29/05/2025
You need to heal your opposing energy first!
I see so many people (mostly DF's) try and focus on healing their own preferred energy first before they heal the opposite energy because they realise they are the DF.
However by doing this DF's and focusing on just your own energy your actually keeping yourself stuck.
You need to heal your inner masculine first (your inner child and inner teen etc) before the feminine in you feels safe to be seen and show up in the world.
If all you do is focus on being a DF, DF etc then you'll spend years looping and going around and around in circles which is why so many of you are stuck.
When masculines awaken they drop straight into their wounded feminine energy and they heal their mother wound and learn to nurture, care and love themselves. They will then feel safe to go into boy energy and eventually become a man.
A masculine will not feel safe to be seen and be masculine all the while he still has wounded feminine energy. In wounded feminine energy he seeks a mother type person who tells him what to do.
Personally i spent 5 years healing my own feminine energy before i felt able to step into my wounded masculine energy in Jan 2024 and im now in healed masculine energy in May 2025.
Its taken me 18 months to go from wounded masculine to healed masculine energy so just imagine what your DM needs to go through when he awakens.
Healing takes time and you will go back n forth and around and around until you feel safe inside your body by removing trauma stored within it to step into your preferred energy.
Where are you currently in your journey?
