24/10/2025
I’ve been thinking recently about how much we really know about our closest relatives and do we have enough to plan a fitting and meaningful funeral service. Do we know which school our parents went to? Do we know about jobs, special memories, things about the childhood? The answer to this is usually no. When there is no one to ask what do we do? We can still write a beautiful service but not necessarily as lovely as it could be. So what do we do about this? Talk about death and dying, it’s something that will come to us all. Reminisce about ‘the old days’, laugh and share funny stories and ask the relevant questions that will make planning a meaningful celebration of life easier. Death is a part of life and it should not be taboo. Talk and get those memories down on paper it really is important.