11/09/2025
Good morning everyone ❤️ I hope you are enjoying the changing seasons and the fresh, crispy weather outside 🍁 🍂 🍁 🍂
I might get into a bit of trouble for saying this, but I feel it’s important to speak from the heart. Lately, I’ve noticed how often we are told that someone “out there” can heal us — through this modality, that technique, or by following their guidance. Many healers sincerely want to help, but when the message becomes, “I am the one who can fix you,” I can’t help but feel that ego is taking center stage.
To me, true healing is something that only awakens from within, and only when we are ready. No one can do it for us. At best, another person can hold a safe, sacred space — a container where we feel supported enough to begin our own inner work. But the actual transformation is between us, our spirit, and something greater than ourselves.
The older I get, the more intentional I’ve become about who I allow to hold space for me. Even joy, creativity, or inspiration can arise from ego if we are not mindful. That’s why, in the work I offer, I try to stay deeply caring but also detached — creating the container, witnessing the magic, and resisting the urge to claim it as “mine.”
I know we are all connected, that there is no true separation. But even in that oneness, the ego loves to take credit too quickly. For me, the practice is to stay humble, to stay curious, and to let healing happen on its own timing. It is often messy, chaotic and the deepest change happens through pain. We have to let go and move right through it and always remember that the true liberation arrives when we realise, that we are the ones who are healing ourselves with a little bit of guidance by like-minded souls ❤️
Have a lovely day
Blessings
Ilona - Snowy Feather
