09/07/2025
'Problems'
It is very true that as we age in life we really look at life differently, we no longer worry about trivial things that we may have before, yes this is part of ageing but also it is about contentment, being happy.
In today's world I see so many unhappy people everywhere, and I can't help but think these people clearly have not done the inner work on themselves to find happiness because that is what you need to do in life to find happiness, peace and contentment.
When I look and listen to people who constantly complain, are constantly negative, constantly looking at what other's have, constantly looking at what other's are doing I try very hard not to judge them.
But one cannot help think, why are they so invested in someone else's life, why are they not doing the work.
Regardless of how successful people look never judge it is something ( I myself am not nor never have been interested in ) because the old saying is so very true
If we all put our problems on the table, we would take our own back 'everytime'
I have taught myself throughout my life
🌸if I am not happy with something only I can change it.
🌸 What has happened in the past cannot be undone.
🌸People want you to fail, sadly some people want you to fail just so they can watch... disappoint them
🌸Some People are no longer genuine, empathy is lacking avoid them
🌸The lengths people will go to see you suffer is actually endless, surprise them
🌸Happy people don't care what anyone else is doing, because they're busy being happy ( FACT) I am one of them.
🌸We all need to do the work from the inside, carrying hate, anger, resentment, will make you ill (FACT)
🌸If you look at the years behind you, and visualise how many years 'you may' have ahead it's not a pretty sight, but reality.
So don't f@ it up.......
🌸If you don't own a f@ it bucket may I suggest you purchase one game changer..
🌸No matter how close you get to the altar or how many bible classes you attend.....
You are not guaranteed admission............
[ MY OWN OPINION]
🌸Somewhere along the way people have become unrecognizable even amongst families, we cannot change others, we can only be the best possible version of ourselves and this ONLY happens if you do the work.
Again this work must start from within.....
🌸I don't know what others are doing it is none of my business, if I can help someone 'I will'
If someone doesn't like me..... I genuinely wish them well 😊
If someone actually believes everything they hear about another..... I will keep them in my prayers
🌸I have done the work, I have cried the tears, I have felt the pain, I have made mistakes ( who hasn't) I have lost people, I have ' wasted ' years of my life, I have been in dark places, I have invested time, effort and money in the wrong people just because they burn oil's, talk about forgiveness, holistic, empathy ( my a@@ ) they don't impress me, I have made wrong choices, I have f@ up.....
BUT
🌸 I have done the work, and today I may be older but I am content in my life for those cheering me on I am entirely grateful 🙏
For those whom are watching looking failure get
'a life'
Please do the work.... noone else can make you go from miserable to happy
BUT YOURSELF
Start with the F@ it bucket
I did 😊
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