19/01/2026
When families first get in touch, they often tell us the hardest part is how to start the conversation about care with a parent.
Not because their mum or dad needs lots of help, but because the word care does not feel like it fits.
Many people have spent their lives working, running households, supporting others and making decisions. Being offered care can feel like a step backwards.
What we often find works better is reframing the idea completely. Instead of “you need help”, it becomes “would it be nice if someone came round for an hour a week to help you sort the photos, get the garden back on track or tackle those boxes in the spare room”.
Very often, just one hour a week can be enough to keep routines going, build confidence and give families reassurance.
Support does not have to mean losing independence. Sometimes it simply means having someone alongside you to get things done.
If you are curious about how even a small amount of support could make a difference, our team in Darlington & Northallerton is happy to talk on 01325 467833 or via homeinstead.co.uk/darlington-northallerton.
