R Gwinnell & Sons Funeral Directors

26/11/2025

Some lovely feedback for Sarah in our Hadleigh office...

07/11/2025

Lest we forget.

Remembrance Day honours the heroic efforts, achievements and sacrifices that were made in past wars. The main observance is on the second Sunday in November, but 2 minutes of silence is also made on November 11.

With love and pride, we remember your sacrifice.

14/10/2025

All white horse and carriage with matching purple plumes for this special funeral led by Matthew Gwinnell.

07/10/2025

Coping With Grief As The Days Get Shorter

There’s something about the shifting of the seasons that tugs at grief in a way I can’t always describe.

Do you ever feel that way?

When the light fades earlier each evening and the mornings arrive with gray skies, it feels like grief seems to mirror the seasons, it grows heavier as the days grow darker.

In the brightness of summer, when the sun lingers long past dinner, there are distractions. There are warm breezes, a garden to tend to, birds singing, and the comforting hum of life outdoors.

But then when autumn steps in, when the air cools and the trees release the weight of their leaves, it makes you feel like you’re stripped down too. The silence of longer nights leaves more room for painful memories; more space to notice the absence of the person you miss the most.

I often find that grief isn’t just about anniversaries or birthdays; it can be woven into the seasons themselves. A certain scent in the air, the crunch of leaves under your feet, the muted sky at 5 p.m., all of it takes us back.

All our memories somehow feel sharper as the colder weather sets in. For some reason they seem to cut deeper when the days are short.

What makes this time harder is how the world itself contracts. The evenings come too quickly, leaving fewer hours of daylight to soften the sadness.

Here’s the thing…I’m learning to move with the seasons instead of resisting them.

I like to light candles when the sun disappears, reminding myself that even in the darkest moments, little flames matter. And sometimes, I just let myself cry because another year is coming to an end without the person I love beside me.

Grief doesn’t get easier just because time moves forward. In some ways, it grows louder in the silence of shorter days. But maybe the changing seasons also remind us that nothing stays still, not even sorrow. Each shift in light, each falling leaf carries both pain and the possibility of healing.

And so, as the nights stretch longer, maybe we just need to remind ourselves that grief isn’t just absence. It’s proof of love, proof that someone so deeply shaped our days.

And that even the change of seasons…can’t erase their presence.

Gary Stugis

30/09/2025

It was an honour to help celebrate a truly unique life of a gentleman with a send-off that reflected his passion so well. The Land Rover’s provided a fitting and personal tribute, and we’re grateful to have been entrusted with such a special farewell.
We send our best wishes to the family.

02/09/2025

September is Blood Cancer Awareness Month.
Blood cancer is the fifth most common cancer in the UK, and more critically, the third biggest cancer killer.

20/08/2025

A thank you for Amy in Colchester and the team:

"I just wanted to say again what an incredible job you all did for my dad's funeral. Don't think I had the chance to tell you again, but your support and the service you provided were on another level. Thank you from the bottom of my heart x "

12/08/2025

A couple of lovely thank you's for Sarah in our Hadleigh office.

06/08/2025

August is National Road Victim Month. It's aimed at remembering those who have lost their lives, or been injured in road traffic collisions and raise awareness about road safety.

Every single day in the UK:

-5 people are killed in road collisions
-Over 80 sustain serious, often life-changing injuries

These are not just numbers, they’re lives, families, and futures changed forever.

📞 RoadPeace Helpline: 0800 160 1069
✉️ helpline@roadpeace.org

01/08/2025

We were honoured to support this family with their loved ones final journey from our Ipswich Road branch.
Led by Roy Gwinnell and followed by so many bikers.

25/07/2025

Samaritans Awareness from 24th - 27th July is dedicated to raising awareness about the work of Samaritans, a charity organization that provides emotional support to people in distress, particularly those at risk of su***de. Call 116 123 if you need to speak to someone.

18/07/2025

"A Silent Tear" by Gaynor Llewellyn.