Deep Connexions

Deep Connexions Pre & Perinatal Developmental Trauma Expert & Consultant
Working with families struggling with challenging behaviour and low academic performance.

Craniosacral, Integrative Baby Therapy, Reflex Integration & Neuro Developmental Therapy

The validity of Reflex Integration. This is a great post by a fellow reflex integration practitioner explaining why refl...
10/03/2026

The validity of Reflex Integration.

This is a great post by a fellow reflex integration practitioner explaining why reflex integration is so important and the history of this cutting edge therapeutic modality that is ever evolving and requires specific training.

As a mum of three, when the medical and educational professions could not explain why my children were not achieving their full potential, I had to dig deep to find the missing piece of the puzzle.
This led me to training with INPP Ltd and becoming a holistic developmental trauma specialist.

There seems to have been a spate of negative social media surrounding the subject of reflex integration as a therapeutic intervention. There are a few misinformed posts circulating. None of them written from an actual experience of the work. Isn't that interesting?
I would like to address some of the common concerns. I apologise for this long post...

* Research papers

One of the main criticisms is apparently a lack of independent research. The drivers behind a lot of research, are people who work with reflex integration day by day. The therapy is not widely understood beyond those circles. To get independent research done, requires a lot of money and also researchers who actually understand the work. You cannot understand, unless you have training. So, a bit of a catch-22 situation.
Another criticism seems to be that the research is restricted to their chosen modality. Given that that is how they know to work with reflex integration, how can we expect anything different? It is also a way of testing and monitoring that their modalities do work and do get results.
However, the body of research is growing. I do have a seven page document with hyperlinks to research. If you would like a copy, please message me, as I am not able to load it here.

* Training in Reflex Integration:

As a therapeutic practise, we are still in early stages of development, relatively speaking. So, it is run by small networks of therapeutic approaches, such as: MNRI, INPP, RMTi, Melillo Method, QRI and many, many more.
I do wish there would be a collaboration of understanding from all modalities and approaches. They all have their strengths and their weaknesses. They are all constantly evolving - striving to be better, striving for more understanding and reflection. Collaboration would be awesome, but as yet, that is not the case.
We are also a very long way from seeing it adopted at university level or degree status - though that would be truly wonderful to see. This would require well trained lecturers who understand the developmental implications of reflexes, not just patterns that are tested in paediatric assessments.

Why do we test for primitive reflexes? Why should all babies respond, if it didn't matter for ongoing development?

Research into the individual function of reflexes have actually been ongoing for over fifty years. And still we are being accused of making things up, of being questionable as a practise. Please can someone tell me why paying attention to the foundations of development is so terrible?

So, unfortunately, if you want to train in this work and understand it more, you do have to go through one of the groups that are more internationally active and recognised. Yes, I would like to see the quality of training more regulated and monitored. It would be great to have one world-wide governing body monitoring and regulating the quality and understanding.

* Claims at curing neurological differences:

No self-respecting properly trained reflex integration therapist/neurodevelopmental therapist would or should make such claims. We are an educational approach - teaching nervous systems how to regulate sensory processing and motion, more efficiently, more effortlessly and strengthening the nervous system in the process. The simple difference, is that we go back to the original building blocks and do the best we can to ensure the nervous system puts them into place. The goal, is always to increase an individuals access to choice. Choice around how they are able to understand their bodies in space, choice around regulating safety and attachment, choice around motion, choice around emotional regulation. As reflexes integrate, the foundation blocks for neurological resource, strengthens. Reducing the level of challenge one lives with, is always the goal. Retained primitive reflexes are simply one piece of the puzzle when trying to understand a person's level of difficulty with life and living.

* It's just monetising movement:

This argument floors me. We are human beings. We are created to be able to execute incredibly complex movement. Please tell me which therapeutic movement programs are not monetised? Occupational Therapy? Physical Therapy? Chiropractic? Osteopathy? Sport? Tai Chi, Martial Arts, Gym workouts.
I could go on.
These have all been around for a lot longer and have had more time to become accepted as therapeutic intervention, when dysfunctional motion is identified. The difference with reflex integration, is that we go back to the original building blocks of motion. We want to make sure the reflex arcs for motion have actually been able to connect in the nervous system. The more they connect and fulfil their role in our nervous system development, the more efficient the connections between different hubs in the brain, become.
Yes, there are some modalities out there who charge an eye-watering amount for their treatment. But, not all of them are like that. It's the same with all movement based interventions, whether they recognise, or understand the role of primitive reflexes or not.
You pay for the cost of training they have undergone, to build their understanding and you pay for their experience. As you would for anything.

* Reflex Integration is:

Reflex Integration is about looking at the whole child/ the whole person. We are looking to connect dots, as to why difficulties exist in the first place. Trying to identify the root cause, is the key and finding a solution. Can we reteach the nervous system to fulfil what it struggled to do, earlier? Can we give the nervous system a second chance?
We do not believe in coping strategies or having to learn to compensate. But we do recognise the nervous system's extraordinary capacity to do this. We see it again and again in the work we do.

Reflex Integration is always functional. Reflex integration should respect the state of a nervous system and work with each individual, with kindness and care. As function improves, this is evidence that neurological connections and synapses are firing better. Sensory processing and motion are a complex dance within the neurology of our brains. This is a key piece of our training, too. Everything is connected.

* What are Primitive Reflexes?

Primitive Reflexes primary role is to teach us how to survive. How to thrive. They teach us how to move. How to control our muscles optimally and our senses in balance. So, whenever they have not been able to fulfil their role, it can lead to our nervous systems having to adapt and compensate. Compensation takes effort.
Retained reflexes simply means that the reflexes have not fulfilled their role yet. As a consequence, the brain apportions energy in different ways. Integration = more effortless function.

Retained reflexes are connected to Sensory Processing Difficulties. They underpin our ability to develop the senses in the first place.
If the nervous system is struggling to process sensory processing, there is a reason. We function by how well we process sensory information from inside us, as well as from outside of us. The efficiency of that input, then determines the efficiency of the motor output. It is how our nervous systems function.
If a primitive reflex has fulfilled its developmental role in our nervous system, then our brain masters voluntary control over the movement pattern and it can always call on it, when the demand is there. We can function in a more balanced, effortless way.

Primitive reflexes have a crucial role to play in our nervous system development and our function. They are not a disease. They are not something we have to get rid of. They are not something to be feared. They simply need a little help to do what they were originally designed to do. They should emerge, develop and integrate or transform into lifelong postural control. Therapists who work with retained reflexes, are trained to understand this developmental journey and identify when an individual may need help with integration. Different modalities approach integration in different ways.

Retained primitive reflexes are far more common, than you would think. It simply depends on how much of an impact they have on your function, and if you would like to invite your nervous systems to develop stronger resources.

Most children and adults who come to us, have already tried many, many other things to help them. For me personally, it was the missing link after seven years of other interventions, for my son. Hence why I am here, today. Many parents and trainees I have worked with over the years, will say exactly the same - but of course that is anecdotal. It's not research.

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26/02/2026

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πŸ‘ΆπŸ’™ Daddy’s Baby Massage Special πŸ’™πŸ‘Ά

πŸ“… Saturday 28th March
⏰ 10:30am
πŸ“ Our Little Village, Basepoint – West Swindon

Calling all the dads!!!
Ever wondered what actually goes on in baby massage… and why your partner comes home so relaxed? 😏
This is your chance to experience it for yourself.
This special daddy-only session is all about giving dads the space to:

✨ Enjoy a chilled, relaxed baby massage class

✨ Bond with your baby in a calm, no-pressure environment
✨ See what your partner usually gets up to
✨ Meet other dads and have a chat
✨ Eat treats (yes, there will be treats 🀣)

No expectations. No awkwardness. Babies are welcome to be babies.

Just a super relaxed session where you can give it a go, have a laugh, and enjoy some quality time together.

Perfect for first-timers β€” absolutely no experience needed. Come as you are, leave feeling smugly relaxed πŸ˜‰

Some of the amazing providers that you will be able to chat to at the Chippenham Baby Show this Sunday 1st March at the ...
26/02/2026

Some of the amazing providers that you will be able to chat to at the Chippenham Baby Show this Sunday 1st March at the Neeld Hall 10am til 1pm

One of the modalities that forms the foundation of my healing therapy practice
10/02/2026

One of the modalities that forms the foundation of my healing therapy practice

SUBTLE PHYSIOLOGY

In medicine, physiology studies the functions of living organisms which maintain life, health, and homeostasis, as well as how organisms respond to environmental changes. Beneath this measurable, material level of function, there is the subtle physiology of life itself.

In craniosacral therapy we attend to subtle physiology. This manifests in the living body as the polyrhythmic tidal motion which WG Sutherland named Primary Respiration.

Observing how this tidal motion responds to changes in the organism’s internal and external environment provides diagnostic information. These responses can be transitory, fluctuant, or they can be chronic; the latter become the subject of our therapeutic encounters in which we use gentle touch to liberate the forces that bind in order to reanimate the body’s subtle physiology.

10/02/2026

Pop this in your diary and come and say 'hello.' πŸ‘‹πŸ‘‹

07/02/2026

Neuro developmental therapy (NDT) is a completely personalised therapy that integrates retained reflexes helping your child better regulate their emotions, improve their academic performance and their ability to balance and move in a more coordinated way.

Learn more at deepconnexions.co.uk

07/02/2026

Why are paper πŸ“„ pencils ✏️ books πŸ“š and play πŸ›so important for your child's development?

I have this conversation with so many parents who come to me because their child is struggling to read, write, spell and complete number work.

These children are often issued with some form of technological solution or aid such as a laptop to assist their learning.

Whilst this may be a great way of supporting and improving the achievements of the child in the short term, it does not address the underlying issues. It is akin to putting a sticky plaster over a deep wound. πŸ˜”

The fact that your child is struggling may be due to a profile of retained reflexes. Such reflex actions should have been integrated during the first year of life but they can remain active due to difficulties during pregnancy and birth, or not completing critical movements a baby is programmed to make such as crawling. The great news is that this can be remediated by a drug free daily movement programme. 😊

If you would like to know more, please drop me a line at info@deepconnexions.co.uk and let's organise a discovery call 😍
www.deepconnexions.co.uk

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Are you struggling to parent anger or anxiety?The root reasons for your child's challenging behaviour and lack of academ...
01/02/2026

Are you struggling to parent anger or anxiety?

The root reasons for your child's challenging behaviour and lack of academic performance may be related to your child's earliest experiences through womb (pregnancy) and birth.

The central nervous system develops during early pregnancy. During this time, the little one can endure experiences that leave imprints on their developing neurology which cause glitches in their neuro pathways. It is like they are using the country lanes instead of the motorway to get to their destination.
This can lead them to skip developmental stages and hence struggle to complete age related tasks. On deeper assessment, these children often have a profile of retained reflexes.

The good news is that a drug free reflex integration programme can remedy much of this, putting your child back on their path to shine and achieve their true potential.

If you would like to know more about neuro developmental therapy and reflex integration, please email your contact details to: info@deepconnexions.co.uk and let's organise a discovery chat 😍 to get your child on the road to shining their brilliance!

Are you expecting a baby or perhaps you have a toddler in the house......Come to the CHIPPENHAM BABY Show and meet lots ...
01/02/2026

Are you expecting a baby or perhaps you have a toddler in the house......
Come to the CHIPPENHAM BABY Show and meet lots of local people who can support you, and your little ones on life's journey

If you are a pregnancy, birth, baby or toddler business, or a new or expectant parent, do join me at the Birth Network North Wiltshire's Chippenham Baby Show.

If you are currently expecting a baby, or have a child aged under 2, then put the date in your diary. Entry for new and expectant families is free. There's even free goody bags for the first 50 attendees.

Here is a list of the services and organisations who have already confirmed they will be there:

❀️ Rooted Motherhood by Jasmine
🧑 The Mother Rite
πŸ’› Sing and Sign Chippenham & Marlborough
πŸ’š Deep Connexions
πŸ’™ Tracey Andresen Reflexology
πŸ’œ Optimum Nursing Bras
❀️ Odyssey of Motherhood
🧑 Devizes, Melksham and Calne Breastfeeding Support
πŸ’› Children's Calm Community
πŸ’š Little Pickles Markets Somerset And Wiltshire
πŸ’™ Kathryn at Singing Mamas North Wiltshire
πŸ’œ Craniosacral & Integrative Baby Therapy, Swindon, Wilts
❀️ Smiles Photography
🧑 Aquatic Harmony
πŸ’› BabyBeatsWestWiltshire
πŸ’š The Mother's Hour
πŸ’™ Optimum Corner
πŸ’œ Water Babies
❀️ North Wiltshire HomeBirthers
🧑 Swindon and Devizes Sling Library
πŸ’› Optimum Bumps
πŸ’š Swindon Birth School

25/01/2026

This..... Could have been written by any number of the children I work with.

Parents come to me because their child is struggling with hypersensitivity, overwhelm, meltdowns, anger, anxiety..... Which making daily living difficult, attending school a challenge and taking a heavy toll on family life.

When I assess these children for retained reflexes, they nearly always display retained Fear Paralysis and Moro reflexes. This means their autonomic nervous system is running a push pull dynamic: wanting to withdraw whilst also going into fight flight. This is exhausting! 😒 And results in the challenging behaviour.

If this is your story and you would like to hear more about how a drug free developmental movement programme can help, please drop me a line at: info@deepconnexions.co.uk and let's organise a discovery call where you can find out more about the the way I support children and families to make family life better and more joyful.

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