Jacqueline Green Counselling

Jacqueline Green Counselling I am a young person and adult counsellor. BSc, PGDip, MBACP. I am a registered member of the BACP.

I offer online and phone counselling sessions throughout the UK and additionally, face to face within East Lothian. All emotions, challenges, life experiences and difficulties are welcome in counselling. Some of my speciality areas include; adolescents, childhood trauma, attachment/ relationships, grief/bereavement, suicidal ideation, pre/postnatal difficulties and estrangement. As a person-centred counsellor, I adapt my practice depending on a person's unique needs to ensure that you get what you need out of counselling. I will offer you understanding, empathy and complete acceptance. I hope that this helps you to feel comfortable, trusted and safe, especially because talking through some of our most difficult feelings can be scary. By validating your emotions and experiences, and sometimes offering gentle challenge to gain insight and awareness, we can work together, at your own pace, to process and heal your difficulties and help you move forward in healthier ways, in a way that's more true to who you really are.

10/10/2025

This week, two moments really stood out to me with therapy outside.

A client and I were walking, talking about feeling stuck in life. Wondering if it was the universe’s sign to give up a dream they were pursuing.
As we noticed our pace, the way we slowed down, the pauses between us, it mirrored exactly what was happening inside.
The outside world became a kind of parallel process; the space, the air, even the uneven ground helped us both make sense of what “stuck” really felt like and what it might mean to move again.

Later in the week, a supervisee chose to have their session outside too. It rained - but we both had wellies and boots on so it gave us this permission to just put our hoods up and move at some pace! There was something so grounding and safe about it.
The sound of rain softened the edges of our words. There was no rush, no performance.
Just two people walking together, thinking, reflecting. Pausing for little moments where we noticed what was coming up in between us.
By the time we looped back to where we started, we both noticed how the conversation, like the walk, had unfolded naturally.
What began heavy had somehow found space to breathe.

That’s the quiet power of being outside.
It’s therapy (or supervision!) that moves with you…. sometimes literally, and it often finds its own rhythm before you even notice it’s happening.

🌧️ Sometimes, it’s not about the conditions being perfect. It’s about realising you can still find clarity, grounding, and safety 🌧️ even in the rain.

08/10/2025

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We learn to smile through so much, don’t we?
To sound okay. To seem okay. To keep going.
Even when our body quietly whispers not again.

Maybe it’s that familiar heaviness in your chest.
That tension in your jaw.
That tiny pause before you say “I’m fine” and keep moving.
Maybe it’s that reoccurring headache.
Or the gastro inflammation every year.

These are the quiet signs of a system doing its best to keep you safe…. to keep the peace, to hold it all together, to stay in control, to not be a bother.

But when we spend our lives overriding those signals,
we lose touch with what our body’s been trying to tell us all along.

In therapy, we start to notice that. It starts simple.
We might firstly start to recognise biological sensations like needing to eat or drink. Then we may move onto physiological or emotion sensations. The sighs, the pauses, the protective smiles or pleasing tendencies.
Over time we closer attention at a pace that feels okay to you.

Because awareness isn’t just in the mind, it’s in the moments your body speaks before your words do.

✨ You don’t have to keep saying “good morning”
when what you really mean is “this is hard, I’m not okay today”.

Come as you are in therapy - I’ll help you learn how to unfilter yourself
J x

Ps
Sorry for this awful video 😂💁‍♀️

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………. is that knowing and understanding isn’t the same as healing.You can understand why you are the way you are, trace i...
07/10/2025

………. is that knowing and understanding isn’t the same as healing.

You can understand why you are the way you are, trace it back, make sense of it, put all the pieces together, and still find yourself stuck in the same patterns.
Does this sound familiar to you?
It’s like the intellectualisation is there….. but then what?!

It’s because healing doesn’t just live in the mind…. it lives in the body too.
You can’t think your way out of what was learned through feeling, tension, or survival.

So much of what we call “overthinking” or “shutdown” is really the body doing what it’s always done- keeping you safe, even when that safety no longer serves you.

In therapy, we start to listen to what the body has been saying all along.
The stories that never found words, the tightness in your chest when you speak, the exhaustion that never quite lifts, the jaw that won’t relax, the urge to keep busy because slowing down feels unsafe. These are just some examples.

This is where bringing the body into therapy can be so powerful. It helps you notice. Soften. Stay with what’s happening…. not to fix it, but to understand it differently. Because when the body begins to feel safe enough to exhale, the mind can rest too.

I do this through mindful noticing, guided release, walk & talk therapy in nature, somatic awareness, trauma informed approaches and visualisation.

Therapy isn’t just about insight…. it’s about integration.
Mind and body beginning to speak the same language again.

If you’ve ever been stuck in this place I described…. there are other ways to move forward, you don’t have to stay here ❤️
Get in touch if this speaks to you! I have two spaces opening up later this October :)

We tell ourselves….. ‘this is just how I am’ or ‘this is just how things are’. That might be a behaviour we have, a habi...
03/10/2025

We tell ourselves….. ‘this is just how I am’ or ‘this is just how things are’.
That might be a behaviour we have, a habit, a relationship we are in or job. Sometimes we carry patterns for years.

But just because it’s familiar, doesn’t mean it’s the safest place to land.
Often the opposite is true because familiarity might be keeping you small, stuck and disconnected from who we really are.

The truth is, your comfort zone isn’t always comfortable - it’s predictable. And I know that predictability can feel easier than facing the unknown, but sometimes we need to do it anyway.

Noticing our patterns, choices, and ways and reflecting on what’s keeping you there is part of our therapy we can do together. As well as finding out what true safety might look like for you.

What might be possible for you? 😌

I see you…👀 Finishing work late to tick off the “last task,” even though your body is screaming for a break.👀 Running to...
24/09/2025

I see you…

👀 Finishing work late to tick off the “last task,” even though your body is screaming for a break.
👀 Running to catch the early train, already exhausted before the day has begun.
👀 Getting the kids dressed, fed, and out the door in their best gear, while you barely managed breakfast or water for yourself.
👀 Smiling through meetings or social chats while your mind is swirling with unfinished to-dos.
👀 Comparing yourself to everyone else’s highlights reel, wondering why you can’t “do it all.”
👀 Trying to appear fine while inside you want to scream.
👀 Running from task to task when all your body needs is to slow down.

You’re carrying a lot, and it’s not small.
But noticing it is the first step toward giving yourself the care, pause, and support you deserve.

You don’t have to keep proving yourself to anyone - you just have to show up for yourself.

I know how hard it is to change lifetime habits, but I’m here to help you learn how.
Reach out if you’re ready to change how you show up!

Every now and then I take a little moment to consider what is the same, and what’s changed. My somatic therapy and traum...
19/09/2025

Every now and then I take a little moment to consider what is the same, and what’s changed.

My somatic therapy and trauma informed expertise have been and continue to be integrated into the way I work.
And I think that needs a little moment.

Your body holds the story.
Your entire body, not just your brain!
I believe that so much of what we experience - happiness, joy, stress, grief, and trauma…. is held not just in our minds, but in our bodies. We are entwined and just one system after all!

That’s why my somatic and trauma-informed approach isn’t just an add-on; it’s the foundation of my practice.

In your sessions with me, whether we’re online or on a Walk & Talk session, we’ll create space for those physical feelings as well as the thought patterns.
It could be noticing a lump in your throat when you talk about loss - or feeling your shoulders relax as you walk - or noticing the your jaw unclench as we soften and validate your story - or noticing your breath on a cold winter walk as we talk about the family dinner you had on the weekend - or the anxious energy exuding from a young persons fidgety movements.

We’ll use these body sensations, along with traditional talking therapy, as a compass, gently guiding you toward a deeper understanding of yourself and helping you find a new sense of peace and wholeness.

This is about more than just comfort in conversation; it’s a journey back to yourself or towards your new sense of self.

If you’re ready to show up for yourself, I’m here and you’ve got this!

Now that September is here - you’ll see lots of messages online from everyone and anyone, about slowing down, recharging...
03/09/2025

Now that September is here - you’ll see lots of messages online from everyone and anyone, about slowing down, recharging in the colder months, grounding and giving yourself permission to hibernate - especially as A/W is on the horizon.

I myself am a seasonal person myself - what that means for me is that my life can look differently depending on the season.
Hobbies, how I spend my time, my energy - everything shifts and I lean into the opportunities that each season brings me!

So before the season moves into the depths of Autumn and I naturally slow down, I notice that my life is still full just now, busy, and a little all over the place. Is yours?

So this month, I want to explore Anchoring - finding those tiny, steady moments that help us feel calm and present even when life is busy. It might be a deep breath, noticing the colours of the world around you, or a mindful sip of tea. Small, simple things, but they make a difference.

What does life look like for you this month?
Busy, stretched, excited, a bit unsettled? If so, you’re in the right place!!

Practising these little anchors now can give us tools to carry into the run-up to the darker months - and maybe even make the transition a little gentler.

Over the coming weeks, I’ll be sharing simple, practical ways to anchor yourself, and I’d love for you to follow along, especially on my stories….. 🌿
Let’s see if we can find calm in the little moments together.

Who’s here with me? 🙋‍♀️🙋🏻

I’ve just moved house recently, and I’ll be honest, it knocked me sideways. On paper, it’s “just moving.” A list of task...
29/08/2025

I’ve just moved house recently, and I’ll be honest, it knocked me sideways.

On paper, it’s “just moving.”
A list of tasks: pack boxes, change addresses, figure out where the mugs live in the new kitchen (fyi I haven’t even done this yet!).
But underneath, it’s so much more than that.

The house you leave behind isn’t just bricks. It’s where your routines happened on autopilot.
Where you knew which floorboards creaked and which window let in the last of the evening sun.
It’s where the invisible threads of your daily life lived.

And when you move, all of that unravels.
You lose the muscle memory of your own life. You reach for the cupboard that doesn’t exist anymore.

You feel unsettled, because you’re not just in a new space, you’re in between versions of yourself.

This is why moving can feel so derailing.
It messes with your sense of ground, your identity, even your nervous system.
Because home isn’t just where you live.
It’s where you orient yourself.
And rebuilding that takes time.

So if you’ve ever moved and wondered why you felt “off” or strangely emotional - you’re not alone. It’s not weakness. It’s transition. And transitions ask more of us than we realise.

I’m reminding myself of that right now: it’s okay if things feel shaky for a while.
It’s okay if the ground doesn’t feel steady yet. A new rhythm will come.
But for now - one box at a time, one breath at a time, one small anchor at a time ☺️

Moving house, changing jobs, becoming a parent, new friendships, ending of relationships, family changes, health changes, your child leaving home and even leaving home yourself if you’re a young adult……These are all examples of life transitions which can completely derail you. And there’s so many more!!!
So be kind to yourself if you’re navigating any of these, or any others just now ❤️

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