A Positive Touch

A Positive Touch Reflexologist, Reiki MasterTeacher, student of Naturopathy and Nutrition, Nurse BSc.

Empowering women from menarche to menopause 💫Helping you reclaim balance & well-being naturally 🌸
🌿 Reflexology | Fertility | Womens Health, Holistic Healing

For a very long time, I stayed quiet about Reiki. Coming from a clinical background, I was cautious about speaking openl...
26/05/2026

For a very long time, I stayed quiet about Reiki. Coming from a clinical background, I was cautious about speaking openly about energy work because I know it can be misunderstood. But over the years, through both personal experience and working with clients, I’ve seen how deeply powerful simple energetic support, relaxation, and nervous system regulation can be.

Reiki isn’t about magic or fixing people, for me, it’s about creating space for the body and mind to soften, rebalance, and heal. Reiki works on the understanding that everything in the body carries energy …. every cell, every organ, every emotion, every thought. We are not just physical beings; we are energetic beings too.

Our bodies constantly communicate through electrical impulses, magnetic fields, hormones, vibration, and frequency. When our energy is flowing freely, we feel calmer, clearer, lighter, emotionally balanced, and more connected to ourselves and our environment.

Over time, stress, trauma, grief, fear, illness, emotional suppression, exhaustion, and even constant overstimulation can create energetic congestion within the body. These “blockages” are not always something we can physically see, but we feel them. They show up as tension, anxiety, emotional heaviness, fatigue, brain fog, disrupted sleep, pain, or a feeling of being disconnected from ourselves. The body tightens in response to stress, and the nervous system moves into survival mode.

Reiki gently supports the body back into a state of balance. It is not about forcing or fixing; it’s about allowing. During Reiki, the body often shifts from a stressed sympathetic state into a parasympathetic state … the body’s natural healing and restorative mode.
As the nervous system relaxes, breathing deepens, muscles soften, and the body no longer feels the need to “hold on” so tightly.

When energetic blockages begin to release, people often describe feeling lighter, warmer, calmer, emotional, peaceful, more expansive or deeply relaxed. This is because stagnant energy starts to move again.

Our vibration is influenced by everything we experience:

🌿our thoughts
🌿emotions
🌿environment
🌿stress levels
🌿relationships
🌿nutrition
🌿sleep
🌿self-worth
🌿and the energy we surround ourselves with

Higher vibration does not mean being “happy all the time.” It means the body and energy field are functioning in greater harmony and coherence. Emotions such as love, gratitude, compassion, calmness, purpose, and connection tend to create a lighter energetic state within the body, while chronic fear, anger, shame, overwhelm, or emotional suppression can feel heavier and denser energetically.

People often notice that after Reiki they feel more grounded, emotionally clearer, and more able to cope. Their energy feels softer rather than depleted. Others around them can often sense this shift too … even without words.

Animals are incredibly sensitive to energy because they do not rely on language in the same way humans do. They respond to frequency, nervous system regulation, intention, and emotional safety. Animals often instinctively move towards people with calm, balanced energy and will avoid chaotic, dysregulated or heavy energy. They can hear changes in tone, feel tension in the body, and sense emotional states long before words are spoken.

This is why animals will often settle beside someone who is calm and energetically grounded. It’s also why our voice changes when our energy changes. When we are relaxed and regulated, our tone naturally softens, slows, and carries safety. Both humans and animals respond to this instinctively.

Reiki reminds the body of what balance feels like. It creates space for the body, mind, and energy to breathe again … not by adding something unnatural, but by supporting the body back towards its own innate ability to heal, to regulate, and restore itself.

It’s simply beautiful

Menopause has a way of stripping things back to bare truth.The masks. The people-pleasing. The pressure to stay small, q...
20/05/2026

Menopause has a way of stripping things back to bare truth.
The masks. The people-pleasing. The pressure to stay small, quiet, agreeable.
At this stage of life, many women begin remembering who they were before the world told them who to be.

And maybe that’s why sisterhood matters more than ever during this phase.

As women, we are connected through something ancient and deeply intelligent … our cycles, our intuition, our bodies, our stories. From first bleed to motherhood, heartbreak, healing, loss, rebirth, and menopause… we carry wisdom that cannot be taught from a textbook alone.

Menopause is not the end of our power.
It is often the return of it.

This season asks us to gather differently.
Less competition.
Less comparison.
Less “mean girl” energy disguised as banter, gossip, jealousy, or exclusion.

More honesty.
More compassion.
More women reminding other women who they are.

Because the truth is … life has humbled every one of us in some way. We all know what it feels like to be judged, overlooked, unsupported, exhausted, hormonal, grieving parts of ourselves, or trying to hold everything together while quietly falling apart.

So my circle is becoming a place of softness and strength.
A place where women are safe to evolve.
Safe to age.
Safe to speak.
Safe to rest.
Safe to rise.

No mean girl energy allowed here.
We are too grown, too wise, and too connected for that.

Menopause teaches us that energy matters.
And I choose women who heal, encourage, uplift, and remember that we were never meant to do this alone.

✨ The nervous system calms in safe company.
✨ Healing deepens in supportive spaces.
✨ Women thrive when women stop tearing each other apart.

So, here’s to the women who remember their power, honour their wisdom, and rise together instead of competing, because when women truly support each other, generations heal. 🌿✨

So now we have “menopause body wash.” 🙃Yes, menopausal skin can absolutely become:drier, thinner, more sensitive, and it...
19/05/2026

So now we have “menopause body wash.” 🙃

Yes, menopausal skin can absolutely become:
drier, thinner, more sensitive, and itchier

Hormonal changes affect the skin barrier, collagen and hydration levels. That part is real.

But here’s my question…

Why are so many menopause-branded products still packed with:
📌fragrance
📌foaming surfactants
📌preservatives
📌unnecessary additives

…when sensitive menopausal skin often needs the opposite?

Personally, I’d rather see:
✔ a gentle sulphate-free wash for the body
✔ minimal ingredients
✔ fragrance-free skincare
✔ protecting the skin barrier
✔ hydration and nutrition support from within

And for intimate skin? Often less is more. Warm water, gentle emollients or simple natural oils (if tolerated) can be kinder than heavily fragranced “feminine” products.

Not everything with “menopause” printed on the label is revolutionary care.

Sometimes it’s just standard skincare wrapped in menopause marketing.

Women deserve proper support, education and evidence-based care, not simply another demographic to sell products to.

What do you think 🤔 a helpful innovation or clever rebranding? 👀

What a truly beautiful day we shared at our Menopause Workshop at the stunning Forbes of Kingennie. The sunshine appeare...
18/05/2026

What a truly beautiful day we shared at our Menopause Workshop at the stunning Forbes of Kingennie. The sunshine appeared for us, creating the perfect setting for a day of learning, connection, reflection and restoration. ☀️✨

Together, we explored so much more than menopause itself. We talked about how our hormones have been communicating with us cycle after cycle since puberty, and how menopause is not simply about the reproductive system … it is a whole-body, whole-mind transition.

We discussed how every system within the body is deeply connected, and how women’s bodies operate very differently from male bodies because of the constant ebb, flow and shifting nature of our hormonal system throughout life.

We explored the three major hormonal transition points in a woman’s life and the profound impact these shifts can have physically, emotionally and mentally. We also spoke about what to be mindful of health-wise during and after menopause, and how we can nurture and support ourselves moving into this next phase of life.

The day was beautifully layered with wisdom and self-care:
✨ Understanding skin changes during menopause from both emotional and Chinese Medicine perspectives
✨ Learning why the products we use matter✨ A guided reflexology facial routine for home use, along with lovely products to take away
✨ Exploring the body’s 7 main chakras and what they can represent during menopause
✨ Strength-building yoga demonstrations
✨ A deeply restorative yoga nidra, meditation and gorgeous sound bath experience

And of course, time to simply sit, chat, laugh and connect over lunch with a wonderful group of women.

To every woman who attended …

✨Thank you✨

Thank you for showing up for yourselves, for your openness, your honesty and for trusting us to hold this space and provide an informative and supportive day. We appreciate each and every one of you so much. 💛

A heartfelt thank you also to this beautiful first collaboration together.

With big love ❤️

Tracey, Alexandra & Elaine ✨ #

Today, a client asked me a really important question after being diagnosed with depression during peri-menopause.She sha...
13/05/2026

Today, a client asked me a really important question after being diagnosed with depression during peri-menopause.

She shared that she had also experienced postnatal depression after each of her children and wondered:
“Could there be a link?”

I can completely understand why she would make that connection and interestingly, research suggests there may be something in it.

We are learning more about how some women may be particularly sensitive to hormonal changes during key stages of life, including:
✨ Postpartum
✨ Perimenopause
✨ Menopause

Studies have found that women who have experienced postnatal depression may have a higher likelihood of experiencing depression again during perimenopause or menopause. However this does not mean it will happen to everyone, nor does it mean menopause will automatically be “worse,” but it may suggest a greater sensitivity to hormonal fluctuation and nervous system stress.

Of course, menopause is never just about hormones alone.

Menopause can be deeply layered with sleep disruption, stress, emotional load, caring responsibilities, burnout, nutritional status, previous mental health history, and life changes, all of which can have a significant impact too.

What’s important is that women know they are not imagining it, they are not failing and they are not alone.

So many women struggle silently with:
• Anxiety
• Low mood
• Brain fog
• Irritability
• Feeling emotionally overwhelmed
• Loss of confidence
• Exhaustion

Yet often put it down to “just getting older.”

The more we talk openly about hormonal and emotional health across a woman’s lifespan, the more supported, understood and safe women will feel.

And perhaps most importantly:
A history of postnatal depression does not define someone’s menopause journey, but it can give us valuable insight into how we can support women earlier, more compassionately, and more holistically.

Menopause isn't "just hormones." It's your nervous system asking for support.Hot flushes. Anxiety. Poor sleep. Palpitati...
11/05/2026

Menopause isn't "just hormones." It's your nervous system asking for support.

Hot flushes. Anxiety. Poor sleep. Palpitations. That "wired but exhausted" feeling.

For many women, menopause can leave the body stuck in a heightened stress response ... where the nervous system struggles to switch off and reset.

This is why reflexology can be so powerful.
During a recent treatment, we tracked a client's heart rate response throughout the session.
The graph shows what happened as the body shifted from fight-or-flight into rest-and-repair mode.

A measurable reduction in heart rate.
A visible sign of the nervous system regulating.
A body finally being given permission to exhale.
This matters during menopause because when the nervous system settles, we often see support for:

🌿Better sleep
🌿Reduced anxiety
🌿Improved stress resilience
🌿Hormonal balance support
🌿A greater sense of calm and clarity

Menopause is a transition ... not something to have to "put up with."
Your body is always communicating. Sometimes it just needs the right support to feel safe enough to rebalance.

If menopause is leaving you feeling disconnected from yourself, reflexology may help bring your body back into balance.

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Now, I may well alienate myself here. But what the hell! Here I am this week with my “meno moon face” “Meno moon face” i...
10/05/2026

Now, I may well alienate myself here. But what the hell!

Here I am this week with my “meno moon face”

“Meno moon face” is bigger than appearance. It is the visible face of chronic stress, cortisol, overwhelm, self-neglect, survival mode, and hormonal transition colliding together.

Im probably speaking for a whole generation of women quietly carrying:

* ageing parents,
* struggling adult children,
* financial pressure,
* career pivots,
* study,
* emotional labour,
* grief,
* worry,
* hormones,
* and the expectation to keep functioning like nothing’s happening.

Menopause didn’t arrive quietly for me it arrived during all of the above - children needing support, illness, job changes, studying, financial pressure, trying to build a future, and carrying everyone else while still trying to hold myself together.

I don’t think I even noticed the first few years … I just kept going!

I think many women in midlife are “ the sandwich generation” . We are sandwiched in between all of this, and expected to keep juggling all the balls, spinning the plates and looking like nothings phasing us!

But, for some of us - somewhere along the line, we stop recognising ourselves. Our body and mind start to tell the story

Menopause has humbled me in ways I never expected.

Hormones, stress, inflammation, poor sleep … they all show up on the body and face eventually.

So instead of chasing perfection, I’m focusing on supporting my body & mind properly again.

Over the next 3–6 months I’m committing to:
✨ movement
✨ nourishment
✨ nervous system support
✨ hormone-friendly habits
✨ less self-neglect
✨ maintaining the boundaries I have already created

Not because I want to look “perfect” but because I want to feel like myself again.

So this is my starting point.
No filters. No pretending. No shame.

I’m checking back in at 3 months (mid August) and 6 months ( mid November) … not to become perfect, but to become healthier, calmer, stronger, and more like myself again.

Maybe some of you will join me🌙
You would be very welcome ✨

✨A little glimpse of what the body does when it finally feels safe This is a heart rate graph from one of my clients dur...
07/05/2026

✨A little glimpse of what the body does when it finally feels safe

This is a heart rate graph from one of my clients during a recent session.

She is holding a lot mentally and physically (something I see so often in women), a busy mum, wife, a career, shift work, looking after parents (juggling all the balls!)

During the session, we talked, she processed, she released...And her body responded.

You can clearly see her heart rate begin to drop and stabilise ... a shift out of "fight or flight" and into a calmer, regulated state.

After the session, as she returned to her day, her heart rate rises again - back into the demands of everyday life.

This is exactly why nervous system support matters.
Because many women are living in a constant state of “on"... and don't realise what true regulation feels like anymore.

Sessions like this give the body a chance to:
🌿Reset
🌿Rebalance
🌿Begin to repair

And over time, this is where deeper healing happens.

✨Supporting the nervous system is foundational to hormone health, fertility, sleep, emotional wellbeing, and overall wellness

✨The body responds when it feels safe

✨This is the work

(Client data shared with permission & gratitude)

Time to restock I think! One of my most important pieces of kit … ✨I honestly couldn’t be without my go-to reflexology w...
05/05/2026

Time to restock I think!
One of my most important pieces of kit … ✨

I honestly couldn’t be without my go-to reflexology wax.
IThe texture, the glide, the grip, the quality !
it’s one of those quiet essentials that makes such a difference to every treatment.

I now choose it unscented, which gives me the freedom to create my own Aromareflex blends for each client 🌿

Some days, it’s about lifting the mood and bringing a little lightness back in…Other times, it’s about holding space for deeper emotions, calming the nervous system, or creating a sense of grounding and safety.

Every blend is intentional

Because no two women, no two bodies, and no two moments are ever the same 💛

🪴🌿Herb of the day in my garden 🌿🪴 I've been working more intentionally with my own plants as part of my naturopathy trai...
04/05/2026

🪴🌿Herb of the day in my garden 🌿🪴

I've been working more intentionally with my own plants as part of my naturopathy training.

Today it's lovage, traditionally used for digestive support and fluid balance.

I'm not rushing this stage. I'm just observing, using, and learning from what I've grown myself, getting to know the plants and their medicine.

Lovage is one of the most underrated herbs for women's health... and it's been growing quietly in my garden.

It's not fancy. It's not trendy.But it's powerful.
Especially if you're in that perimenopause phase where:
*You feel bloated for no clear reason ✔️
*Your body feels heavy or puffy ✔️
*Digestion just isn't doing what it used to ✔️
(I seem to have the lot)

This is the kind of plant that supports your body back into balance gently, although you don't need an awful lot of it, strong in taste and action. It tastes very like celery.

I'll use it in a simple daily broth, or tea to start. Then I'll dry it to add a smidging to teas, stews and soups and I'll add it to bone broth and freeze, another good use is to make lovage salt. Theres lots of ways to use it up.

One to be more careful with if you have renal issues, and on renal medications.

Love that nature gives us all of this, just amazing ❤️

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