Life After Loss Grief Cafe .

12/05/2026

What would be your chosen charity to make a donation to?

Letting go of a loved ones belongings can be a difficult decision for some . There are often limits on time due to personal circumstances, locations , rental properties , family dynamics etc .

There are professionals that can help with clearing and organisation via Association of Professional Declutterers & Organisers .

We have volunteers that sell things on our attendees behalf on Vinted if it feels to hard to do themselves.

In there’s to be a new ( the first) charity shop opening soon for RSPCA Doncaster and Rotherham Animal Centre so what better time to consider making a donation . But only when the time feels right for you

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Welcome to RSPCA Doncaster and Rotherham Animal Centre 🐶🐈🐰
We rehabilitate and rehome animals, as well as fundraise to help our local community. ✨
For all cruelty reports contact the National RSPCA on 0300 1234 999.

12/05/2026

For me Katie Costello - End of Life Support Services is the font all knowledge when it comes to death and dying . Here she explores some myths and explores options around choice .
Thankyou Katie

Some common myths I had the chance to bust recently and all are very common topics of conversation in my world…

☕️ You CAN be buried in your back garden. As long as you go in the deeds, aren’t too near water and the landowner (so possibly you anyway) approves, go for it. You can bury 2 people but be careful, any more and you’ll have to apply to be a cemetery/burial ground (Also, these are expected, verified deaths we are dealing with 🙈)

☕️ You do not need to use a funeral director. They come in very handy and most of us do for very good reason, but legally you don’t HAVE to.

☕️ You can keep a person at home after they have died. Likely for a couple days, possibly even a week but circumstances vary. This is personal choice with a few SERIOUS things to consider but doable nonetheless. And legal 🙏🏼

☕️ You can transport a person after they have died in any vehicle you like.

☕️ You do not need to use a coffin. Again, few things to think about but don’t assume a coffin HAS to be used for every situation.

☕️ There are many different ways to be a celebrant. I am Independent, some are Humanist, others are ordained and have niche offerings or areas of expertise. Others are many other fabulous things. Have a Google, do your research.

☕️ And know you can call your celebrant BEFORE your funeral director. You don’t have to use who the FD recommends.

☕️ Some peoples skin/body change dramatically when they die, some look almost no different. Please don’t assume the experience you may have had, determines every death and how it looks.

☕️ You do not have to be embalmed, it’s a choice, not a legal requirement. In some situations it may be needed or recommended and do check the fine print on any plans you may have in place.

☕️ There are little to no laws around how you do a funeral and the way you do the service. You have more choice than you realise.

There are so many assumptions made about death, dying and funerals. If you’re feeling able, exploring your choices, finding out about your options and asking questions can really open up a whole new world; it really is an interesting, inspiring and insightful one 🙏🏼❤️

📸 Croydon Cemetery

12/05/2026

I firmly believe Awareness is key. If left without support, unaware of services following a bereavement mental wellness can decline. Social isolation can become a sad reality.
Grief isn’t a mental illness but left unsupported it can most certainly lead to a decline in mental wellness.
“Loss Doesn’t Have to be Lonely “

07/05/2026

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07/05/2026

06/05/2026

This week is week and I saw this post which resonated with me as Barnsley Hospice cared for my Dad in the last week of his life . Rotherham Hospice did a similar thing with feathers last year and are doing a butterfly installation this year at Wentworth woodhouse estate. Not only does this raise funds for the amazing work done by the hospice but it brings comfort to families, raises awareness and most importantly opens up conversations.

The symbolism of something so delicate reminds us life can be fragile. Seeing hundreds of these together is very moving.
This week highlights the importance of talking about our own lives and wishes with those we love ,while we can .

06/05/2026

Welcome to our newest followers! Good to have you with us .

Nichola Sykes, Lizzie Russell, Aisha Dogonyaro

04/05/2026

I got over 10 reactions on one of my posts last week! Thanks everyone for your support! 🎉 with over 700 followers think how many people are being supported. Each time you interact with comments, likes n shares FB recognizes that as share worthy and shows to others . So thankyou everyone it really does help 👏🙏🥰

03/05/2026

Do we believe in Angel Numbers ?
Our page today reached 777 followers ! You are part of our Community take from this what you will .
What I see is ‘ no need to stress. Just keep moving’ Small steps is all that’s needed right now 🥰🌈🦋❤️‍🩹🪽

02/05/2026

Just wanna put it out there …..

I officially hate tech!! I won’t say which one as big brother is watching ( but it’s this one ) 😵‍💫😤🤯

Being neurospicy comes with its challenges . I can confuse myself so I try to make things as clear n easy to understand as I can but it’s a challenge .

When you set up a booking for a very special event then it doesn’t show links or let you click on and view comments it’s heartbreaking . 💔🪽 The people that need this event need it to be straightforward to book and when gremlins are at work that’s frustrating 🤯
Having to check settings to show all as they auto reset 😤.

Please please please don’t give up DM on messenger and I will reply 🙏

Direct link

https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/say-their-name-child-loss-grief-gathering-tickets-1986900229071?utm-campaign=social&utm-content=attendeeshare&utm-medium=discovery&utm-term=listing&utm-source=wsa&aff=ebdsshwebmobile

01/05/2026

If have ever sadly experienced the death of a child this event is here to support you ,their parents. 🪽💔

A gentle gathering in a beautiful woodland in Arksey surrounded by stillness.

Our expert grief specialists & caring volunteers will hold your hand ( if you need it ) as well as your heart as together we create grief art , cook together , take a nature walk ,experience a healing sound bath and a somatic chair based grief movement session using breathwork , sound and movement which has the most powerful effects- learning to express and release emotional pain .

All activities are optional with a dedicated breakout space and the event itself is free to attend . Donations are welcome

Our closing ceremony around the fire pit will forge a community that has bonds that will last way beyond the day itself .
Booking is essential as numbers are limited to remain relaxed and avoid overwhelm.
The link is in the event below . Please share 🙏

Any question please DM or email
Tracy@foundmyniche.co.uk