03/05/2026
Lime bikes make your mind wander.
I use one daily, and multiple times a day, i have some time to reflect.
This week i had some of thoughts
1) riding a lime bike when pregnant, i saw it and i didnt know what i thought, i loved it and thought go on thats amazing, exercise movement, doing whatever activity you can during your pregnancy. But then i thought about others, the speed some people go at, how tight canels, roads, lanes can get and the dangers of it. So i asked my followers and they had about a 35/65 split of No to Yes.
2) lotus birth, you don't see often and when they are requested it's not always possible to complete as events change. A proper lotus birth is where the placenta stays on for days, and it falls off. But sometimes it's asked for the cord to stay attached until the placenta is delivered. This week it was possible and completed by an amazing consultant during an instrumental birth, the parents got what they originally wished for on their birth plan, despite events changing from a low risk birth to then going to theatre for instrumental. Communication is key.
3) i cared for a woman yesterday, didn't' speak a word of English and I a word of Spanish. But we got by for hours with the language line for consent and planning, google translate for causal conversation and getting to know each other. So i went on my break and a fantastic spanish speaker midwive became available, I'm so happy she was. It ended up being a beautiful, calm VBAC. But having someone speak her language, immediately gaining that trust, language to communicate slowly, simply and softly no doubt helped. All while I was relaxing having my chicken and rice π
4) 30 weeks is too late, i am consistently saying no to potentially clients, who reach out to work with me after 30 weeks when they see our amazing success stories. You can get benefits in 8-12 weeks for sure, but there is a reason we have a 93% vaginal delivery success rate. Working with our members from as early as possible to build the steps research shows gets success. So after 30 weeks, I don't want to try and cram everything in, rush things. So i have to say no to protecting them and me.