
21/07/2025
The Sport Psychology Toolbox - 2
"Reframing" but with acceptance and self compassion
Using concepts from ACT and compassion focused therapy is how I personally approach my work with my clients when it comes to dealing with their own unhelpful self talk, thoughts and emotions when it comes to their (sports) performance. This aligns most with my own values and experiences and is not everyone's approach.
Reframing in its most simple form is changing the content of unhelpful (negative, unconstructive) thought to a more functional, positive thought.
However I don't believe that we can just banish negative thoughts to the sideline, it can be unhelpful and lead to frustration when this doesn't work on a sustainable basis.
Accepting and acknowledging that such thoughts are normal and human and being able to sit with them for a while and having compassion with oneself rather than self loathing for having "unhelpful" thoughts and emotions that might impair performance is imperative before moving forward.
The more we try to diminish and get rid of thoughts the more we might not be able to not think about them( the pink elephant analogy).
This more compassionate approach can make it easier to reframe certain thoughts and feelings, just not in the conventional way. Rather more in a way of where they are not getting in the way of performance anymore as they don't attract undue attention and don't distract from what is needed for high performance.
What do you think?