19/12/2025
When new clients start with me, a lot of them already have a ānumberā in their head.
That magic weight.
A finish line.
And a belief that once they hit that number, life will suddenly feel different.
I totally understand it too.
The industry has conditioned everyone to obsess over scales.
To believe their happiness, confidence and self-worth sit on a set of digits.
But hereās where things start to fall apartā¦
For so many people, that āgoal weightā becomes the very thing that derails them.
It puts pressure on every weigh-in.
Turns normal fluctuations into panic.
And it makes progress feel like failure if itās not happening at the exact speed they imagined.
Worst of all?
It stops them from seeing real wins that have nothing to do with gravity.
I never dismiss someoneās goal weight...
Iām not here to judge...
But I do challenge the thinking behind it.
Because hereās the penny-drop moment I give my clients.
What if you could feel happier, healthier, more confident, and look better in your clothesā¦
Even if you never hit that imaginary number in your head?
Because thatās what actually happens when you stop obsessing over scales and start focusing on...
šš» How your clothes fit
šš» How your body feels
šš» Your energy
šš» Your strength
And your relationship with food
When clients work with me, the goal shifts from āI must weigh Xā to...
āI want to feel good, look good, and live my life without feeling trapped by numbers.ā
And once that shift happens?
They relax.
They progress faster.
Their body composition changes.
And funnily enoughā¦
Many of them surpass the number they once obsessed over.
Because theyāre finally doing things properly.
So hereās something to sit with today...
Is real progress worth missing out on because youāre chasing a number that, in the grand scheme of things, doesnāt actually matter?
Change the approach and change the results šš»
If this has struck a chord and youāre tired of going round in circles, drop me a message.
Iād be happy to chat š