyway, in the quiet decisions that align with who you truly want to be, in the brave thinking that excites your higher self and shows your true potential.

Every small step you take is already her moving through you.

You don’t need to become her - you only need to remember she’s always been here.

🌷And it’s not because you’re indecisive.It’s because your nervous system learned that choosing equals danger.Somewhere a...
05/12/2025

🌷And it’s not because you’re indecisive.
It’s because your nervous system learned that choosing equals danger.

Somewhere along the way, decisions became:

• “What if I get it wrong?”
• “What if I make things worse?”
• “What if I can’t handle the outcome?”
• “What if they don’t approve?”

So you wait.
You overthink.
You spiral.
You distract yourself.
You hope the answer will magically appear if you stay still long enough.

But that freeze isn’t failure.
It’s protection.

Your mind is trying to keep you safe by keeping you small.

Here’s the part you’ve been needing to hear:

You don’t freeze because you’re weak.
You freeze because your old beliefs were shaped by fear, not by the version of you who’s ready to move forward.

When you rewire that… everything shifts.
Decision-making becomes lighter.
The “what ifs” calm down.
You stop living in reaction mode and start living in intention.
You stop waiting for clarity - and start creating it.

Your next version of yourself isn’t someone who never feels fear.
She’s someone who knows her fear isn’t the authority anymore.

And every tiny decision you make - even the ones that feel insignificant - is you choosing your future over your survival patterns.

That’s where your power lives.
Not in perfect decisions…
but in the moment you choose to move again.

💫 And this is exactly what we do inside The Happiness Manifest -

We retrain the beliefs that keep you stuck in freeze mode,

calm the mental noise that makes every decision feel high-stakes,

and help you build a way of thinking where choosing becomes easier, lighter, and actually exciting.

Not by forcing confidence…

but by rewiring the patterns that were never yours to carry.

⚡️If you’re ready to let anxiety, self-doubt & overwhelm stop holding you back from the life, the choices and the self you really want, drop me a DM and discover how

💌 Check out my free anxiety workbook in the bio

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🌷You want a bigger life.With more joy, purpose, confidence & ease.More meaning. Better relationships. That dream career,...
27/11/2025

🌷You want a bigger life.
With more joy, purpose, confidence & ease.

More meaning. Better relationships.
That dream career, creative venture, even that year-round summer body…

A life that feels spacious instead of stretched. Supported instead of surviving.

And yet… the second you even let yourself imagine it, something inside you clamps shut.

Your chest tightens when you picture a different future.

Your mind jumps straight to the what-ifs - the bills, the kids, the logistics.

Your body goes into that subtle shutdown you don’t mention to anyone… because on the outside, you’re “fine”.

But you do want it.
You are capable.
Yet your nervous system has spent years in the same loop:

“Big = unsafe.”
“Change = danger.”
“More = risk.”

Because bigger dreams might mean:

Putting yourself out there and risking rejection.
Saying no when you’ve always said yes.
Letting yourself want something beyond the school run, the mortgage, and keeping everyone else afloat.

And even though part of you feels excited…
another part whispers, “What if I can’t,” “What if I fail,” “What if it all goes to sh*t?”

This isn’t self-doubt.
This is survival conditioning.

You’re not deciding you don’t want it -
you’re protecting yourself from the unfamiliar.

And the moment your mind and body learn it’s safe to want more, safe to expand, safe to receive, safe to be held - everything shifts.

Because when you finally believe you’re worthy of more…

You stop shrinking yourself to fit the life you should have.. stop seeking outside validation, stop saying no to yourself, and start rising into the one you’re truly meant for.

💫 2 Questions:

If anxiety didn’t get in your way - What’s the first thing you’d do if your body and mind finally felt safe to expand?

And if you allowed yourself to really believe it’s possible, what would you start manifesting today?

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🌷Your survival patterns didn’t appear out of nowhere.They were built one moment of pressure, stress and self-protection ...
26/11/2025

🌷Your survival patterns didn’t appear out of nowhere.

They were built one moment of pressure, stress and self-protection at a time.

And they’re so ingrained now that you barely notice you’re still running on them.

Patterns like:

✔️Overthinking every decision
✔️Needing to control everything
✔️Being the responsible one
✔️Saying yes when you want to say no
✔️Carrying everyone else’s emotions
✔️Keeping busy so you don’t feel anxious
✔️Doubting yourself even when you know you’re capable

These aren’t flaws.
They’re protective responses your brain created when life felt uncertain, overwhelming, or too much.

They were designed to keep you safe…
But they also keep you small.

And here’s the belief shift most women never hear:

Your survival patterns aren’t who you are.
They’re who you became when you didn’t feel safe being yourself.

When you understand this, everything changes.
You realise you’re not broken.
You realise your anxiety is not a personality.
You realise you don’t need to “fix” yourself - you need to repattern the systems that were built for a past version of you that no longer fits.

This is why so many anxious women feel stuck even when they “try everything.”

Because you can’t manifest a new reality while your nervous system is still wired for survival, fear and self-doubt.

But the moment you start recognising these patterns…

The moment you start understanding where they came from…

The moment you learn how to rewire them instead of fighting them…

Something shifts.

You stop living from old wounds.
You start living from your future self.
And that’s when life starts to feel lighter, calmer, clearer - and finally your own again.

If you want to uncover which patterns are running your life right now, grab the Free Anxiety Workbook in my bio.

It shows you exactly where you’re holding yourself back… so you can finally move forward and create the life, self, health, wealth, biz…. that you want.

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✨Most women think manifestation is about just staying positive or believing harder.But manifestation isn’t just magic.💫I...
23/11/2025

✨Most women think manifestation is about just staying positive or believing harder.

But manifestation isn’t just magic.💫
It’s your subconscious, your nervous system, and your energy working together - aligned with your soul and the life you’re ready to create.

If you’ve spent years in survival mode - overthinking, shrinking yourself, avoiding conflict, doubting every decision - your system prioritises safety, not possibility, and staying small, not dreaming bigger.

Trying to manifest from fear, pressure, or self-doubt won’t work - your body doesn’t feel safe enough to move towards it.

Here’s what manifestation actually looks like when you understand your anxiety:

1️⃣ Your body decides the pace.
If your nervous system feels threatened, it won’t let you expand.

2️⃣ Your beliefs set the ceiling.
Old fears, past experiences, and quiet self-doubt shape what you think you can have.

3️⃣ Your habits hold the energy.
The way you respond to fear, speak to yourself, and make choices when no one’s watching sets your vibration.

4️⃣ Your identity leads the way.
You manifest as the version of you who feels capable and worthy - not the version seeking outside approval.

5️⃣ Your clarity creates direction.
When you know what you truly want, not what you’ve been conditioned to want, your energy signals the universe and the quantum field that you’re ready.

Trauma-informed manifestation changes everything.

You become the version of you who doesn’t self-sabotage, shut down, or talk herself out of the things she wants.

You clear anxious patterns, subconscious blocks, and protective habits that quietly keep your dreams just out of reach.

Once you gain clarity about what you want, everything inside you moves in the same direction.
You break your self-imposed resistance.

When mindset, behaviour, identity, and energy align with your intention, everything you’ve been trying to force starts flowing.

Suddenly, opportunities you once second-guessed don’t seem so scary, and life feels aligned with who you were truly meant to be.

If you want to know more about how anxiety is sabotaging you from the life you want to manifest
💌Download your free Anxiety workbook.

22/11/2025

🌷You’re not ‘just driven.’
You’re driven by fear, not belief.

These patterns aren’t discipline - they’re protection.

Your nervous system is working overtime, your subconscious is running the show, and it’s keeping you safe instead of letting you rise.

Inside Happiness Manifest, you learn how to regulate your body, rewire the beliefs behind these habits, and finally become the woman who doesn’t rely on fear to make decisions.

⚡️Ready to get to the root of your anxiety and uplevel your entire life, career, health, wealth, relationships?

This is the shift you’ve been waiting for.

💫Link in bio.

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Imagine your life through the eyes of your 80 year old self.She knows exactly what mattered and what never did.She remem...
20/11/2025

Imagine your life through the eyes of your 80 year old self.

She knows exactly what mattered and what never did.

She remembers the moments you were too scared to try.

She remembers every time you held yourself back because you feared judgment.

She remembers the dreams you talked yourself out of.

She remembers the years you spent worrying about things that never shaped your life.

And she wishes you could see what she sees now.

Most of the things you stress about do not change your future.
But the things you avoid because of fear absolutely do.

She wants you to take the chance.
She wants you to say yes.
She wants you to stop waiting for the perfect moment that never arrives.
She wants you to live while you still have time to choose.

If you could borrow her perspective today

You would stop shrinking
You would stop apologising
You would stop doubting your potential

And you would start building a life that actually means something to you.

That is the version of you your future self is asking you to become.

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