Open Skies Hypnotherapy

13/01/2026

Today is the day one of my intentions for 2026 was realised. 13 days into a New Year, this happened...I received my final certificate as a General Hypnotherapy Standards Council Acknowledged Supervisor!

What does this mean?

It means I can make a difference to the lives of other hypnotherapists and their clients.

Why is supervision important?

Because hypnotherapy can be practiced unethically and unsafely by people who have not been properly trained. It is unregulated and as such, a quick online course of a few hours can qualify you - on paper.

I am regulated as a therapist and now as a supervisor by the GHSC and my course covered not only hypnotherapy but also psychotherapeutic modalities to back up my skills. These ranged from Transactional Analysis, Gestalt, person-centred therapy and counselling skills, to a thorough examination of transference and counter-transference, ethics and safe boundaries. I am trained to an extremely high standard and can use this alongside my years in private practice, to really make a difference to other therapists.

When can I start taking on supervisees?

Right now! If you are looking for a supervisor, please contact me to discuss your requirements. I am excited to work in this field and really help as many people as I can to develop.

12/01/2026

So we’re 12 days into the New Year. I didn’t set myself loads of unrealistic targets for 2026 because I knew I’d just get frustrated if I couldn’t achieve it all and we all have to be real about what demands we have on our time and what we can actually do for ourselves.

BUT…that doesn’t mean I just allowed another year to arrive without setting some intentions.

If you’re a woman of a certain age, you may find yourself assessing life and wondering what to do with this next chapter of it. I know it’s a question that’s been on my mind a lot lately as I feel the years creeping away.

And so, I have put in place a few things for myself in 2026. Because we are not just mums, or wives. We are not just organisers, taxi drivers, prescription collectors, pet owners. We are unique, beautiful people in our own right and we need to allow our purpose to be realised. I know I do, anyway.

So for January, I have been putting in place these things:

✅ Working on my hypnotherapy supervisor qualification so I can supervise and support other hypnotherapists

✅ Taking part in a one day online writing retreat yesterday called Moon and Shadow which was immersive and very productive as well as honouring the writer part of me which runs deep through my soul. I’ve made a lot of progress on my next novel during this retreat.

✅ Signing up to Ink & Flame, a 7 week writing programme designed to grow me an audience on Substack who will pay a subscription to access my writing community

✅ Enrolling on a course to qualify as an Advanced TFT Practitioner. I have had diagnostic TFT carried out on me by an advanced practitioner and it was mind blowing. It diagnoses emotions and then releases them without a client having to even mention anything. I can already see so many situations where I’ll be able to use this to make a real difference to my clients who aren’t ready to talk about their trauma.

✅ Getting back to guitar lessons after Christmas and starting to learn how to write a song - I feel pretty confident I’ll have something written in the coming months that will be exciting and reflective of my personality.

Phew! I realised as I typed this how much intention has already been set for the year.

I didn’t say I’d exercise every day or wake at 5am to go running because I know myself well enough to know it wouldn’t happen. But I intend to continue dancing this year and to rise early to write when the mood takes me. And that’s enough.

If you’re going into the year feeling stuck, not really knowing what to change or commit to, maybe we can chat?

I’m running my new UPLIFT programme right now and I’d love to help you move into a new year making changes that feel right, real and sustainable.

Whether that be releasing old traumas, or peeling away the labels of wife, mum, employee to rediscover who is underneath, it could be the most beautiful gift you give yourself.

03/01/2026

Ok ladies, hands up who resonates with my latest poem below? We've all been there. We try to be that perfect parent, the one who never shouts. But when we find ourselves in a negative mindset, we just can't help ourselves. Frustration rears its head and we start to take it out on those around us.

That's why having the right mindset is such a hugely important tool in life. Its something I can help you with - and its something that I understand can be a real challenge, especially when we are juggling a lot, we're single mums, or we're perimenopausal.

Have a read, and know that you're not alone. I'm always here if you need.

This poem is called, "The power of positive".

It's all about the mindset, that's truly what I think
For mindset is the key to whether we shall float or sink.

Two people in the same situation, may both have a different view
On whether things are bad or good, whether they are happy or they're blue.

Let's look at an example, from my life - which I perceive
To be sometimes worse than it is, I beg for a reprieve.

Give me a break, I shout aloud, and then I slam the door
I mutter as I do so, "I just can't take any more".

"There's so much to do on the house, and so much money to be spent
I'll just never afford it, I hate being a single parent!".

I rage against the world, and how I find it so unfair
I go off into victim mode, and I stay entrenched right there.

My family all suffer, when I get into this pattern
"Why can't you just be nice?", they ask, "Why does this always happen?"

And then, you see, I feel much worse, and the cycle starts again
"I'm damaging my child," I wail, "I never meant to cause her pain."

So off I go, away to my desk, and there I begin to write
A list of reasons to be thankful, for a life that's truly bright.

A home that I have painted, in colours vibrant and bold
Shelves of books yet to be read, their stories waiting to be told.

A cat who I can cuddle, his gift is one of love and care
A few close friends who really "get" me, my problems with them I share.

The gift of an optician to correct my wonky sight
The gift of funky glasses, to amaze and to delight!

The gift of dance - the way I feel, when I move my body to the beat
The way dance classes have saved me, when I felt crushing defeat.

The gift of a work ethic, huge ambition, self-respect
The gift of my amazing daughter, who I will always protect.

The gift of watching musicals, that make me laugh and cry
The joy of being creative, a gift that money cannot buy.

My training as a therapist, that opened up my eyes
I grew in self-awareness, and that in itself is a prize.

So there are many ways that we can look upon our life
We can look at what we do not have, but that will only cause us strife.

Or we can set a timer, for five minutes, and we can write
About all the abundance that fills our heart with joy and light.

I know what I would rather do - appreciate my life, and soak it in
And give thanks for a positive mindset - because that means I'll always win.

(c) Emma Oldershaw, 2026

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31/12/2025

https://openskieshypnotherapy.co.uk/grey-skies-seeing-the-beauty-in-your-grey/

Good Morning, followers, and welcome to the last day of 2025.

Here is a poem I have created for all of you, my clients past and present, those who are following quietly, those who are thinking and listening in the shadows. This poem is for you all.

As you read, please make a note of what comes up for you and please do feel free to share that with me privately if you wish.

I wish you a day of gentleness, whatever that may look like for you.

A poem about how we view feeling grey, empty or numb. Is it a protector? Is it a product of our environment? And have you thought about the beauty underneath?

30/12/2025

And so, a New Year is almost upon us. I've been creating the ultimate programme for you for the last several months and I'm super excited to unveil it here first.

Step into 2026 feeling UPLIFTed with my new six-step programme designed to give you a complete wellbeing makeover.

Step 1: UNDO (past narratives and limiting beliefs)
Through therapeutic work using an integrative approach tailored to you (from a range including NLP, Hypnotherapy, Regression, Inner child work, creative therapy and counselling skills), let's examine the origin of your limiting beliefs and past narratives about yourself, making links to aid understanding and then reframing perceptions to allow forward growth.

Step 2: PROMOTE (positive thought patterns and confidence building)
A series of techniques to focus on the things you have achieved and embed positive association in the brain and neural pathways.

Step 3: LEARN (about your triggers back to old patterns of behaviour and how to mange these, and increase self-awareness to prevent relapse).

Step 4: INSTALL (new anchors)
Using proven techniques, lets work together to build confidence, promote grounding and inner calm. A series of exercises and tools will be given which you can easily access in any given situation, wherever you are.

Step 5: FORWARD (to a brighter future)
Bringing together all we have learned and using it to move forwards in a different mindset.

Step 6: TIME(to be your best self)
You are worth it. You have made the journey. A final look at the whole package of self-care from physical nutrition to what we are feeding our mind. Includes sections on gut health, exercise and sleep hygiene.

The investment: £500 (usually £585, save £85 by booking now!).

If you feel called, if you know you can't do another year without making some changes - now is the time to begin.

07904 839416 or emma@openskieshypnotherapy.co.uk

Step into the driving seat and strap yourself in - 2026 is set to be a ride!

30/12/2025

Good Morning, lovely followers and friends

This week, between Christmas and New Year, has traditionally been a time for me to embark on a writing sanctuary, and I'm so pleased to be doing it again this year. Yesterday I wrote this poem, which is about living in the moment and appreciating the beauty of life. If this is something you struggle with, then do reach out to me. I am now taking bookings for the New Year. I hope you enjoy this offering today. Let me know what it brings up for you :)

Take one step, and leave a watermark in the dew,
Until the grass beneath rises up anew.

Each step, each effort, all too fleeting
No lasting impact, our endeavours beaten.

We strive and toil, to make a mark
Upon this earth, before we depart.

We might create, with words and shows
That linger after we take our final bow.

But how long before our works are forgot?
Our memory begins to fade and rot.

Or maybe we try to break the mould
So our future family, can be more bold.

No trauma left, to dull their light
We’ve changed the pattern, the future’s bright.

But that future family, too will die.
All forgotten, as years pass by.

Our homes that we took such care to keep
Demolished in a rubbled heap.

Our possessions boxed up, given away or sold
With no way to access the tales of old.

Each item holds a story, a memory
But when I died, I took the key.

How , then, do we make that mark,
The one that remains, when it’s all gone dark ?

Maybe it’s not about what we leave
But how we live, while we still can breathe.

Connection, love, and tenderness
Living each day as if we’re truly blessed.

Watching waves crash, upon a shore
Lifting our child on our shoulders, so they can see more.

Dancing in streets while music plays
Quiet moments on yoga mats, Namaste.

Feasting our eyes upon words and art
Listening to songs that touch our heart.

Travelling and seeing this beautiful world
Waiting for our next opportunity to unfurl.

Finding friends who truly understand
Who light the darkness with a guiding hand

Remembering to find magic in the everyday
Because it’s always right here, come what may.

If we live this life, right to the full
Find beauty and magic, be more mindful
Then when our time has come to leave
There will be no need to grieve

No need to worry about our legacy
Or if our dewy step will be erased, as the grass springs free.

Because, you see, we got it right after all
We took this gift of life, and by God! We had a BALL!

21/12/2025

It's almost the big day! And I couldn't feel less festive.

It might be a relief to you, to hear someone else say it. After all, we're meant to be happy, right? It's December, we are 4 days away from Christmas Day and it's FUN.

But life doesn't magically mend itself just because of a date on a calendar. I've struggled to get into a festive frame of mind this year as I face my first Christmas without my Nan.

For some of us, Christmas can be really hard. We might not get on with our families. We might feel a need to please everyone else and not ourselves. We might feel pressure to buy lots of gifts or prepare a perfect feast. And at a time of year when the nights are dark and we are meant to be slowing down, we instead find ourselves frazzled as we push ourselves harder to make Christmas perfect for everyone around us.

Sound familiar?

The good news is, it doesn't have to be this way. I haven't spent Christmas Day with my parents for years. I spend it with my daughter and when she goes to see her Dad between Christmas and New Year, I light a candle and write my books and poems and eat party food. It's wonderful.

If you want to work on:

Letting go of expectation and knowing you are already enough
People Pleasing and how to stop doing it
Feelings of grief around missing a loved one
Guilt or shame connected with cutting off a family member
Navigating tricky relationships while asserting your boundaries

then please reach out and let's go into 2026 with a new mindset and some new tools to really free ourselves.

Bookings are open for January 2026 onwards! 07904 839416 or emma@openskieshypnotherapy.co.uk

15/12/2025

The elves have found the therapy books 😂

Open Skies will close this year on 19th December at 3pm and reopen 2nd January 2026 at 9am.

I would like to say a big thank you to every client for your support this year. It means so much that you placed your trust in me and allowed me the privilege of helping you through hard times.

If you are in need of support over the holiday period, please reach out to one of the many text helplines such as SHOUT on 85258.

Have a peaceful Christmas, do what feels right for you and not what you feel obliged to do. Be gentle with yourself, and I’ll see you next year 🙏

09/12/2025

Good morning 😊

I have some exciting things to mention today!

Firstly, Open Skies is now the proud owner of a lovely new recliner chair! This will really aid my work with hypnotherapy, as clients can lay back with their head and neck fully supported, and their feet raised for optimum comfort.

The next development will be a new glazed and sealed door for the treatment room to hold in the maximum amount of warmth - this is hopefully going to happen in January/February.

The next exciting news is that I am now eligible to qualify as a GHSC (General Hypnotherapy Standards Council) Supervisor! This will enable me to offer supervision to other hypnotherapists.

Hypnotherapy can be largely unregulated and at times dangerous because of this. I am fully regulated by the GHSC and subject to regular supervision myself, to ensure the very best standards.

Supervision is important for both you as a therapist and the people you treat. I am now well into my supervision training and should be qualified very soon!!

30/11/2025

I have a lot to say about this wonderful blog from my friend Sally. Here is where I am going to start.

We have to have the hard conversations.

At this point, several of you have probably stopped reading and closed down your browser. That's not helpful. Because avoidance of the issue does not eradicate the issue - it just makes it worse. We have to face hard things. Sorry, I'm not up for sugar coating.

I wrote my first children's book over a year ago. It talked about running away because the child was caught up in an acrimonious divorce between his parents. I always remember with disbelief the day when a highly educated and intelligent friend of mine, told me they were not going to show their young niece the book because "it might encourage her to run away".

We all want to run away sometimes, even us adults. I'd rather be having a chat with my child about WHY she feels that way, than having to ring the police to report her missing. That was the whole point of the book I wrote. I wanted to encourage CONVERSATION which may have PREVENTED a child from going missing.

If we talk about self-harm, it doesn't make a child want to go out and try it. Self-harm is a fact of life and needs to be discussed as such. It is not a dirty word, a stigma, a taboo subject.

I treat children and teenagers who self-harm because it helps them get through a moment. It quietens the noise in their heads. Time and again they tell me parents have kicked off at them when they discovered the self-harm, followed swiftly by removing all dangerous objects from the house. And I get it. I do. I understand that as a parent, watching your child in this state is terrifying. But this is NOT the way to handle it.

We need to LISTEN to our kids. Really listen. Not impose our own agendas. Not fob them off with an "I'm too busy" or "I am the adult and I know best". Stop that. LISTEN to what they need from you. PLEASE.

If we keep ignoring the issue, it will just become worse. Talking about LGBTQIA+ issues does not make your child gay. Talking about running away does not make your child pack a bag. Talking about self-harm does not make them go out and do it. By hearing what our kids need and how they feel, we open doors to honest dialogue that can help them heal. Surely that's what we all want.

I am running self-harm workshops and presentations in a safe space, so if you do want to find out more about this subject, you can message me for the details.

Sally at S&L Self-Harm Distraction Kits is also around to provide support and information.

The dangerous myth that talking about self-harm causes self harm.

Following my somewhat controversial post about a school not allowing me to have my stall at their event, I decided to write a blog post explaining why I found it disappointing, and hopefully this will help anyone sitting on the fence to have a bit more clarity and understanding why it is important to be open about self-harming behaviours.

The link below will take you to the blog. Please feel free to share 🧡💚

https://www.harmdistractionkits.co.uk/post/the-dangerous-myth-that-talking-about-self-harm-causes-self-harm

30/11/2025

Open Skies is looking for local charities to donate Selection Boxes to this Christmas! If you know anyone who may be interested, please pass on our details and ask them to message us. We will be deciding our final charities next week :)

22/11/2025

If you are looking for a Christmas gift that will last long after the tree has gone down, this could be it! For all children out there who don't feel enough, for parents who are under pressure and sometimes say things they don't mean, for adults who still have a child part inside them that doesn't feel enough.

This book is my absolute proudest achievement of my whole life (apart from giving birth to my daughter!). I wrote it to help families heal, grow and flourish. I wrote it to help children feel heard and understood. I wrote it because as a kid I did not feel enough, and in so many ways I still don't. That inner child has a lot of healing to do still.

Plastic toys will break, clothes will be grown out of, but this book will leave a lasting impact long after the magic of the season has faded.

Available on Amazon OR you can order direct from me at a special promotional price of just £10. I can also make small self-care hampers to accompany the book at an extra cost. Please enquire for details.

Email emma@openskieshypnotherapy.co.uk or telephone 07904 839416