13/03/2026
🗣 Our inner voice performs all kinds of important tasks — but when it gets negative, it can be difficult to turn off.
We’ve all got a voice in our head. (Maybe you can hear yours, right now, reading these words), and though you’re intimately familiar with that inner voice, since it talks to you all day long, you might be surprised to learn just how incessant it is.
📖 According to one study, it can spew up to four thousand words a minute. If you’re awake for sixteen hours, that’s more than 3.8 million words every day!!
That’s because that inner voice does so much for you: It helps you keep information in your head (remembering, say, a phone number, a location or items on a shopping list), it simulates and plans for upcoming events, like a date or an interview, coaches you through problems, and even narrates your life to make sense of your experiences. It’s a good thing, mostly.
We’re talking about this fundamentally important feature of the human mind here, which is our inner voice, it does lots of good stuff for us but sometimes becomes our worst enemy. It tips into worst-enemy territory, when it becomes chatter.
Chatter is the dark side of the inner voice, sometimes negative things do happen in our lives, but then we turn our attention inward to try to make sense of the problem, but we don’t come up with solutions, instead, we start spinning. We worry, we ruminate, we catastrophise, we get stuck in the negative thought loop. Chatter makes it hard for us to focus on our work and be present in our relationships, and has even been shown to negatively impact our physical health, its chatter that keeps us awake at night keeping you fixated on that awkward exchange from earlier in the day or that mistake at work and we run a mental loop of how we should have handled it better all to make us feel better internally about ourselves. It can lead to an influx of negative thinking that in turn effects our mental and physical health if not addressed correctly.
📧 If you struggle to control / understand negative thoughts then maybe now is the time for counselling, DM this page or email info@thementalhealthpath.com to enquire about counselling sessions.