13/12/2022
The Christmas period, whether you follow a faith, religion, belief system or follow your own path, can be a time for poignant reflection. We hopefully will spend some time thinking of good times, happy memories with those we love and respect and being grateful. But, of course, being human we can focus on missed opportunities and thoughts of regret can linger. If someone we love has died, we can at times fret over what was not said, how we didn't get a chance to tell that person how much they impacted our life, how we didn't say sorry and so on. People can show their love and regard for the person by attending the funeral but that missed chance may stay with them. Haruki Murakami said "Death is not the opposite of life, but a part of it". With that notion in mind it can be a big thing to start a conversation about death and people's beliefs and wishes but it doesn't have to be. Start the conversation with small things such as the music you love and what happy memories a tune can evoke or go huge and search for thoughts on burial or cremation? Over the next few posts I would like to share some practical considerations which may help you or your friends through that difficult time approaching death and the administration afterwards with some support options too. Please think of your loved ones that have died this Christmas and try to focus on the smiles, the laughs and the warmth you shared with them. Dx